Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #227 - Page 103

Originally posted by: deeps07

Exactly...this is the classic example crime enablers and criminals..khatiya writers..

Suman is shit scared of Rishita and Shweta, so won’t say anything to them. Infact Shweta will stoop to any level, sometimes on par with Suman, so it is difficult to tackle her.😆

Though Suman says things to Bhabima , the next moment she sings YKB with her because Bhabima is her bacches YASHODA

Raavi is a dobi, who still doesn’t understand who truly she us. Like how Raavi believes everyone without finding out their true nature, making the same mistake with Suman, can’t gauge this woman, she flips every minute, finally it is Raavi who ends being hated by Suman and she leaves no stone unturned to humiliate the girl knowing fully well that Raavi will never ever question her. So Suman keeps cheating Raavi. Raavi doesn’t asks questions where she needs to ask but randomly asks to Dhara and Rishita but never to Suman.

Raavi is still the weak character and writers will never allow her to stand up for herself.

It will be matter of few episodes before Raavi will apologize to Bhabima for being rude to her 😕

Originally posted by: VNuts

Finally! Finally! Someone on the show realised it, and BhabhiMa couldn't back-answer them! 😆

Here people who stalk the thread say we bash Bhabima, we don’t have to, writers and the characters themselves are doing it 😕

They can have Bhabima shut up Raavi by giving her dialogues like today ( BTW she can only shut up Raavi, like Suman she is shit scared of Rishita and Shweta because both will give it right back to her) but they cannot have her shut up Shweta or her father😔

Whether Bhabima fans like it or not, the story and the current track is written in a such a way that Bhabima and Krish are responsible for the mess/kaand that’s going on in Kandya Niwas,

Originally posted by: spdp

That was SO lame.

Infact that whole scene was so lame.

This whole show is lame..🤪

Originally posted by: mpks1

Dayan or dayans? 😆
I see 2 in this conversation / scene, both claim to be the best mothers in this world 😆

Oops..my fault..😆..how could i forget the witch from kua..🤪

Originally posted by: mpks1

Here people who stalk the thread we bash Bhabima, we don’t have to, writers and the characters themselves are doing it 😕

They can have Bhabima shut up Raavi by giving her dialogues like today ( BTW she can only shut up Raavi, like Suman she is shit scared of Rishita and Shweta because bkth will give it right back to her) but they cannot have her shit up Shweta or her father😔

Whether Bhabima fans like it or not, the story and the current track is written in a such a way that Bhabima and Krish are responsible for the mess/kaand that’s going on in Kandya Niwas,

Unfortunately for the BhabiMa fans, almost every track has a kaand only due to BhabhiMa.

She uses her limited brain cells in the most twisted way possible and then it blows up into a bigger kaand, and then she goes running to Gaumbhi, "Gaumbhi ye kya ho gaya?! Kuch karo na, Gaumbhi, kuch karo." I mean, the woman is unbelievably attention-&-mahaanta-seeking.

Today, during her baccha speech, I suddenly remembered this scene, when Shiva-Raavi get kidnapped immediately after marriage, and BhabhiMa hears (and faints again - ), but when she tells Gaumbhi that she wants both her kids home, it had some meaning, and we all felt for her.

Now it is all just bleh. 🤪

So what are they trying to imply regarding Bhabima’s dialogue that she will interfere in Kandya members lives and make decisions for them?

Are they implying that everyone else in Kandya family is stupid and make mistakes except Bhabima, who is the only smart cookie in the entire world and only she has the right to rectify it? They also promptly give her dialogues to dare question her by anyone in Kandya Niwas about her kaands and adhbutness. All the writers do, brush aside her kaands whitewashing all her past, present and future mistakes.😡

Originally posted by: spdp

She saw Shiva brought Raavi back, so she flipped.

Minute she heard about job- she flipped again.

Then she saw Shiva didn’t support Bhabhi- so she flipped dampening it all down.

Sure it will come back when achar pakad drama starts. Raavi will get more ‘motherly pyaar’ from Suman.

This time want Shiva to open his eyes & see it all from wider perspective.
not just jump into my 3-3 maa mode.

Which, hope he will.
I liked he didnot say anything to comply to bhabhi’s naatak.
staying quiet & Listening is first step for positive step further in their marital relationship!

It feels too soon for me to say anything abt shiva yet..i dnt trust him..i am infact expecting him to take advice frm dev on how to balance and deal with wife ke tantrums with bhabhima ..🤪..becz they will always keep ravi being shown as a dobi and pandyas are so lovely to put up with her🤪

Originally posted by: anoniya

Whether or not intentional, Raavi does seem to come across as someone with low self-esteem and self-worth. A huge contrast from how she started out but not entirely unrealistic given what she's been through. The constant emotional manipulation, gaslighting, humiliating, victim blaming seem to have both crushed her spirit as well conditioned her into believing that however the family behaves with her is out of their love for her. While I understand this probably isn't what they are trying to show but I can't help but view it in this light.

I too would have viewed it that way if it was frm any other sensible writers..but coming from annadaathas..i am sure its just ravi is a dobi and she is not that deep to deal with the demons in the name of a family.. .🤪

Originally posted by: anoniya

As much as I would like to see Shiva standing up for Raavi but I believe the biggest test would be how he behaves with her when their opinions don't match. How he treats her then will truly determine whether or not he has learnt anything and changed for the better.

But saying that, I do so hope he doesn't support Dhara is her views that she did a good thing making Raavi lose her job either.

Also, Raavi should not be forced to stop working altogether. That would just be taking women's rights back decades.

@bold: True. Let’s hope he has started changing.
though have no hopes we will get anything substantial in ShiVi’s progress.

They will be used for buzz & we will get some lollipops. That’s it.

@bold2: absolutely. Work/ no work should be her own decision. She should work & her & Shiva both need done financial independence.
leaving it all to unstable folks like Dhara-Dilin an-gombi is harakiri.

Don’t get what they want to convey?

If a woman runs ‘gruhUdyog’ pakad achar gig: she is great.

But if a woman goes out to work, if a woman goes newage gig like influencer: she is bad? Open for all insinuating character Assassinations?

I donot get brazen attitude of writers saying this is how it works.
As a story teller: why not show problem & follow up with positive reactions, responses- how Anupamaa does.

Whats wrong with dora??? She will never except her mistakes. And Noone can show her mirror. After Criminal kaand also nothing changed in her. She us the same mahanta ki murat who thinks sge us always right. Whatever crap or BS writers write I don't want chiku to be back with bhabhi. She is not fit to be a mother or human .she us dayaan.