My point of view - Page 2

Originally posted by: amulbaby06

Yaarbsab ke sab duffers hai. Waha Devar bhabhi, yaha EMA... jyada farak nahi. Ha bas ek difference hai, waha toxic log well educated and reputed job karne wale log aur yaha not much. With that point I agree but rest everything same to same... yaha Baa waha Kaaku.

No there is a difference...Atleast here EMA is addressed and people are punished...I accept the people repeat their mistakes, but galat ko galat kaha jaata hai. But in GHKPM mein to punishment milti nai hai, upar se galat ko sahi bola jaata hai. Bas ek Sai ladti rehti hai...

Yahaan Anupama bhale lamba lamba bolti hai...Par uski team hai...Waha akeli Sai hi hai ladnewali...Usko hi thoda bahut sahi galat dikhta hai baki sab andhe hai. Waha sab Sai ko blame karte hai, yahan pe Anupama ke supporters bhi hai.

Wahaan ke actors characters ki bad deeds ko justify karte hai. Yahaan Toshu, Pakhi real life mein kabhi aisa nai karte.

Ghum agar dekhoge to lagega ki ML ko lifetime imprisonment ho jaani chahiye. Anupama is much much bearable

Originally posted by: austen-eliot

Anupama's lectures are actually the highlight of this show.. It's supposed to be a show with a social message and this is the way the not-very-imaginative CVS are able to show the social messages-- by making Anupama give lectures on various social evils.. Before there was subtlety and intelligence in portraying that.. But with time makers are losing the interest and running out of creative juices.

You are right. The reason of her speaking all such things is to convey certain message. Earlier she spoke better but now it feels that she is speaking more than necessary.

I think during her divorce time, the messages were on mark...

Originally posted by: musicalstorm

No there is a difference...Atleast here EMA is addressed and people are punished...I accept the people repeat their mistakes, but galat ko galat kaha jaata hai. But in GHKPM mein to punishment milti nai hai, upar se galat ko sahi bola jaata hai. Bas ek Sai ladti rehti hai...

Yahaan Anupama bhale lamba lamba bolti hai...Par uski team hai...Waha akeli Sai hi hai ladnewali...Usko hi thoda bahut sahi galat dikhta hai baki sab andhe hai. Waha sab Sai ko blame karte hai, yahan pe Anupama ke supporters bhi hai.

Wahaan ke actors characters ki bad deeds ko justify karte hai. Yahaan Toshu, Pakhi real life mein kabhi aisa nai karte.

Ghum agar dekhoge to lagega ki ML ko lifetime imprisonment ho jaani chahiye. Anupama is much much bearable

And the progression in the show has been that earlier Anupama akeli thi, baa and rest everyone found fault in her except Samar.. Now slowly she has won all those people's hearts who used to dislike her.. Even Vanraj acknowledges her goodness..but his is not the type to love that kind of character.. Fair enough.. Now he is accepting he did wrong in cheating on his wife.. Baa also sees Anupama's good qualities now.. What the makers have shown is.. It was a rocky road but in the end good does win over evil.. The execution of plots is not always upto mark but the arc is clear.. I wonder if Ghkkpm will ever show this kind of reversal.

Yes, in Ghum, the writers and characters are all ghum in their bubble of lies and the audiences are also ghum. The serial is gaslighting the audience ki no, the wrong characters are not wrong and the audience is actually misjudging. I feel like saying sorry to the characters in Ghum for misjudging them.

Anupama is irritating but doesn't justify wrongs. What they do is justify the person and forgives the characters. But they don't justify their act. But that's what happens in real life. It is very hard to cut off ties with our children or anyone, we hate them at times but we accept them again and again. We do have relatives and even parents or spouses or even brothers and sisters who we know are toxic or just wrong, but we still forgive for love's sake. I don't mean that we should keep forgiving without boundaries but sometimes we forgive even though we don't let them turn us into doormats. Like some relative may have wronged us but in times of need, we still help them.

Originally posted by: Jefen

Yes, in Ghum, the writers and characters are all ghum in their bubble of lies and the audiences are also ghum. The serial is gaslighting the audience ki no, the wrong characters are not wrong and the audience is actually misjudging. I feel like saying sorry to the characters in Ghum for misjudging them.

Anupama is irritating but doesn't justify wrongs. What they do is justify the person and forgives the characters. But they don't justify their act. But that's what happens in real life. It is very hard to cut off ties with our children or anyone, we hate them at times but we accept them again and again. We do have relatives and even parents or spouses or even brothers and sisters who we know are toxic or just wrong, but we still forgive for love's sake. I don't mean that we should keep forgiving without boundaries but sometimes we forgive even though we don't let them turn us into doormats. Like some relative may have wronged us but in times of need, we still help them.

Bolded lines: Much much true...Sometimes we have to stay silent, sometimes we fight, sometimes we forgive but we cant completely disown a family member. No matter how much toxic they are. Yes we can raise a voice, but after somedays they all will be back to square one. But we have to learn how to not be a doormat...

Anupama is not paying attention to Pakhi and that itself is a big step for me. She told her to get out.

Red lines: The Bhatt couple (Pakhi and Virat) I tell you, they are making the audience feel wrong that we are thinking that their characters wrong. And they are a big reason the story is ruined

Originally posted by: Jefen

Yes, in Ghum, the writers and characters are all ghum in their bubble of lies and the audiences are also ghum. The serial is gaslighting the audience ki no, the wrong characters are not wrong and the audience is actually misjudging. I feel like saying sorry to the characters in Ghum for misjudging them.

Anupama is irritating but doesn't justify wrongs. What they do is justify the person and forgives the characters. But they don't justify their act. But that's what happens in real life. It is very hard to cut off ties with our children or anyone, we hate them at times but we accept them again and again. We do have relatives and even parents or spouses or even brothers and sisters who we know are toxic or just wrong, but we still forgive for love's sake. I don't mean that we should keep forgiving without boundaries but sometimes we forgive even though we don't let them turn us into doormats. Like some relative may have wronged us but in times of need, we still help them.

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I have a issue as they made Vanraj spout dialogues like we had respect between us though we didn't have pyaar to Anu and she said nothing or agreed to whatever he said. They made Anu say that he wasn't all wrong. That was justification of the abuse he did to Anu and they made the victim way those dialogues. In the initial episodes he was shown to terrorise her. Locking her outside the house isn't 'respect'.

I really don't care about anyone else though I do have my issues... But justification of Vanraj was the horridest thing the makers could have done to spoil the show for me.

Ab yeh pehle jaise wala forum lag raha hai Kosha

Originally posted by: austen-eliot

And the progression in the show has been that earlier Anupama akeli thi, baa and rest everyone found fault in her except Samar.. Now slowly she has won all those people's hearts who used to dislike her.. Even Vanraj acknowledges her goodness..but his is not the type to love that kind of character.. Fair enough.. Now he is accepting he did wrong in cheating on his wife.. Baa also sees Anupama's good qualities now.. What the makers have shown is.. It was a rocky road but in the end good does win over evil.. The execution of plots is not always upto mark but the arc is clear.. I wonder if Ghkkpm will ever show this kind of reversal.

Thode characters flip ho rahe hai, but largely they are realising their mistakes in the end. I know they will repeat the mistakes but kar kya sakte hai, ITV hai kuchh to masala dikhana padega. Sab kuchh sahi ho gaya to show chalega kaise.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Ab yeh pehle jaise wala forum lag raha hai Kosha

Thank you surabhi 😳

I still can write long long things on Anupama serial but I have to adjust time

Kosha can u tell how a wife proove that she truly love her husband or not

I mean if any wife visit her children from past marriage in their problems for 2 hrs that means she is not loving her husband ?

What is criteria of of true love .as far I know In real.life mein wife husband ke food Dena unke saath baate karna unke saath ghumne jaane ke elawa ke kya karti hongi

Anupama help little anu in study she drop her in school Anupama do Mazak masti with anuj .she even give medicine to anuj and do hand massage of anuj when anuj was paralyze .what more can anupama do apart from this proove that she actually love anuj or not

What is ur definition of true love between spouse