Originally posted by: TheekThaak
Can speak of what I have witnessed and realised over time. I feel that being a bit decisive and confident is literally half the battle won. This works in almost all the phases, in school, college or workspace. That confidence also comes from being well aware of the things you do, learn or practice. If at school or college, you need not be the top scorer but if you have good grasp of what you study or are half decent at the sport you play (or any other activity for that matter), it just transforms your personality and people will draw the lines themselves. At work too, nobody is irreplaceable but your skills will make people want to retain you or learn from you. So big or small, trying to be good at what you do gives you both confidence and power to be decisive which is a boon. It is just that, people around you will automatically realise that there is only so much they can pester you, if they cross those lines, either you won't pay heed or won't take it lying. For all the other nuisances that are disguised in sweetness, recognising them and maintaining strict boundaries with them helps immensely.
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