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Posted: 2 years ago

Why can’t they make Akshara phenomenally successful in something other than goofing up?

1. Singing, music album concerts - now 🛑

2. Akshara music and dance academy- now 🛑

3. Verses on cards/ running a convenience store- now. 🛑

4. Music Therapy- now 🛑
5. Jamming- can’t she at least be a spectacularly ( or even moderately) successful small business owner?





Originally posted by: iheartChai


Exactly! These two are the only two who can truly handle each other. Functional dysfunctional couple 🤣


They call each other out on their bull too 🤣

Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: IAMHope

Why can’t they make Akshara phenomenally successful in something other than goofing up?

1. Singing, music album concerts - now 🛑

2. Akshara music and dance academy- now 🛑

3. Verses on cards/ running a convenience store- now. 🛑

4. Music Therapy- now 🛑
5. Jamming- can’t she at least be a spectacularly ( or even moderately) successful small business owner?





Nope she's only successful at being a punching bag and the ultimate escape goat 🐐! She's also them dirt/colour catcher sheets that you stuff in the washing machine so everything else comes out super clean 🤷‍♂️

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Posted: 2 years ago

I m literally prepared for this in upcoming


https://twitter.com/JasminJazu/status/1613232579255357441?s=19

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Posted: 2 years ago

the 2nd leap is nasty but it showed some major truths and flaws of both abhimanyu and akshara which both are not ready to except and the cruelty of fate is if they dont get past these flaws they can never have a successful marriage especially now when they have a kid.

for abhimanyu.

his mind is numbed with all the drama going around him since his childhood with his mother and rest of family. most of the time abhi is shown humane and his humanity shines especially as far as his profession is considered .his empathy towards others and practical approach is his normal trait when it comes opposing bad and siding with good.

but it disrupts when it comes to his most loved ones especially his mother and akshara and now roohi. he goes to extreme lengths and try to alienate others from them in order to protect them.

like in case of his father he totally cutts off his relation to spare himself of the pain .and he expects manjiri to also do the same. which is wrong because he categorizes problems as white or black not considers it can be grey.

he never thought keeping himself in the shoes of harsh or manjiri.

i.e is his problem which is shown in his relationship with akshara too,

in both seperation he thought about the pain he went through or the apparent risk for his mother who supposedly is in death bed. so in fit of anger. he as always decided to cutoof akshara by giving divorce.insteadd of trying to make akshara understand or even showing some patience and humanity he brutally divorced her .

he needs to understand that even if his mothers condition is not stable or she is in death bed he should have have patience to be with akshara not only to reduce the burden of her guilt but as a husband whose wife has lost their children .

this flaw of abhi to cut people off and be in his own bubble of self loathing and agony is the brutal reality which abhi need to understand this time because this time he not only just seperated himself from akshara but also from abhir and plunged abhir into this cycle of hate. he needs to overcome this flaw if he dont want to see abhir and him enacting the same hate story which he and his father had lived.


Edited by SAOkr - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago

This baar baar leap ka glorify by Sitara is damn irritating and annoying


https://twitter.com/StarPlus/status/1613171094214807553?s=19


More than anything it's kids suffering ... anyways abhir ll be settled by lot of trails , sufferings and on making him accept abhimanyu..but roohi i don't think she can think this in a normal way ..


Abhi can manage or not itself a big question mark along with akshu..


The way arohi and rooh dialogues each episode getting repeated slits a sign for next track after reunion

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Posted: 2 years ago

Tomorrow enters the yrkkh into completion of 14th year which started on 12th Jan 2009


https://twitter.com/harshaliEra/status/1613239206670905345?s=19

Jho bhi kaand in tracks ...it's really a big think for long running show


All artists , internal technicians , screenplay team , creative head , producer mainly auidence hats off

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Posted: 2 years ago

for akshara

its apparent that she is more empathetic towards others her altruistic nature are one of her traits where she outshines others but sometimes it can be destructive not only for her but also for her loved ones.

questions asked by abhimanyu that

why she went after the goons despite knowing her condition. and she explaining that situation was grave with girls and what is her fault in this explains she just like abhimanyu has not yet realised her fault.

if we watch the ep .

neil tried his best to stop akshara and when he was not able to he went there himself. no matter how we justify it ,that it was neils choice or he saved the the girls but brutal truth is he lost his life ,his wife was widowed, and his daughter has lost his father akshara should have stopped neil. if she had placed herself in arohis or manjiris shoes .

and even more she went there herself without caring for her own safety or safety of their kids.

just like abhi asked she should have waited for police or should have gathered public .

no matter how much we say it as bravery but brutal truth is akshara put hers, her childrens and neils life in line in order to save those girls. and result is neil lost his life and akshara lost one of child.

she never placed herself in abhis shoes to understand that if she had also lost his life what would have happened.


this the the brutal truth which akshara have to face that that abhi is wrong in divorce and anger buthe question he asked her was genuine .

especially now if similar situation have happened and abhi akshu and abhir had to save the girls will she do the same thing and put abhi and abhirs life in danger.

she needs to understand ,in order to save others we need to be capable of saving ourselves otherwise its just plain foolishness.because what remains for those left behind are regrets whether its for relatives o those you save or for your own loved ones.

all i wish in this leap .

is for abhi and akshu to overcome these flaws of theirs and least i expect them is to keep themselves in each others shoes and show each other some patience and empathy which they are showing for others. no more big promises just this..

atleast they should think of abhir once before they take any decision.

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: IAMHope

The shouting will apparently return soon ish



I foresee all three wanting just Abhir


Nav will want Abhir, he will ask Akshu to go back to Abhi.

Abhi will want Abhir minus Akshu - Akshara is a misfit in his house.

Akshu wants a life with Abhir away from the Birla “Khaand”dom and Khaand Kumar.


of the three, I want to understand why Abhimanyu will want Abhir. Because he donated sperm?? He doesn’t remember any of the loving moments that led to making the baby with Ak. Akshara was a mistake he made, an error in judgement that he “allowed” in his life much to the detriment of his entire family. He regrets meeting, marrying Akshara. Then why does he want Abhir? Because he has his superior DNA?


Words said in anger, Abhi's own childhood trauma issues, and his OCD play a factor with him. He has it in his mind about how his marriage life should be different from his parents so he tries to control everything. Because before when he was a child he had no control over the things happening. He couldn’t help his mother when he was little it was only until he had grown into a man he was able to stand up to his father and truly protect her from a slap. He doesn't handle things well when life gets out of order. That is when his anger kicks in.


Truth is Abhi is right that Akshu makes decisions without forethought of the consequences and only focuses on the good intentions and end goal. Sometimes things work out okay but this time though no one told Neil to get out of the car to fight; it resulted in his death and she lost one child.


He told Bade Papa he didn't know what to do. Everything was getting out of control - he lost his brother, his mother is in shambles, Arohi is now a widow but she is with child, he lost his children, and the family is mourning. He essentially admitted to not being able to balance and lost control.


So my thought is he cut the only thing he could by making the practical decision which unfortunately was his relationship with Akshu. How many times have we heard him say if something becomes unfit, unmanageable, does more harm than good you have to cut it out of your life? So he viewed his relationship as such. Which is is a sad thing and a sad realization to come to if you think about it. He thinks because he fell in love and tried to be with someone that it caused more heartache for his family. So he lets go of the one person who truly loves him despite his flaws and who would stand by him.


Abhi is always hurt more when Akshu gets hurt because of him. He turned himself into a stone because if he really watched her walk away it would break him further. He was already broken by everything going on. So he simply let go and gave up. How does one get past the situation they found themselves in? Abhi always breaks relationships as that is his answer. Break and move on. But that is not practical. You have to mend and work through it. No one said it would be easy.


The only relationship he cannot break away from is his mother. Because she always starts her fainting and coma crap. I mean you have to be pretty heartless to see your mom in the hospital and go yeah I am going on vacation 🤣 This I challenge the CVs to fix. He has been put through the ringer because of his mother. Do they have the guts? Do you CVs?


I think Abhir is to remind Abhi there is still love in this relationship something worth fighting for as Abhir represents Abhira’s love. Abhi I hope recongizes what Akshu did to raise their son. Her decisions as a mother valued. If she was such a walking disaster then Abhir wouldn't be alive today.


Relationships are complex. You remember the good and the bad. Right now because of the separation we are only focusing on the bad that lead them to this. But we know the minute they face each other again the hurt and angst will come out. And love will be shown too when things cool when they start standing for one another because of Abhir.


And why shouldn't Abhi want to know about his son and be with him? Just because he has a broken relationship with Akshu doesn't mean he cannot get to know his son. Through this relationship he will end up mending his relationship with Akshu. I just need both to admit where they went wrong. Akshu has to tell him how guilty she felt. She loved Neil and never ever would have wanted him to get hurt. Abhi needs to forgive Akshu for that decision and apologize that he made her feel like a murder. Sure a simple sorry will not fix the past but it can go about building a bridge for the future.


Don't know if any of my ramblings made any sense.

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: abhirafan.5

Someone on Twitter. I agree with this statement completely

It will be grave injustice to Abhinav if AbhiRa ever reconcile and leave him alone in Kasauli.Abhinav did so much for Akshara and Abhir without any relation with them and without expecting anything in return for 6 years. He should get his result of good deeds.

what do you think Sudha and Hari?


Abhinav knew what he signed up for when they made that pact. He was either going to end up getting something more or not at all. Good people don't expect anything in return for a good deed.


If Abhinav is such a good person then he is just going with the flow. He will get something better in return. Or perhaps this is a debt he needed to pay for a past life? Or a debt to pay from his own past that we nor Akshu knows about.

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: SAOkr

the 2nd leap is nasty but it showed some major truths and flaws of both abhimanyu and akshara which both are not ready to except and the cruelty of fate is if they dont get past these flaws they can never have a successful marriage especially now when they have a kid.

for abhimanyu.

his mind is numbed with all the drama going around him since his childhood with his mother and rest of family. most of the time abhi is shown humane and his humanity shines especially as far as his profession is considered .his empathy towards others and practical approach is his normal trait when it comes opposing bad and siding with good.

but it disrupts when it comes to his most loved ones especially his mother and akshara and now roohi. he goes to extreme lengths and try to alienate others from them in order to protect them.

like in case of his father he totally cutts off his relation to spare himself of the pain .and he expects manjiri to also do the same. which is wrong because he categorizes problems as white or black not considers it can be grey.

he never thought keeping himself in the shoes of harsh or manjiri.

i.e is his problem which is shown in his relationship with akshara too,

in both seperation he thought about the pain he went through or the apparent risk for his mother who supposedly is in death bed. so in fit of anger. he as always decided to cutoof akshara by giving divorce.insteadd of trying to make akshara understand or even showing some patience and humanity he brutally divorced her .

he needs to understand that even if his mothers condition is not stable or she is in death bed he should have have patience to be with akshara not only to reduce the burden of her guilt but as a husband whose wife has lost their children .

this flaw of abhi to cut people off and be in his own bubble of self loathing and agony is the brutal reality which abhi need to understand this time because this time he not only just seperated himself from akshara but also from abhir and plunged abhir into this cycle of hate. he needs to overcome this flaw if he dont want to see abhir and him enacting the same hate story which he and his father had lived.



Beautifully put! 💯 agreed

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