love frm a long distant

hey im babi_angel. i m new to dis just joined .

well i got a problem

i have got a mate she went on holiday to india. she met a guy there he is 2 yrs older. They fell in love. She came bak and cant get over him. They both talk on msn. The scary fing is he keeps askin her if she loves him evri minute!!! She blocked him but still luvs him. Hes cumin here n she dont no if they shud meet up. wat shud she do???

Hi, welcome to the forum.

Long distance relationships need too much time, care and patience. Is your friend capable of being away for years? I have a friend who got engaged to a guy who lives in her country and she always pines for him. Tell your friend to talk to her family, someone who knows her since she was a kid. That person would know or be able to understand her feelings more caz she saw her grow up. It's different from a friend's perspective but it helps caz she knows ur friend's family conditions.
Also, if your friend decides to meet him tell her to inform a sister/cousin about the date, time and venue. If possible go with her. Do not meet in a distant or isolated place.

Best of luck.

Long distance relationships are not bad. U just need to understand certain things and a great deal of commitment

If your friend loves this guy as much as u said she does, then I think she should tell him. Because if your friend were to be in the same position as the guy right now, she wouldn't like the treatment that she's giving.

Your friend shouldn't be worried about long distance because before this guy met with your friend, he probally knows that they both will be in a different country.

The reason y he must be asking her if she loves him is because he likes to hear when she say it or she never told him anything.

All I have to say is your friend should give him a chance because she never knows until she tries. Besides she has noting to lose.

she should tell him before he gets tired of waiting and move on.

Best of luck to your friend😊

i think that guy really loves her that,s why he is like that but the girl should meet him once and decide if she want to continue this relationship or no.ur friend should also decide if she really love that guy or it was just a
attraction.

Well, I suggest she needs to analyze her thoughts, feelings, and heart. To go ahead with a relationship - especially a long distance love relationship - it's really necessary to first know if you really love him and second that will be able to get your love.

If the guy is coming all the way from India, then he does really love her. That part is clear but now your friends needs to decide if she loves him as well. If both love each other and the family has no problem, then I don't see a problem here. The only one problem would be the distance. They need to decide what they'll do without each other and whether it's possible for them to stay thousands of miles apart and still maintain a healthy relationship. Also, if they plan on getting married, who will move? Will the guy come over or will the girl need to go to India? If both agree on this part, then there should not be any problem.

Your friend just needs to answer a few questions for herself. That's it.

Hey babi angel,

Well, i must agree to everyone else comments. Well, she should precisely what to do exactly and not to make it quick. Make a good decision of her answer and then follow it.

BTW welcome to the forums my dear friend.

y did she blocked....wen both of dem luvseach other den wat is d problem?i thnk dey sahud meet n clear up evrytnn n cont chattin n luvin each other...i dont thnk deres any harm dere

honestly, i dont think long distance relationships work. If i am to speak from my own experience, I got sick of my boyriend's voice literallly three months after i moved to Paris... and if that guy is so insecure or a fanatic that he is asking if she loves her every minute...i dont think its safe for her to meet him

fanx sfor da advice everyone!
It didnt turn out greeat!
Her life just moveed on because
the guy sort of got a new girlfriend!
she still misses him tho