Pandya Store | Episode Discussion #226 - Page 116

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes

I think he just wants to let it out of his system. Raavi spelled it out loud and clear and his silence made it obvious that he agreed too. He knows his actions are bot justifying worthy, but he just wants to to talk and let it out of his system. In hope that someone will tell him/convince him that he wasn't 100% wrong in regards w/ Arnav. Like he was crossing his boundaries and how everything built on.

I personally, didn't think him questioning her about Arnavs unwanted presence everywhere was wrong. Wish it was private and wish he had asked, allowed her to justify, and investigated before accusing her using the words he did.

First of all, hails!!!!🤗 good to see you back here and having unbiased take on episodes/scenes lol

@Bold Same. I didn't find any of his questions before CA wrong-except when he accused her on the road-. I don't blame him for that as at his place any spouse would have and what Raavi could've done was simply make him understand or give him assurance that he might be over thinking that is not the case but she acted as if she doesn't care she's the one who let a stranger/boss/dost se badhkar in her relationship knowingly or unknowingly and then acted as if she's trying to save her relationship while creating more mess. In that whole catch-the-hacker drama too she was unreasonable. Even in yesterday's confrontation she blame it all on shweta and Shiva lol

Originally posted by: Roohani27

First of all, hails!!!!🤗 good to see you back here and having unbiased take on episodes/scenes lol

@Bold Same. I didn't find any of his questions before CA wrong. I don't blame him for that as at his place any spouse would have and what Raavi could've done was simply make him understand or give him assurance that he might be over thinking that is not the case but she acted as if she doesn't care she's the one who let a stranger/boss/dost se badhkar in her relationship knowingly or unknowingly and then acted as if she's trying to save her relationship while creating more mess. -except when he accused her on the road- but in that whole catch-the-hacker drama too she was unreasonable. Even in yesterday's confrontation she blame it all on shweta and Shiva lol

@bold.. Sorry I totally disagree. Any sane, educated, broad-minded person wouldn't question his wife just coz her colleague enquires about her health or drops her home or helps her and her family in crisis..

I personally felt she was composed and to the point in the confrontation yesterday. Didn't speak too much nor too less. She just said the truth. Whatever she does he will always have this shaq ka keeda..

Originally posted by: NayaNehaD31

People can’t just walk-in someone’s workplace just like that—- security reasons!!!🤪 Kuch bhi bakwas these people show

Bhai hamare college mein subha subha

ID card dikha kar entry dete hain even when Security wala even knows everything about me

We have to pay fine if there is no identity card with us even on phone

&

Yeh toh working place hain 🤪

Koyi nahi rakhega aise logo ko whose family members comes and do these stuffs

I first did not like when Shiva's alter ego spit on him but then I had to remember those things Shiva said to raavi

He just did not character assassinate her he freaking accused her of committing adultery I don't think people especially Shiva's fans realise how big a sin adultery is considered atleast even tody despite if all the modern approach to relationships . I realised he deserved that spit

Sure he was manipulated by shweta ( so much for being street smart ) but was he manipulated by shweta when he infront of everyone questioned her that was also accusing of adultery what else did he mean by saying oh I saw you two going into that shady hotel as if he had caught them . And mind you he never properly apologized for that instead he did the worst

Shiva is a sick man TBH and needs some serious redemption and character development even if his fans are wishing for a new girl for Shiva only a doormat will survive with Shiva

And that too an actual doormat

And all that crying and talking about why he felt what he felt was all bullshit. He clearly from the first scene of Arnav was not comfortable with raavi Arnav . If we as audience know how raavi is how she behaves in stressful situation and why she held arnavs hand why couldn't Shiva understand . Chalo maana he is in love many partners are possessive but there is a difference if he would have clearly told raavi I don't like Arnav iam jealous but trusting his wife baat kuch aur hoti . He would have had insecurity with regards to Arnav only maybe he doesn't have right intentions vo bhi maan lete . But he didn't do that he passed his judgement on raavi and her character even when shweta was not in tbe scene . And I really wish ki Shiva ke fans ki internal wish to make Arnav negative so that Shiva's ghatiya soch and harkatein gets justified never gets full filled

So far I had problem with the precap but judge me all you can I am really going to hoot for raavi when she punches Shiva tomorrow because he totally deserves it!!!!

Originally posted by: nami2811

Why, is there anything happening? Don't tell me Bhabhi is going to Arnav's office and doing a kaand

She absolutely is doing exactly that.

These ‘progressive family drama’ ke creatives Love violence.

Idhar udhar anytime by anyone chaanta is everyday thing .

Suman hits with danda

Dhara’s danda kaand

Gombi is into physical abuse only one he doesn’t ever slap is Dev. Else Shiva & Krish are his punching bags.
shiva goes off on Krish equally easily.

Next is boxing match.

why & where they get such ‘creativity’ is beyond normal understanding.

Originally posted by: nami2811

@bold.. Sorry I totally disagree. Any sane, educated, broad-minded person wouldn't question his wife just coz her colleague enquires about her health or drops her home or helps her and her family in crisis..

I personally felt she was composed and to the point in the confrontation yesterday. Didn't speak too much nor too less. She just said the truth. Whatever she does he will always have this shaq ka keeda..

You might disagree but practically no husband/wife would've, educated or uneducated. And NO I'm not implying here that doubting is a husband's nature. would a wife show the same understanding towards a husband who's over friendly with his female colleague?

Raavi did mistakes and instead of correcting them she did blunders. Buying a same shirt for a boss and husband tops the list. Shweta wouldnt have been successful in changing the gifts if raavi hadn't purchased similar looking shirts *avoidable* her stance was clear na toh she should've bring arnav home on Diwali and gave him gift in front of everyone. shiva had shaq ka keeda na not other family members toh problem kya thi? And please Im a working professional and unmarried yet I don't go hug my colleagues especially boss everytime I see them and lol what is the need when you are working with them, seeing their faces for 10 hours everyday, Kuch bhi.

Except couple of dialogues I didn't find her questions on point or anything they were somewhat hypocritical. Fact is it wasn't shweta it was Shiva and Raavi who are responsible for the mess their relationship is right now.

Originally posted by: Roohani27

You might disagree but practically no husband/wife would've, educated or uneducated. And NO I'm not implying here that doubting is a husband's nature. would a wife show the same understanding towards a husband who's over friendly with his female colleague?

Raavi did mistakes and instead of correcting them she did blunders. Buying a same shirt for a boss and husband tops the list. Shweta wouldnt have been successful in changing the gifts if raavi hadn't purchased similar looking shirts *avoidable* her stance was clear na toh she should've bring arnav home on Diwali and gave him gift in front of everyone. shiva had shaq ka keeda na not other family members toh problem kya thi? And please Im a working professional and unmarried yet I don't go hug my colleagues especially boss everytime I see them and lol what is the need when you are working with them, seeing their faces for 10 hours everyday, Kuch bhi.

Except couple of dialogues I didn't find her questions on point or anything they were somewhat hypocritical. Fact is it wasn't shweta it was Shiva and Raavi who are responsible for the mess their relationship is right now.

Sorry to barge in.
for this track full complete fault belongs to writers!
that’s why it kind of feels weird when working professionals don’t point that out - but go on character assassination/ justifying character Assassination of woman/women who is/ are shown working.

This whole workplace decorum : why Raavi & Rishita shown hugging their bosses everytime they come drop them home?
Or

why bosses come to drop new employees home?

Or
Why boss would gift new employee a car

Or

Why cyber security expert won’t call cyber police & take a client to hacker den.
Or

Why boss keep going to employee’s house even after being told off

Or

why family members - once a working woman - send boss to hospital while family stays busy in neverending chaos at home

Inshort: (I have pointed this out many times before here & in Twitter) these set of creatives have zero real experience of reality of work life. Working woman. Workplace decorum. Workplace relations.

There is nothing wrong in being friendly, going out or even casual side hugs to coworkers. but the way they were shown for both Raavi & Rishita- were completely showing creative writers & directors bankrupt mindset!

Once can be story/ drama. Twice it is a mindset!

Inka mindset is ghatiya.

Abd that applies to over the top - crossing decency line dialogues of tattoo majhe etc. as well.

Shiva just keeps justifying his shakk...🤢

Explaining how he came up with believing Ravi did abortion getting pregnant from Arnav, is a kind if self justification.

A husband (a normal one's) first reaction to such reports will be to question the hospital how can they do abortion when she is not even pregnant..then if the hospital insists, goes to speak with his wife to understand what happened.

Ravi literally tolerated being called a ganda khoon just for being Shiva's wife..and once they r happily married, such a person will be going making baby with a random stranger ?...whats birdies accusations on her?

1.hug?..lol shiva literally got kissed by a prospective second bride..but ravi always maintained some dignity...she openly talked about it..to him..to his family...and a hug is a hug..that too side hug..its a form of showing greeting..basics plz..

2.She going inside a shady place with arnav to catch the culprit red handed without waiting for shiva or anyone?

3.She not being able to forget his CA in public right when she was already devastated after the social media harassment and shopping time molestation?..

4.And when shiva lost his patience in a day and half,she didnt do a tip tip barsa pani to manao him?

5.her giving a costly shirt to another guy over his?.thats how he assess the love ..the price of a material?..

6.her taking a lift from him to come from office to home late in the evening, shiva would rather have her walk alone in the streets during late night than take a lift from a known person?..shiva and ravi were anyway not in speaking terms..if she can take help from anyone, then why not take help from Arnav..

7.calling Arnav as friend at one time..more than a friend..then just a colleague....the low minded can say trash from these dialogues..but any normal.person say this when they feel so much gratitude and friendship to a nobody..he has helped her in so many situations..ofcourse he is a friend..and considering how he helped her in the worst stage of her life, her saying he is more than a friend implies on her gratitude towards him..and when the matter was brought to her having a child of Arnav's..she said Arnav is nothing but a colleague...becz no matter what..in her personal married life, Arnav is a nobody...only sick minded people can make it look like she was playing with feelings..

8.Now him knowing abt her hurt leg while shiva was too busy showing his aag boy attitude and taunting her.. he was more irritated abt Arnav knowing it than any care abt how she is or if she is still hurt and ignoring medical care..

9.giving a gift to Arnav and taking gifts for all the family members while not inviting him over to house..indirectly not wanting to speak anything about Arnav to shiva and ruin that beautiful day?..thats lying?..lol..if she had anything to lie, she wouldn't be even giving those gifts to the family..

And in all this..Heera realises he was a fool to believe shwethas manipulated paper..lets out some invisible tears repenting the line he crossed talking abt bacha..and heera is all clear?..now its all on Ravi to seek forgiveness for making him the culprit of CA ravi?..

Hypocrisy very much..

Originally posted by: spdp

She absolutely is doing exactly that.

Can I get a head banging to the wall emo as a reaction? 😵