IBF COMPLAIN AND TREND AGAINST BIGAMY - Page 6

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Posted: 3 years ago
#51

Sai was recorded as having been in the hospital in Nagpur post accident. So if ips had gone to check the hospital he'd have found her/managed to find record of her admission there. Point is that an IPS used a piece of cloth and somebody saying unclaimed bodies were cremated as evidence that his wife is dead. He never considered to investigate. How can a man- a police officer by profession so easily assume his wife whom he supposedly loved to be dead?! He asked her to leave very rudely and after a huge drama pertaining him bringing a criminal home who snatched her baby from her- so the excuse that her not returning home is reason to pardon him believing shes dead is utterly BS. The guy didnt care as an IPS to abide by the law. If Sai was "missing/possibly dead" but not confirmed he was obligated to wait for 7 years or approach a court before he married P. He didnt do that. He also has circumvented the 2 year marriage rule of the orphanage prior to adoption too. So he is legally and morally wrong. Even if you forget all that, NOW, when Sai is alive, as an IPS officer- he is the FIRST person who should realize the implications of that and file for divorce. Sai, P, Chavannis should also consider it but as the IPS officer he is the one who should realize that he is married to 2 people and he needs to dissolve one of these 2 marriages. He may not acknowledge Sai as his wife anymore but legally the marriage is NOT over. If there is an investigation done into all this, there is sufficient doubt that can be raised regarding an extramarital illicit relationship he had prior to Sai presumed death. Proving may be difficult but theres enough circumstantial evidence to raise doubt on his and Ps character.

Because an investigation would reveal how he violated his wife's reproductive right and consent, pursued an illegal surrogacy without his wife's knowledge, Sai was forced to accept it-procedure hogaya toh theres nothing she could do- it was HER child, eventually he bailed out the criminal once there was proof of all her misdeeds and then married the same woman and adopted a child with her.

This casts enough aspersions on his intentions. Perhaps he had feelings for his bhabhi even before Sai "died". There should ideally be an investigation on whether the accident was also orchestrated by V or P somehow.... Or maybe he falsified death certificate of Sai just to marry P. Because these questions arise if matter goes to court.

If there is a court case and an investigation- V does look guilty. Yes, offences may not all be proved but sufficient doubt will be there to indicate that he was clearly not a good partner. And a good lawyer can definitely make a case for harassment against him and emotional abuse against Chavannis. He made Sai go through a lot of heartache, she tolerated it like many women included educated women do in this country for many reasons until she could no longer tolerate it and she had sufficient ground to abandon him and not come back because she felt threatened - both for herself and her child. She already lost 2 children. She couldn't lose a third. She didn't fake identity, stage a death or do anything illegal. She merely stayed away without returning. As a mother, as a woman she made the best choice for herself and her child. If V truly had loved her and cared, he'd have tried harder to investigate her "death" instead of marrying the woman who wronged his wife and was indirectly responsible for the death of his wife AND 2 children. She didn't have the financial resources or physical/mental bandwidth to putsue a divorce case then but she will be willing to give V a divorce now.

Sai has not hidden Savi's paternity out of spite.. she did so because she felt "threatened". Her child's safety was at risk.

A divorce would be good for Sairat. Sai deserves a permanent closure.

And what they are showing is illegal marriage and illegal adoption.

Adoption ke khilaaf complaint kiya hai amd we have got the template answer of how this is just "drama".

Bigamy ke khilaaf complaint karenge ab- lets see.

I expect same response BUT point is , if enough people complaint, they will be forced to fast track this plot and give a closure one way or another like they did with illegal surrogacy.

Either V redemption track and Sairat reconciliation will have to happen or if actors playing VP are insecure, unprofessional and NB refuses to be paired as Sairat endgame then either they can be fired or we will get a new ML for Sai because TRP audience will not wanna watch Sai without a happy ending. People are rooting for Sai, not for VP. So Sai getting a happy ending is a must. Solo journey ho ya with new ML. Solo is difficult on ITV. Wont sustain enough interest to show only Sai without anyone in her life.

Essentially we should be filing the complaint to pressure them to move forward with the plot imstead of this pendulum behavior and two-timing jerk behavior of bigamist Virat Chavan.

If they choose to make VP endgame they will have to figure out what next because audience will stop watching unless something major happens to Sai and Sai is back in limelight.

Without Sai there is no interest in VP, Chavannis. People tolerate them only for Sai. Period.

This show is about Sai. Not about V. V is a character in her life. If the focus is not on Sai, no one will care to watch.

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Posted: 3 years ago
#52

Originally posted by: ratna.nanda


Karne do .thats better than the constant sai and audience torture that vankar is doing now..Sai signing even a mutual consent divorce form will lead to a courtroom drama..since Sai has a child she conceived and gave birth to while still being married to Virat.


Judge and our laws are not dumb like virat chavan..the issue of Savi's paternity will be raised on the event of divorce. Sai won't lie in a court of law.


And If they show a mockery of court proceedings..that'll make way for even more strong IBF complaints.



Exactly since Sai has a child .. no court case can just be signed .. the child birth certificate will have to be shown .. then there will be a hearing .. virat can contest that I am not the father.. if Sai agrees then only divorce can happen

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Posted: 3 years ago
#53

Originally posted by: msin



Exactly since Sai has a child .. no court case can just be signed .. the child birth certificate will have to be shown .. then there will be a hearing .. virat can contest that I am not the father.. if Sai agrees then only divorce can happen


You know Virat questioning Savi's paternity itself is deal breaker for the relationship and residual feelings Sai has for this man.

This woman was your wife, the one true love of your life and then you question the paternity of the child she gave birth to.. what kind of man that makes you?


This was the " love " and " trust"he had for Sai 🙄🙄.


I thought snatching Sai's newborn child from her was the lowest of low virat could stoop to..vankar proved me wrong when virat questioned savi's paternity,and not even thinking /doubting once it could be his kid..the more you think about it..t's disgusting .


I truly wish Samrat should come back..he'd kill Virat for putting Sai through so much. Pulkit is disappointing as a brother.

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Posted: 3 years ago
#54

Divorce has to happen even if V is the father of Savi. Because he cannot be married to 2 people. Custody- joint hogi ya solo custody to Sai will be the question once Savi paternity is revealed. With V already having another family - kid and wife, and the attitude of CN to Sai, Sai can contest that Savi isnt safe with V and CN and in any case she has clearly demonstrated that she has given a good upbringing to Savi to keep solo custody of the child. And if custody battle happens all the history will also be dug up and V being a horrible guy will definitely come to the forefront along with the criminal history of the whole family.. maybe even Pullu can corroborate the attitude of CN to Harinee and Devi too to strengthen Sai's case. Infact if Pullu speaks up and all those charges are proven, sab jail jayenge and they may lose Vinu custody since this family is full of criminals.

V can probably retaliate with mentionong JM but investigation will prove that Sai never allowed JM to help and warned him to stay away. Moreover he has not broken out of jail, he has been shown as being out as a free man after serving his time or being granted a reduced sentence and being lawfully released unlike P who never was under trial also.

But theres no way V can get solo custody. Best case scenario for V would be Savi's joint custody. But thats a stretch.

But divorce/custody battle hua toh closure milega, V ki badnaami hogi and it'll pave way for the plot toove forward. It'll either have to be done with V redemption or Sai V moving on and Sai getting a new man in life. Sai running behind V will not be tolerated this time inlike Shruti track because this time he has done court marriage, adoption, etc etc.

Edited by Nja91 - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago
#55

I have submitted complaint to IBF about '2 wives' and they have accepted it as valid last week. Yet to receive reply from the grievance officer. But now that I think of it, V has been suspended for having 'two wives' before, so he must know that he can be suspended again for still continuing his 'marriage' with P. Then why is he so calm? Or he is just waiting to get suspension letter like the illegal surrogacy?

Or is it Savi? He had assumed Savi as someone else's child. BK also had the same question about Savi. Did Sai marry again? But nobody is doing anything to find out who is Savi's father. If they question Sai about Savi's father, and Sai says Savi is her child with her husband, the Chavan's might think Sai had married again. They might think if it was V's, Sai would have come back or tell them about Savi before. Until Savi's paternity is revealed, Sai is the one who had betrayed the marriage, because she left, moved on and had a child. Whereas V assumed her to be dead and married again, so he is not wrong.

Sai doesnt wear anything that shows her as a married woman and Savi dont know about her father, both of this V is aware of. Savi's reveal will make Sai-V's marriage still valid and V-P's 'marriage' as invalid. If V still plays 2 ghar after that, then he is consciously doing bigamy, or they will have to show divorce.

Edited by purplegirl7 - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago
#56

Originally posted by: Nja91

Imo if you write up a short draft of the complaint and post it here, I'm sure there will be interested people who can use that draft and file a complaint. People often dont raise a complaint because they feel koi faayda nahi or because they dont have the time to draft a complaint themselves. Koi faayda nahi waala reason is true to some degree but that doesnt mean we shouldnt air our displeasure. Time constraint is valid. so to make it easy- if you post a draft, interested people can easily chipkao it and there will be a mass complaint that way. atleast it will be noticed and force the channel to give a response if its a mass complaint.



Totally agree. There are some who are diffident about writing such letters. About being concise and effective in writing.


A draft is indeed a good idea.

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Posted: 3 years ago
#57

There are a lot of loopholes on which they can scoot easily but if all this is stressful for people, they must file complaints

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Posted: 3 years ago
#58

If it has been two weeks, you must follow-up to that complaint again. The channel is supposed to revert in 15 days

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Anilaanu

The show ghum hai kisikey pyaar meiin aired by starplus has shown an IPS officer as a bigamist which is strictly against laws....he concluded himself that his wife is dead without proper investigation while she was working as a doctor ,even bought land..i.e she was alive in laws eyes and her husband married another lady and illegally adopted a child and its also shown that the family too approves this marriage....an IPS officer is expected to be an enforcer of law so according to law he is expected to divorce his first wife or call out his second marriage as illegal...Glorification of bigamy that too by family of politicians and ips officer is sending wrong message to public otherwise show the police department is taking strict actions against him....earlier too he had committed many crimes with the power of his uniform...the character IPS virat chavan deserves dismissal from service ..


Its rough copy...first time writing....if you find any mistake please feel free to point it out

Slightly tweaked version

The show ghum hai kisikey pyaar meiin aired by starplus has shown violation of law & criminal acts a lot of times in the past with criminals not getting punished by law. Latest is bigamy by IPS which is strictly against laws. He concluded himself that his wife is dead without proper investigation while she was working as a doctor ,even bought land..i.e she was alive in laws eyes. The IPS husband married another lady and illegally adopted a child with full consent of family. An IPS officer is expected to be an enforcer of law. In the past too, he has violated law. As per law he is expected to divorce his first wife or call out his second marriage as illegal. But StarPlus glorifies bigamy & abuse of woman like Sai sending wrong message to young impressionable audience by showing blatant immoral activity & violation of law by politician family & ips officer in name of creative freedom. It is pathetic that even IBF doesn't ensure responsible storytelling by broadcasters such as StarPlus.

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