A wife like AnupaMaa is every man's nightmare - Page 4

This is the first time I'm hearing that we must imagine and assume what a fictional character is doing because the CVs don't show it for their own reasons. In a show or movie, you only go by what you see on the screen. That's the whole point. That's what we discuss and debate upon, the values and ideals they are showing. No one will go to the extent of assuming and creating their own scene that this is what someone does...When you look at the show as is, you just see that she is always at Shah House, even if not every minute, every single DAY. So she's promoting such a toxic ideal of repeatedly going back to your extremely vile and toxic "maykaa" and acting like their unpaid maid.

That way we can assume Baa is very nice at times when they don't show us or that Vanraj is deeply in love with Kavya and has always been a great human being, and that just that to make him the villain CVs have shown us only the bad side. You can assume about anyone in the show saying realistically this can't be possible. Realistically no family is as messed up as the Shah Family, where everyone is so toxic and awful for no good reason! So can we imagine that they are actually nice but that part is not shown to us? Maybe we should, it'll give us another reason to defend Anupama going back again and again. But then it takes way the mahaanta ki devi title she's been given, since they're all equally wonderful people.

You criticise a fictional character based on the actions you see on screen. She's FICTIONAL, she doesn't exist! The minute you have to start imagining and assuming things in order to defend their actions, you know it's time to stop trying and accept their flaws. If one can ask others not to criticize Anupama, others can also say don't support her blindly, when she's evidently wrong.

And we criticise ALL wrong characters on the show, even if they're good people. Baapuji is shown to be a benign person but we criticize him for holding Anupama down several times using emotions. We criticise Samar when he isn't as outspoken about his support for Anupama as before, or when he doesn't outright reprimand his brother for cheating on his pregnant wife. We criticize Kinjal when she keeps relying on Anupama for every little thing that she can easily do on her own. So why should Anupama's wrong actions alone be defended and immune to criticism? Why that exception for her? She's not perfect, she makes mistakes just like everyone else. And when the mistakes made by an "ideal woman" propagate the wrong message, we have every right to and should call it out. Not just say she's such a kind person and ignore all her flaws.

Also okay fine, Anupama had no confidence and no support from the family earlier. Now she's apparently grown to be a more confident and self assured woman. After ALL the drama that happened, the absolutely horrible things Pakhi said to her, my goodness I haven't heard even the most vile characters speak like that, Pakhi randomly goes to Kapadia House and says sorry to her ONCE (Probably because she realised she'll be stopped from going there to meet Adhik, there's no other reason to flip so quickly). Anupama said she is allowing her into the house but not forgiving her. But she did forgive her... and Pakhi didn't do anything to earn forgiveness, in fact she passes taunts to Anupama even after that, when Anupama revealed Toshu's affair and even recently at the Garba Night about listening to her bhashan. How did she just forgive her and WHY is she putting up with their behaviour even now?

I want to know from ardent Anupama supporters, how do you defend that action as being anything other than having NO self respect? Even Toshu has spoken SO horribly and said extremely unforgivable things. However kind and forgiving you are, will you forgive your kids for speaking like this to you? They didn't even speak like kids. Without ANY thought of what had happened before and how she said she would never return or step into that house or how no one apologized or showed any remorse for what they said to her, she HOPPED in happily to Shah House with CA. HOW??

If Toshu/Pakhi were properly reprimanded, not just by saying 2-3 lines against them or asking them to shut up, Toshu wouldn't have dared to be like this nor would Pakhi (going by even the upcoming track). She forgave them without even a proper sorry or remorse from them so they continued being the exact same disrespectful brats that they are. And please, a MOTHER can do more than give 2-3 lines asking the children to shut up. Her self respect and parenting skills, both are down the drain.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Wvy don't u ask directly to me instead of asking indirectly to others about my post every time

Read my post properly

I told that in my post that producers are doing partiality in shooting of venue .in their every episode they shoot 95 percent in shah house only and hardly shoot on Kapadia house .it is hardly about 5 percent when they shoot for Kapadia house

So I am also telling that that CVS hardly show anupama in Kapadia house because they hardly shoot for Kapadia house and mostly shoot for shah house

So due to their partiality of shooting and bad presentation it always look anupama is always in shah house but actually anupama is not always shah house

I have already give example

And again I am giving example

Like in Yesterday episode when anupama and Anuj go for sleep at night and next day next scene was CVS directly show anupama going to shah house

Now in real life is it practically possible can anyone just wake up in morning and just deck up and go to other house earlier in morning .?it is not possible

So definitely anupama will also not reach immediately to shah house as soon as she wake up

Anupama ne bhi apne Ghar ke kaam nibataye honge anu ko Nashta diya hoga use nahalalya hoga yeh sub karke tub anupama shah house mein aayi hogi

But as I told due bad presentation of CVS and they most focus on shah house as they did 95 percent shooting at shah house hardly at Kapadia house so it always look anupama is always at shah not at Kapadia house but actually she is not

Lol Anuj ki maa zinda nahi hai isiliye anupama aye din maike ja sakti hai . Sasuma hai nahi and husband lattoo hai so daily maike jati hai .

Moohbole maike toh matlab kisi na kisi reason se pohoch he jati hai 😆
Aisi second marriage first time dekhi jaha biwi aye din maike bhagti ho 😆

I am again repeating that too in today episode in order to go to picnic anupama must have pack pack all her belong and little anu belonging in bags and fir this she must have gone to Kapadia house .she must have prepared food .but as i told due to partiality they do not shoot such scene in Kapadia house

They directly show anupama standing near van going fir picnic and handling list to anuj isme aapki jaroori medicine likhi medicine Kab leni Hai yeh sub likha hai aur kisi bhi cheej ki jaroorat ho woh samar se Manga Lena. So anupama do care of anuj

But due to partiality of CVS it look always that she is in shah house only not In Kapadia house

And tell me if anupama is reallig staying at shah house always morning to night then how come she come to shah house without luggage bag .hum to ek din ke liye bhi kisi rishtedaar ke yahan jaata hai to apne saath air bag le jaat Jai jisme hamars khuch apma personal item Hota Hai .so I have never seen seen when anupama going to shah to stay there for 15 hrs with luggage bag her so how can we say that anupama stay at shah house fir 15 hrs when she is not carrying luggage bag with her

You can defend Anupama as much as you want. I see her the way she is shown in the show. I am not going to imagine what she does when not on camera, coz when not on camera Anupama is Rupali and she goes to her own house and not to the Kapadia house.

And unlike Anupama, i am independent and strongminded to call out a wrong. I do not have to give 5 page bhaashan to justify my wrongs either.

I have strength to accept my mistakes and improve myself every single day. I do not need to justify my wrongs and hinder my own growth. I hope one day Anupama also learns to accept her mistakes and stop shielding abusers and lecturing innocent viewers.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

I am again repeating that too in today episode in order to go to picnic anupama must have pack pack all her belong and little anu belonging in bags and fir this she must have gone to Kapadia house .she must have prepared food .but as i told due to partiality they do not shoot such scene in Kapadia house

They directly show anupama standing near van going fir picnic and handling list to anuj isme aapki jaroori medicine likhi medicine Kab leni Hai yeh sub likha hai aur kisi bhi cheej ki jaroorat ho woh samar se Manga Lena. So anupama do care of anuj

But due to partiality of CVS it look always that she is in shah house only not In Kapadia house

And tell me if anupama is reallig staying at shah house always morning to night then how come she come to shah house without luggage bag .hum to ek din ke liye bhi kisi rishtedaar ke yahan jaata hai to apne saath air bag le jaat Jai jisme hamars khuch apma personal item Hota Hai .so I have never seen seen when anupama going to shah to stay there for 15 hrs with luggage bag her so how can we say that anupama stay at shah house fir 15 hrs when she is not carrying luggage bag with her

Ok by that logic, we can assume that Vanraj is a successful businessman in a billion dollar company. Of course, we aren't shown his office scenes but we can see that the Shah people always have new clothes, jewelries and hot food on the table. So he must be earning a lot of money, we can assume that too can't we? Also we can assume that Baa was really kind and perfect to Anu though we aren't shown, Anu treats her as her Maa and loves her so we can assume that also. Kavya said she had a job offer in an episode, though we aren't shown she goes for work anywhere again we can assume she got the job and is earning crores.

The point is in a Fictional show/story, what they present is what is actually perceived by the audience. If they show only the SH scenes and just giving dinner/calling to check on Anuj, then it is what the audience will presume.

Originally posted by: Koms9

episode # 675. Anuj fell off the bed, doctor asked to take care of him personally and anupama cried that she is not able to live the happy moment of kinjal's baby. I am sorry Anuj, next time keep your brain in check coz your Anu wants to dance and enjoy her moments.

episode # 676 she rushes to shah house after Anuj just woke up and other side her respected Baa was cursing her for getting late as she doesnt like when her maid daughter is late!

episode # 687 - apology. This episode she didnt leave early morning but she didnt come home at night. She stayed at shah house. And I am not imagining this, it was shown in episode. Anuj put CA to bed while he himself had a seizure a night before.

I agree for going on a trip she would have packed, but why would she prepare food when Anuj, GK, Ankush all are at Shah House. Or are you saying she being the Shah House maid, daughter she was slogging in Shah House kitchen instead of spending some time with Anuj before she leaves him alone for the picnic.

Anuj and anupama was shown standing out side of Kapadia house near van