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Posted: 2 years ago

#791

Originally posted by: .Sunrise.
They are giving rishita harsh words to create sympathy for dhara but it's not happening
If anyone's child will be in trauma and the cause of thag trauma is busy in her usual emotional blackmail and ginwaaoing her ehsaan anyone will punch that person to shut her up

In real Life these words are not even considered as harsh. God Forbid if my kid was to experience this trauma just for the selfish motive of a narcissic woman- I would have blown her away and said don't show me your face if you don't want me to be rude. That a very normal behaviour for mum seeing her child in pain. Does the writers realise that the more they are trying to make the Babima "Mahan", the more all viewers are grossed up with her. Who in their right mind does emotional blackmail and self-blame when one's child is in danger. Your every thought will be for the child and doing prayers for the child recovery- going to temple, go on your knees to pray. Not the emotional blackmail she is doing- specially when she knows that the brainless monkeys can't bear her to cry. Who is she trying to foul- you just want all attention to be on you.

One thing though- when a child is small you guide them and teach them in life. But every grown man - specially married- they have their own life now. Would she have accept it if for each and every single thing she want to do- someone else take the decision for her and her dumb hubby accept all what the other person is saying and never listen to her. I wonder what she would have done in this situation ....

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Posted: 2 years ago

#792

Originally posted by: JessilaM

In real Life these words are not even considered as harsh. God Forbid if my kid was to experience this trauma just for the selfish motive of a narcissic woman- I would have blown her away and said don't show me your face if you don't want me to be rude. That a very normal behaviour for mum seeing her child in pain. Does the writers realise that the more they are trying to make the Babima "Mahan", the more all viewers are grossed up with her. Who in their right mind does emotional blackmail and self-blame when one's child is in danger. Your every thought will be for the child and doing prayers for the child recovery- going to temple, go on your knees to pray. Not the emotional blackmail she is doing- specially when she knows that the brainless monkeys can't bear her to cry. Who is she trying to foul- you just want all attention to be on you.

One thing though- when a child is small you guide them and teach them in life. But every grown man - specially married- they have their own life now. Would she have accept it if for each and every single thing she want to do- someone else take the decision for her and her dumb hubby accept all what the other person is saying and never listen to her. I wonder what she would have done in this situation ....

@bold1: that’s exactly what every mother watching will react.
no amount of aaaas can add sympathy for Dhara.
She should be thankful even after this others were listening to her gaslighting & self victimization.

@bold2: true!
when she got married, she’d full house, her husband everything to herself. What if Suman controlled gombi how she controls Shiva!! Dhara will go cuckoo w/o attention.

she was-is just 4 years older to dev, 6 to shiva & 9/10 ti Krish. So Calling dev & shiva ‘Bachchey’ and controlling them this way::: at times it feels she literally groomed them. To not see/ think a thing beyond her.

This is one show, where audience perceived opposite of what writers try to push.

Bhabhi looks controlfreak psycho maniac.

Shweta had to be turned full evil, her whitewashing falls flat.

Piddi even after multiple tries is not working.

They never wanted Raavi to shine, she has touched all hearts over the time.

Shiva - more they try to show him dutiful devar- more he looks mindless minion.

Annadata facing antithesis.