ViDev Love Progression - My Take - Page 2

Yes telly separation bht jaruri he...to be honest muje ye separation wale track se nafrat he par baat to yahi sach he ki jab vidhi dur jayegi tab use jo mahesus hoga..jo pyar mahesus hoga it will be different thn this puppy love....

N rahi baat dev ki...to for him this slap kand n jail kand was necessary...abb use realise hoga ki how much he love her n this samaj n log doesn't matter when u love someone...ye jo 4 log ,samaj ki baate karta he na un sabse uska bahar aana bht jaruri he..

Yaar telly I m fan of ur every post...Kasam se🤗

Nahin likhungi 🧐🧐😭😭😭

Originally posted by: Telly_Addict

my reply to scissor on another thread...

thought to create a new post cause its a good topic for detailed discussion....

Separation is needed to make Vidhi's love mature rather than puppy love which it is currently...

but before that i feel Dev has to come to terms with the intensity of the affection he has for Vidhi and wo tabhi hoga when he allows himself to get closer to her...emotionally and physically and uske like this current track is mandatory...

cause only once he feels ke Vidhi's is in danger his heart will break all the shackles of Umra, Samaj, Rules, Seema to run to save her.... and then his brain will have to back off for sometime to let his love deprived heart drenched into the love Vidhi has to offer....

to enjoy some moments of togetherness,

to let it fly with the winds of Love after so many years of being trapped in responsibilities...

He has to experience what it feels likes to be in Love... to be in this vulnerable moments cause they are priceless and to be cherished.

and once he gets the taste of it only then he would miss it when separation will happen eventually... and thats needed for him to fight for that Love harder than he is currently fighting to get away from that very same love.

For Vidhi.. she will mature with time, while that separation happen she will realize this Love cant be just Puppy Love it has to be One Tough Love to fight this world, to fight For Dev.... cause he cant fight this battle all alone as its Their Love... and thats when she might get realization ke abhi tak ka pyaar sach me infatuation tha Sacha Pyar is much more than that.

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@RED

Very well written. Chahiye yeh sab warna Dev closed off hi rahega...... Uske liye dating period chahiye aur yeh log abhi se shadi shadi kar rahe....... Initial promo ki story sabko chahiye par inko promo mein kuch aur serial mein kuch dikha a hai.......

Also something else, yeh story ko aise bhagate nahin toh ab tak bina dating ke bhi yeh sab mein se kuch kuch ho hi jaata, like ek hi Khaugali date thhi aur ek hi coffee date thhi, jab Vidhi fell in love and Dev knew and distanced himself sort of. Uske pehle unki bonding pe focus karte, Dev ke tute adhure sapnon pe discuss karte, general life pe discuss karte, time bitate as friends, roz marha ki baat karte, hanste, ek dusre ko aur admire karte......... Unn palon mein Dev saans le paata, aur khush ho paataa, office aur ghar ke bahar ek duniya hoti uske, just as friend, pyar hone se pehle........ Kuch bachkani harkat karta kyunki ab khulke bina soche Vidhi ke saamne kuch bhi kar sakta hai, something, just randomly scribblings here...... Vulnerable moments wahan aa sakte thhe, more impactful after falling in love but wahan uss phase mein bhi dikha sakte thhe..... Here makers messed up really.....

@BLUE

Very true! Like someone said in some other post, Dev is the biggest villian of his own love story.

But baat wahin atak jaati hai, as per ITV standards, current track seems necessary to achieve this, jo dekh dekh ke pak chuki main, though it's still refreshing here. Par mere expectations bahut high ho rakhe thhe, confession tak sabar bhi Kiya maine, par...... Ab kya hi repeat karun baar baar.......

Repeating what I mentioned in the other thread -

Progression acha hai bas maine kahin zyada expectations jod li thi iss show se....... Ki ye Bina drama ke progression dikhayenge...... Bina thappad aur jail ke bhi ho sakta thha naa...... Vidhi ko genuinely rula dete Dev ke saamne, kitte reasons hain, aisa toh Naa hota ki woh tut Tut ke roti aur Dev dekhta rehta....... I love the outcome just not the method that's all......

Kahan behes kiye tum aur Kainchi? Threadwa bataiyegaa?

Separation is not something that results in maturity in every one. There is a thing called separation anxiety and that causes trauma so as such I am not a strong proponent of galatfehmi or yaddasht Kho jana or temporary mar jaane wala separation. Infact I oppose it.

Vidhi is definitely not yet in love with Dev she is more in awe of his personality, his achievements, his behavior, his conduct and also his appeared. I have noticed one thing that Vidhi’s height is always shown as a stark contrast to devs height. She literally has to look upto him many times if they are standing. Up until now she may become a morni and dress up as much as she want but she experiences very little if atall physical attraction towards Dev. She loves him for sure but it’s largely platonic. She loves Devs persona, and is enchanted by the power he emanates. she has no idea what kind of a bullet is coming towards her infact it’s not only a bullet but a bullet train that is approaching her and it’s Name is DEV. So if she does not learn how to manage herself with Dev it will be a recipe for train wreck. Can a separation help her figure this out, no it cannot if anything her age combined with her inexperience will only make her act more strange. She already is acting strange and the same Sangeeta who was asking for jadu ki jhappi from Dev For vidhi in public was giving her gyan today 🤣.
Vidhi needs to steep in this hot hot chai called romance. Abhi usko sab kuch hara hara dikh raha hai. I am happy to see that she is coming back into her elements today as she asked Dev permission to let her parents in on her secret affliction. Her honesty is kicking back in and this itself can make her rise and figure out things for both Of them. It’s a tragedy that the child that Vidhi is needs to grow up real fast to match Dev.

So far this upcoming jail track is concerned I find it entirely unnecessary. A day in lockup for any girl from Vidhi’s community is no joke. But I am ready to take this track with a pinch of salt.

Now coming to Dev he has been the single most endearing character that I have seen on ITV so far. He is the gentleman any woman would dream of, wealthy, responsible, caring, successful, a person who is a great judge of character , and above all loving ( oh how I love his step mom, it’s precious and I truly hope that makers will not ruin Deepshikhas character.) He actually displays a greater romantic inclination towards Vidhi though he knows how to reign in and cover his sentiments well.
It’s not that Dev does not understand his level of craving for her. He just is over burdened with the idea of propriety and ethics and morality. These are some real practical issues. Ethically Dev encouraging Vidhi in her love pursuit is wrong in todays circumstances. It’s not just that Vidhi was born late she is a protected child who still does not know how to maneuver in this big bad world. Her parents consider Dev sahab to be her mentor, her teacher. In this relationship he is the mature one the onus to keep things right is on him. Encouraging Vidhi in her love journey ahead is immoral. He is breaking the trust of her parents. At his age he cannot go frolicking with a girl half his age this is so improper. So you see it’s not that Dev does not understand what Vidhi means to him he just does not want to go on that path which according to him will bring ruination to Vidhi as well as him. Can this jail

track help him transcend his self set high standards of conduct, that we will have to see.

So to sum it all up both Dev and Vidhi have to cross this Seema of Time. Vidhi has to grow up and learn to realize that loving a man is far more than idealistic tyag or adorable admiration. Dev has to rise and grow out of his self constructed age boundaries. He wants a status quo as of now for this relation so that Vidhi can grow out of her puppy love and all will be forgotten. He forgets there is no status quo in a relationship ever.

so this long post is my humble opinion. Thankyou for the tag.

Originally posted by: Telly_Addict

my reply to scissor on another thread...

thought to create a new post cause its a good topic for detailed discussion....

Separation is needed to make Vidhi's love mature rather than puppy love which it is currently...

but before that i feel Dev has to come to terms with the intensity of the affection he has for Vidhi and wo tabhi hoga when he allows himself to get closer to her...emotionally and physically and uske like this current track is mandatory...

cause only once he feels ke Vidhi's is in danger his heart will break all the shackles of Umra, Samaj, Rules, Seema to run to save her.... and then his brain will have to back off for sometime to let his love deprived heart drenched into the love Vidhi has to offer....

to enjoy some moments of togetherness,

to let it fly with the winds of Love after so many years of being trapped in responsibilities...

He has to experience what it feels likes to be in Love... to be in this vulnerable moments cause they are priceless and to be cherished.

and once he gets the taste of it only then he would miss it when separation will happen eventually... and thats needed for him to fight for that Love harder than he is currently fighting to get away from that very same love.

For Vidhi.. she will mature with time, while that separation happen she will realize this Love cant be just Puppy Love it has to be One Tough Love to fight this world, to fight For Dev.... cause he cant fight this battle all alone as its Their Love... and thats when she might get realization ke abhi tak ka pyaar sach me infatuation tha Sacha Pyar is much more than that.

tagging more people for some insight n further discussion

Agree Telly!!

They can bring some separation later after ViDev secret is out in front of HP and Bimla but for now they really need to spend some quality time together before that separation jhatka.

Honestly after confession, Dev ke side se mamla bohot thanda lagta hai. I know he told her to move on and all but atleast they should show him struggling with this moving on thing. He just seems quite cool with it now. Hosakta hai he doesn't want to show much affection towards Vidhi but makers can atleast show him struggling with himself when he is all alone. Vidhi ka sara khudna phudakna dikhate rehte hain but nothing from Dev. Either he still isn't at a stage where he just can't imagine living without her or the makers are failing to show his side of feelings properly.

Aaj bhi mujhe bohot ajeeb laga that he didn't ask her how she is or how she is feeling. He should have been restless thinking about Vidhi after knowing Vikram slapped her. I loved hia reaction towards Vikram lekin Vidhi ke liye koi care nahi dikhayi😭 makers seem to be focussing too much on Amba and her drama. I know they need drama to run the show lekin main focus should be Videv. Unke chote chote moments dikhana kaise bhul jaate hain? After confession almost koi bhi dhang ka scene nahi mila hai inka. Bond dhang se banna toh chahiye before separating. They need to have more conversations, moments between them. As you said jab alag honge toh Dev and Vidhi should miss all those things. They really need a dating phase where both have wholeheartedly accepted this relationship and spending time together ❤️ mujhe bhi dekhna hai Dev ko being completely in love❤️ Vidhi jitna khudta phudakta nahi dikha saktey use but atleast show him a bit happy😆

Originally posted by: Saumya19

Kahan behes kiye tum aur Kainchi? Threadwa bataiyegaa?

Separation is not something that results in maturity in every one. There is a thing called separation anxiety and that causes trauma so as such I am not a strong proponent of galatfehmi or yaddasht Kho jana or temporary mar jaane wala separation. Infact I oppose it.

Vidhi is definitely not yet in love with Dev she is more in awe of his personality, his achievements, his behavior, his conduct and also his appeared. I have noticed one thing that Vidhi’s height is always shown as a stark contrast to devs height. She literally has to look upto him many times if they are standing. Up until now she may become a morni and dress up as much as she want but she experiences very little if atall physical attraction towards Dev. She loves him for sure but it’s largely platonic. She loves Devs persona, and is enchanted by the power he emanates. she has no idea what kind of a bullet is coming towards her infact it’s not only a bullet but a bullet train that is approaching her and it’s Name is DEV. So if she does not learn how to manage herself with Dev it will be a recipe for train wreck. Can a separation help her figure this out, no it cannot if anything her age combined with her inexperience will only make her act more strange. She already is acting strange and the same Sangeeta who was asking for jadu ki jhappi from Dev For vidhi in public was giving her gyan today 🤣.
Vidhi needs to steep in this hot hot chai called romance. Abhi usko sab kuch hara hara dikh raha hai. I am happy to see that she is coming back into her elements today as she asked Dev permission to let her parents in on her secret affliction. Her honesty is kicking back in and this itself can make her rise and figure out things for both Of them. It’s a tragedy that the child that Vidhi is needs to grow up real fast to match Dev.

So far this upcoming jail track is concerned I find it entirely unnecessary. A day in lockup for any girl from Vidhi’s community is no joke. But I am ready to take this track with a pinch of salt.

Now coming to Dev he has been the single most endearing character that I have seen on ITV so far. He is the gentleman any woman would dream of, wealthy, responsible, caring, successful, a person who is a great judge of character , and above all loving ( oh how I love his step mom, it’s precious and I truly hope that makers will not ruin Deepshikhas character.) He actually displays a greater romantic inclination towards Vidhi though he knows how to reign in and cover his sentiments well.
It’s not that Dev does not understand his level of craving for her. He just is over burdened with the idea of propriety and ethics and morality. These are some real practical issues. Ethically Dev encouraging Vidhi in her love pursuit is wrong in todays circumstances. It’s not just that Vidhi was born late she is a protected child who still does not know how to maneuver in this big bad world. Her parents consider Dev sahab to be her mentor, her teacher. In this relationship he is the mature one the onus to keep things right is on him. Encouraging Vidhi in her love journey ahead is immoral. He is breaking the trust of her parents. At his age he cannot go frolicking with a girl half his age this is so improper. So you see it’s not that Dev does not understand what Vidhi means to him he just does not want to go on that path which according to him will bring ruination to Vidhi as well as him. Can this jail

track help him transcend his self set high standards of conduct, that we will have to see.

So to sum it all up both Dev and Vidhi have to cross this Seema of Time. Vidhi has to grow up and learn to realize that loving a man is far more than idealistic tyag or adorable admiration. Dev has to rise and grow out of his self constructed age boundaries. He wants a status quo as of now for this relation so that Vidhi can grow out of her puppy love and all will be forgotten. He forgets there is no status quo in a relationship ever.

so this long post is my humble opinion. Thankyou for the tag.

I can't say how much I loved your post❤️❤️

Agree regarding both Dev and Vidhi.

Vidhi sacchi mein abhi bhi crush stage par he lagti hai. She admires and respects him but beyond that uske taraf se koi attraction nahi dikha abb tak. Dev is being practical but still uske taraf se kuch toh dikhana chahiye. Confession ke baad he seems too aloof.

Jo bhi hai dono ko hi bohot saare romance ki zarurat hai😆

Originally posted by: Saumya19

Kahan behes kiye tum aur Kainchi? Threadwa bataiyegaa?

Separation is not something that results in maturity in every one. There is a thing called separation anxiety and that causes trauma so as such I am not a strong proponent of galatfehmi or yaddasht Kho jana or temporary mar jaane wala separation. Infact I oppose it.

Vidhi is definitely not yet in love with Dev she is more in awe of his personality, his achievements, his behavior, his conduct and also his appeared. I have noticed one thing that Vidhi’s height is always shown as a stark contrast to devs height. She literally has to look upto him many times if they are standing. Up until now she may become a morni and dress up as much as she want but she experiences very little if atall physical attraction towards Dev. She loves him for sure but it’s largely platonic. She loves Devs persona, and is enchanted by the power he emanates. she has no idea what kind of a bullet is coming towards her infact it’s not only a bullet but a bullet train that is approaching her and it’s Name is DEV. So if she does not learn how to manage herself with Dev it will be a recipe for train wreck. Can a separation help her figure this out, no it cannot if anything her age combined with her inexperience will only make her act more strange. She already is acting strange and the same Sangeeta who was asking for jadu ki jhappi from Dev For vidhi in public was giving her gyan today 🤣.
Vidhi needs to steep in this hot hot chai called romance. Abhi usko sab kuch hara hara dikh raha hai. I am happy to see that she is coming back into her elements today as she asked Dev permission to let her parents in on her secret affliction. Her honesty is kicking back in and this itself can make her rise and figure out things for both Of them. It’s a tragedy that the child that Vidhi is needs to grow up real fast to match Dev.

So far this upcoming jail track is concerned I find it entirely unnecessary. A day in lockup for any girl from Vidhi’s community is no joke. But I am ready to take this track with a pinch of salt.

Now coming to Dev he has been the single most endearing character that I have seen on ITV so far. He is the gentleman any woman would dream of, wealthy, responsible, caring, successful, a person who is a great judge of character , and above all loving ( oh how I love his step mom, it’s precious and I truly hope that makers will not ruin Deepshikhas character.) He actually displays a greater romantic inclination towards Vidhi though he knows how to reign in and cover his sentiments well.
It’s not that Dev does not understand his level of craving for her. He just is over burdened with the idea of propriety and ethics and morality. These are some real practical issues. Ethically Dev encouraging Vidhi in her love pursuit is wrong in todays circumstances. It’s not just that Vidhi was born late she is a protected child who still does not know how to maneuver in this big bad world. Her parents consider Dev sahab to be her mentor, her teacher. In this relationship he is the mature one the onus to keep things right is on him. Encouraging Vidhi in her love journey ahead is immoral. He is breaking the trust of her parents. At his age he cannot go frolicking with a girl half his age this is so improper. So you see it’s not that Dev does not understand what Vidhi means to him he just does not want to go on that path which according to him will bring ruination to Vidhi as well as him. Can this jail track help him transcend his self set high standards of conduct, that we will have to see.

So to sum it all up both Dev and Vidhi have to cross this Seema of Time. Vidhi has to grow up and learn to realize that loving a man is far more than idealistic tyag or adorable admiration. Dev has to rise and grow out of his self constructed age boundaries. He wants a status quo as of now for this relation so that Vidhi can grow out of her puppy love and all will be forgotten. He forgets there is no status quo in a relationship ever.

so this long post is my humble opinion. Thankyou for the tag.

@BOLD

No words can better describe Dev's feelings than this. Kudos! I completely completely and completely agree. Though I knew in heart what you wrote, the way you expressed it made it so real and made me love Dev's charecter even more. Thanks a lot for this.

Behas wehas aisa kuch nahi. Bas mein thodi zyada khush huyi Dev Sir ke Meri Vidhi se aur woh gusse se. Bas baat karte karte bahut excited huyi toh Scissor aake reality kee aayine dikha de. Phir kuch mein hamesha kee tarah usse bolne lagi usse koyi sach mein pyaar karne waale Mile. Baaki log bhi gus gaye , aur sab ke sab aise reality check de rahe the aur mein ekdum har kisi ke comment padte padte shocked huyi. Telly yahan tag kee toh first word seperation thi . Mein abb inn sab cheezein sochne kee mood mein nahin hoon. Ek toh page pe intelligent club ban gaye jahan sab log kaafi practical baatein karne lage , mujhe pagli film bana di. Toh mujhe laga kee abb aise ViDev romance wagera dikhane se koyi faayda nahin hein. Yeh log toh bahut zyada practical hein naa , meri imaginary stories, poems, masterji jokes kyun pade ? Bas unn logon ko unki serious discussion pe chodi. Telly kee post theek se padi nahi aur tumhari bhi nahi. Aisa laga kee sab ke sab pyaar ke dushman Bane aur akele mein hi pagli film bani. Isliye decide kee aisi koyi romantic stories, masterji jokes kuch likhungi nahi , kyunki mein bahut serious hoke kuch dikha nahi sakti....waise bhi kaafi kuch likh chuki hun....Log bhi kya sochenge mein aise baar baar pagalpan karun toh ? Bas bhagwan ne akkal nahi dee mujhe .

Ro mat, mein nahin toh kya bhannat likhne wale acche authors hein. Unn sabke pad lo yaar. Waise bhi bahut pagalpan kee, aur kab tak karun

Mujh mein himmat nahi hein separation dekhne kaa Telly. Puppy love mat kaho please 🥺 I agree uski age factor matters but yaar uss umra mein koyi 40 saal ke woman jaise love ko lete hein uss angle se nahi le sakti , it's like you felt everything as incomplete without the one whom you loves and you admires him from heart. May be for bursting out the emotions if separation is inevitable then makers can do it. But I can't see much drama in show. Dev had definitely need to come out from the shell of barriers, society, age gap . If the transfer part was shown in a meaningful way Dev would have literally felt how much she matters to him. Only in one episode they just did it with Maana ke hum yaar nahi song which wasn't enough for me. He have to think about what magic Vidhi had done to him.....And I really wish kee separation ke alawa kuch aur ho jisse emotional outburst ho jaaye and Dev hugging Vidhi. Aaj toh Dev ne poocha nahi Vidhi se kee woh kaisi hein? Vidhi seedhe baatein bata rahi thi. Woh one line dikha dete toh aur bhi acchi hoti episode dekhne mein.