My point of view

Not a new member in this forum...But I'm posting after ages in this forum...

I had left the forum because of some reasons. I had always said that Anupama is far more better than the shows which are currently in top 5...I had always appreciated Rupali's acting and still I'm appreciating her acting...I am not making posts here as I dont wanna be a different one here.

I agree that Anupama on the first episode was fantastic and days passing by the show is losing its charm. I am too tired of Anupama's Mahanta sometimes and she solving all the problems. Yes she gets annoying. I still dont like the way of her speaking constant Sorry. I too feel that she is overreacting, over speaking.

But I can never accept that Anupama is a bad lady. If I can point her negatives out, then I also know in which areas she is good. I dont wanna point her good points, because my post will get much long...Some of her struggles are real. We are too busy in pointing her negatives...

Made the post as GHKPM got a top position earlier, but Anupama is again on 1. People in that forum in fact appreciated that CVs in Anupama are sensible and pay attention to our POV. the way we are criticising Anupama, I wish some of you might watch Virat, he is a disgusting character in the name of lead. Anupama is a toxic show definitely. But the fact is every show is toxic. But Anupama has a low level of toxicity...If you watch other shows, then they all are more cringey than Anupama...

Here we always want to criticise Anupama, but she is also good sometimes. Virat in GHKPM has no sense of how bad he is and still he acts to be caring. Anupama is far better than him. I can bet no one in real life can learn something from GHKPM, but atleast few in real life can learn something from Anupama

Majority ppl do not like how she treats anuj and little anu as an option in her life

That is why everything she does is scrutinized to find mistakes

And anupama makes everything about herself her pain her past relation whoever is in trouble

Shes also a hypocrite who preaches a lot never follows much of what she says actually

What anupama can say n 1 sentence she preaches 90 minutes across three episodes you see if its shahs

Its not that viewer only point anupama faults they point anuj fault too

This serial would be great message if they truly concentrated on anupam acharacter instead of kinjal, pakhi, toshu, vanraj

I never see them giving much scenes with anuj, little anu or Gk

always anupama and shahs are 90% scenes till date and all they do is fight argue misbehave or celebrate festivals etc no meaningful story

same ema same fights same bashans - it was ok 1-2 months but 1 full year

Yes if we compare anupama to other show it is much much better .at least anupama d not show unrealistic problem and planning plotting .anupama mein pehle jyaada tar realistic problem dikhate hai to log show se connect kar paate they aur log jyaada se jyaada show dekhte they

The complaint I have with writer I have that they drag unimportant scenes too much .like if they have planning festival or party uska festival ya function ka ek ek program ko details mein discuss karte hai

Jaise Kaun se Gaane elect hoga Matlab ek episode just Dance ki tayari mein aur ek episode just Kaun kaise kapde pehle GA aur ek episode just game khelne mein nikalna Hota hai

Tyohaar se inke khaand shuru Hota hai aur 1,2 haffe phir se tyohaar aa ta hai to pehle Jo khaan hua Hota uska to to yeh proper closure to dikhate nahi phir naye festival mein phir se Naya Kand shuru kar dete hai

Second complaint with CVS there is no proper planning and proper ending of any track

More over they are showing other issues but not focusing on properly on anupama education track .

Those who live in north west side woh jaroor is anupama serial se connect kar paate honge kyonki north west side 80 percent vanraj aur Leela jaise log pakka milega

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Yes if we compare anupama to other show it is much much better .at least anupama d not show unrealistic problem and planning plotting .anupama mein pehle jyaada tar realistic problem dikhate hai to log show se connect kar paate they aur log jyaada se jyaada show dekhte they

The complaint I have with writer I have that they drag unimportant scenes too much .like if they have planning festival or party uska festival ya function ka ek ek program ko details mein discuss karte hai

Jaise Kaun se Gaane elect hoga Matlab ek episode just Dance ki tayari mein aur ek episode just Kaun kaise kapde pehle GA aur ek episode just game khelne mein nikalna Hota hai

Tyohaar se inke khaand shuru Hota hai aur 1,2 haffe phir se tyohaar aa ta hai to pehle Jo khaan hua Hota uska to to yeh proper closure to dikhate nahi phir naye festival mein phir se Naya Kand shuru kar dete hai

Second complaint with CVS there is no proper planning and proper ending of any track

More over they are showing other issues but not focusing on properly on anupama education track .

Those who live in north west side woh jaroor is anupama serial se connect kar paate honge kyonki north west side 80 percent vanraj aur Leela jaise log pakka milega

I think in east and south too similar men are there but only 30% not 80% may be

Also in south and east even west like maharastra mumbai pune etc its not easy to hit a woman or abuse her by hubby as society will speak much more

And in south and east more educated college going so women are more independent know their rights and will not bend like anupama easily

One thing i saw is if man hits or dominates wife he will raise hand or dominate on daughter and sister too

If man abuses wife he will not be nice to sister or kids too

But here vanraj is nice to others only to anupama, kavya, malvika he dominates or manipulates not to pakhi

Yes anupama is not bad lady more over it is not romantic show .jahan pur anupama sirf aur sirf anuj ke saath time spend kar hue milegi

It show about anupama journey to anupama sirf anuj ke saath nahi uski story kabhi apne pehle shaadi le bache le saath bhi dikhaya jaayega even apni bahu damad ke saath bhi dikhaya jaayega

Rest I don't care about anupama lecture kyonki mere liye bahut chota reason anupama ko crictise karne because for me anupama ke lecture se,kisi ka baari nuksaan nahi ho raha hai aur na hi kisi ke life destroy ho rahi hai Anupama le lecture se

Yes I feel anupama apna time waste karti hai vanraj aur baa aur pakhi jaise logon ko explain kar ke kyonki baa pakhi vanraj logon ko sahi baat to samajh nahi aati isliye anupama inko. explain karne ke chakkar mein apna time waste aur mood na kharaab kare

Yaarbsab ke sab duffers hai. Waha Devar bhabhi, yaha EMA... jyada farak nahi. Ha bas ek difference hai, waha toxic log well educated and reputed job karne wale log aur yaha not much. With that point I agree but rest everything same to same... yaha Baa waha Kaaku.

Anupama's lectures are actually the highlight of this show.. It's supposed to be a show with a social message and this is the way the not-very-imaginative CVS are able to show the social messages-- by making Anupama give lectures on various social evils.. Before there was subtlety and intelligence in portraying that.. But with time makers are losing the interest and running out of creative juices.

Originally posted by: myviewprem

Majority ppl do not like how she treats anuj and little anu as an option in her life

That is why everything she does is scrutinized to find mistakes

And anupama makes everything about herself her pain her past relation whoever is in trouble

Shes also a hypocrite who preaches a lot never follows much of what she says actually

What anupama can say n 1 sentence she preaches 90 minutes across three episodes you see if its shahs

Its not that viewer only point anupama faults they point anuj fault too

This serial would be great message if they truly concentrated on anupam acharacter instead of kinjal, pakhi, toshu, vanraj

I never see them giving much scenes with anuj, little anu or Gk

always anupama and shahs are 90% scenes till date and all they do is fight argue misbehave or celebrate festivals etc no meaningful story

same ema same fights same bashans - it was ok 1-2 months but 1 full year

I never felt that Anupama has treated Anuj and Little Anu badly. Bad can be explained very subjectively. Comparing the other serial leads, I feel that Anupama is still a good one. How we perceive things also makes a difference. In the other serials the leads are separated, atleast here they are together. They name that angst, anger is a form of love. There is no type of angst here. They both stand for each other. They dont scold each other.

We dont need to scrutinize everything very badly, because then we cannot see the beauty of the character. Yes, I totally annoyed by the fact that she will speak OTT sometimes but as a lead character, Anupama has to convey something to audience also. So she has to speak up. And in ITV I have gradually accepted the fact that Lead will be shown over Mahaan...

The thing of hypocrisy, in real life we all are hypocrites. There are certain things we dont mean actually but we speak those things. We speak so much good but our actions are something else. For eg everyone talks about helping others, but when really you have to help, then would anyone really help? If Anupama is saying that she will help people, then she is actually helping people. I know her OTT talks but atleast she is helping people.

She is the lead so she will talk for 90 minutes...We will feel sometimes that why she is speaking all this things? Hakikat mein yeh dialogues kisi aur character ko bolne chahiye the. Anuj is a sensible guy.

Yes, you are right the Shahs fight, argue, misbehave and celebrate...Nothing new...But I think thats bringing the TRP

Vanraj had an EMA, Toshu had it. But here the characters are shown that they are suffering for their mistakes. Though the characters are still bad but they are punished. Pakhi is repeating mistakes but she was told to get out. Though she is same. In GHKPM, I tell you the characters are horrible. Few characters were shown supporting EMA. In Ghum, EMA has been going on since day one. A vile character's past bad deeds are forgotten and she become a Devi of the house. Atleast in Anupama, the voice is being raised and people are punished for their acts. Vanraj, Pakhi, Toshu will repeat their mistakes coz this is ITV

The cast of Anupama, Aashish and Muskaan are not justifying their characters. In that serial, the actress is justifying EMA so that her character appears to be positive.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Yes if we compare anupama to other show it is much much better .at least anupama d not show unrealistic problem and planning plotting .anupama mein pehle jyaada tar realistic problem dikhate hai to log show se connect kar paate they aur log jyaada se jyaada show dekhte they

The complaint I have with writer I have that they drag unimportant scenes too much .like if they have planning festival or party uska festival ya function ka ek ek program ko details mein discuss karte hai

Jaise Kaun se Gaane elect hoga Matlab ek episode just Dance ki tayari mein aur ek episode just Kaun kaise kapde pehle GA aur ek episode just game khelne mein nikalna Hota hai

Tyohaar se inke khaand shuru Hota hai aur 1,2 haffe phir se tyohaar aa ta hai to pehle Jo khaan hua Hota uska to to yeh proper closure to dikhate nahi phir naye festival mein phir se Naya Kand shuru kar dete hai

Second complaint with CVS there is no proper planning and proper ending of any track

More over they are showing other issues but not focusing on properly on anupama education track .

Those who live in north west side woh jaroor is anupama serial se connect kar paate honge kyonki north west side 80 percent vanraj aur Leela jaise log pakka milega

Surabhi, I totally agree with you...Cant add more to your words...

Originally posted by: myviewprem

I think in east and south too similar men are there but only 30% not 80% may be

Also in south and east even west like maharastra mumbai pune etc its not easy to hit a woman or abuse her by hubby as society will speak much more

And in south and east more educated college going so women are more independent know their rights and will not bend like anupama easily

One thing i saw is if man hits or dominates wife he will raise hand or dominate on daughter and sister too

If man abuses wife he will not be nice to sister or kids too

But here vanraj is nice to others only to anupama, kavya, malvika he dominates or manipulates not to pakhi

Vanraj ki to baat hi mat karo. Yeh banda na tab samajh mein aata tha, na aaj...

Today he is doing Pakhu, Pakhu and yesterday he threw her out.