Originally posted by: IAMHope
The shouting will apparently return soon ish
I foresee all three wanting just Abhir
Nav will want Abhir, he will ask Akshu to go back to Abhi.
Abhi will want Abhir minus Akshu - Akshara is a misfit in his house.
Akshu wants a life with Abhir away from the Birla “Khaand”dom and Khaand Kumar.
of the three, I want to understand why Abhimanyu will want Abhir. Because he donated sperm?? He doesn’t remember any of the loving moments that led to making the baby with Ak. Akshara was a mistake he made, an error in judgement that he “allowed” in his life much to the detriment of his entire family. He regrets meeting, marrying Akshara. Then why does he want Abhir? Because he has his superior DNA?
Words said in anger, Abhi's own childhood trauma issues, and his OCD play a factor with him. He has it in his mind about how his marriage life should be different from his parents so he tries to control everything. Because before when he was a child he had no control over the things happening. He couldn’t help his mother when he was little it was only until he had grown into a man he was able to stand up to his father and truly protect her from a slap. He doesn't handle things well when life gets out of order. That is when his anger kicks in.
Truth is Abhi is right that Akshu makes decisions without forethought of the consequences and only focuses on the good intentions and end goal. Sometimes things work out okay but this time though no one told Neil to get out of the car to fight; it resulted in his death and she lost one child.
He told Bade Papa he didn't know what to do. Everything was getting out of control - he lost his brother, his mother is in shambles, Arohi is now a widow but she is with child, he lost his children, and the family is mourning. He essentially admitted to not being able to balance and lost control.
So my thought is he cut the only thing he could by making the practical decision which unfortunately was his relationship with Akshu. How many times have we heard him say if something becomes unfit, unmanageable, does more harm than good you have to cut it out of your life? So he viewed his relationship as such. Which is is a sad thing and a sad realization to come to if you think about it. He thinks because he fell in love and tried to be with someone that it caused more heartache for his family. So he lets go of the one person who truly loves him despite his flaws and who would stand by him.
Abhi is always hurt more when Akshu gets hurt because of him. He turned himself into a stone because if he really watched her walk away it would break him further. He was already broken by everything going on. So he simply let go and gave up. How does one get past the situation they found themselves in? Abhi always breaks relationships as that is his answer. Break and move on. But that is not practical. You have to mend and work through it. No one said it would be easy.
The only relationship he cannot break away from is his mother. Because she always starts her fainting and coma crap. I mean you have to be pretty heartless to see your mom in the hospital and go yeah I am going on vacation 🤣 This I challenge the CVs to fix. He has been put through the ringer because of his mother. Do they have the guts? Do you CVs?
I think Abhir is to remind Abhi there is still love in this relationship something worth fighting for as Abhir represents Abhira’s love. Abhi I hope recongizes what Akshu did to raise their son. Her decisions as a mother valued. If she was such a walking disaster then Abhir wouldn't be alive today.
Relationships are complex. You remember the good and the bad. Right now because of the separation we are only focusing on the bad that lead them to this. But we know the minute they face each other again the hurt and angst will come out. And love will be shown too when things cool when they start standing for one another because of Abhir.
And why shouldn't Abhi want to know about his son and be with him? Just because he has a broken relationship with Akshu doesn't mean he cannot get to know his son. Through this relationship he will end up mending his relationship with Akshu. I just need both to admit where they went wrong. Akshu has to tell him how guilty she felt. She loved Neil and never ever would have wanted him to get hurt. Abhi needs to forgive Akshu for that decision and apologize that he made her feel like a murder. Sure a simple sorry will not fix the past but it can go about building a bridge for the future.
Don't know if any of my ramblings made any sense.
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