A wife like AnupaMaa is every man's nightmare - Page 3

Originally posted by: blue-ice.1

Surabhi.....Anupama is not a real person....she is a fictional character....she is exactly what they show us....there are no guesses about her....because she is not real....so if they show her at the Shah house all the time....she IS at the Shah House....if they show her coming back late at night ...then that is what happens.....we are not going to guess what a fictional character woulda coulda shoulda be doing......A fictional character's activities are limited to what is shown on screen..

For her AnupaMaaaaa is the only reality.

I have already due to partiality by CVS that they 95 percent focus on shah house So it look anupama always in shah house but actually she is not

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Wvy don't u ask directly to me instead of asking indirectly to others about my post every time

Read my post properly

I told that in my post that producers are doing partiality in shooting of venue .in their every episode they shoot 95 percent in shah house only and hardly shoot on Kapadia house .it is hardly about 5 percent when they shoot for Kapadia house

So I am also telling that that CVS hardly show anupama in Kapadia house because they hardly shoot for Kapadia house and mostly shoot for shah house

So due to their partiality of shooting and bad presentation it always look anupama is always in shah house but actually anupama is not always shah house

I have already give example

And again I am giving example

Like in Yesterday episode when anupama and Anuj go for sleep at night and next day next scene was CVS directly show anupama going to shah house

Now in real life is it practically possible can anyone just wake up in morning and just deck up and go to other house earlier in morning .?it is not possible

So definitely anupama will also not reach immediately to shah house as soon as she wake up

Anupama ne bhi apne Ghar ke kaam nibataye honge anu ko Nashta diya hoga use nahalalya hoga yeh sub karke tub anupama shah house mein aayi hogi

But as I told due bad presentation of CVS and they most focus on shah house as they did 95 percent shooting at shah house hardly at Kapadia house so it always look anupama is always at shah not at Kapadia house but actually she is not

My response about anupama's stay at Kapadia house remains same.

@bold 1, yes it is possible to get ready early morning and go to other house for puja. Everyone does that if they are invited to early morning puja. One of my cousin had wedding muhurat of 5am, we all went early morning to attend her wedding.

@bold 2, until now they have always showed that anupama asks Choti anu to go get ready. She has never given her a bath, which is fine coz kids her age take bath themselves.

There is no question at all that Anupama is at shah house every single day. I did not live in India so I can not talk about myself but whenever I visited India when I was married, I had to spend all my vacation at in-laws. Also, I do not know any of my friends who visit their mom's house every single day after getting married. Forget about visiting abusive ex husband's house. Anupama is not an ideal woman to follow. She has set wrong examples at every step of life. Be it disciplining her abusive/rude/disrespective kids or her worshipping toxic/abusive mother in law, or ignoring her own old aged mother or taking anuj/GK/choti anu for granted just because they dont taunt her like her "maaykewale".

My grievance is why are we defending Anupama's every action. I liked in past when she took some good decisions but she takes one step ahead and 10 steps back. And she never follows what she preaches. Why can not we call her out when we call out Anuj and Vanraj everytime!

And by the way, two times they showed that Anupama went to shah house even before Anuj took shower.

Once he was still in bed and she was ready to go(wearing gajra, silk saree). And this was after the night when he fell off the bed.

Second time, he came looking for anupama after waking up but GK told anuj that she already went to SH. and then Anuj made his own coffee.

I am not imagining anything here, saying what they showed in the show.

Originally posted by: Koms9

And by the way, two times they showed that Anupama went to shah house even before Anuj took shower.

Once he was still in bed and she was ready to go(wearing gajra, silk saree). And this was after the night when he fell off the bed.

Second time, he came looking for anupama after waking up but GK told anuj that she already went to SH. and then Anuj made his own coffee.

I am not imagining anything here, saying what they showed in the show.

Even if anupama go to shah at earl morning that does not mean she is always at shah house

And I have already told due to bad presentation and they do 95 percent shooting at shah house It looks that anupama is in shah house only actually she is not

Regarding discipline her children in order to discipline 3 children that too in joint family mother need support and power anupama has neither support of husband and neither she has power to discipline more over she use to think herself inferior she is use to feel guilty ki Main theek se padh paayi hoti to bachon ko meri wajah insult nahi jhelna padti

Pakhi and toshu has full support to vanraj so it is almost impossible for anupama to discipline her children

Now in Today episode after toshu going wellness therapy anupama did return to Kapadia house but CVS will not show anupama in Kapadia house but in fact CVS will show next morning CVS again directly show anupama going to shah house for picnic so surely it is bad presentation and partiality

Originally posted by: shriz

give me the episode number or i don't believe you or anyone in this forum😃

episode # 675. Anuj fell off the bed, doctor asked to take care of him personally and anupama cried that she is not able to live the happy moment of kinjal's baby. I am sorry Anuj, next time keep your brain in check coz your Anu wants to dance and enjoy her moments.

episode # 676 she rushes to shah house after Anuj just woke up and other side her respected Baa was cursing her for getting late as she doesnt like when her maid daughter is late!

episode # 687 - apology. This episode she didnt leave early morning but she didnt come home at night. She stayed at shah house. And I am not imagining this, it was shown in episode. Anuj put CA to bed while he himself had a seizure a night before.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Even if anupama go to shah at earl morning that does not mean she is always at shah house

And I have already told due to bad presentation and they do 95 percent shooting at shah house It looks that anupama is in shah house only actually she is not

Regarding discipline her children in order to discipline 3 children that too in joint family mother need support and power anupama has neither support of husband and neither she has power to discipline more over she use to think herself inferior she is use to feel guilty ki Main theek se padh paayi hoti to bachon ko meri wajah insult nahi jhelna padti

Pakhi and toshu has full support to vanraj so it is almost impossible for anupama to discipline her children

Now in Today episode after toshu going wellness therapy anupama did return to Kapadia house but CVS will not show anupama in Kapadia house but in fact CVS will show next morning CVS again directly show anupama going to shah house for picnic so surely it is bad presentation and partiality

She has a support now and she still does not discipline her children and still keeps going back to abusive in laws calling them maayka. If they didnot support her or made her inferior then why is she calling them her family? And why is she not even remembering her own mother?

She readily accepted Pakhi. She gave turmeric milk to toshu after he pushed her and anuj both and also said shutup to Anupama.

Again I will only believe what makers show me. Just the way we praise Anu for getting a divorce and for what she has achieved in life based on what they showed, I will also only believe she spends most time in Kapadia house if I see in the show. Why don't we say it is a bad representation when Anuj gets trolled for saying "mera ghar". Why don't we defend him that maybe after that he said tumhara ghar, but due to bad representation we did not see it.

we need to stop defending wrong actions of Anupama. She is a fictional human just like rest of the characters of the show.

And we need to stop crictising anupama uncessazry

Watch today episode and previous episode where anupama telling toshu to galti ki hai to sabse dil se maafi maangne ki bhi Himmat rakho .anupama has rebuke toshu for his behavior

And in today episode anupama did told pakhi don't do anything jise se tumhe aur sabko pareashsni ho .

So I am saying again we need to stop criticising anupama uncessary

And of course it is bad presentation because in today episode anupama going for picnic she must have put all her dress in bag and even choti anu dress in bag even she would put food and other necceary item in bag

And in order to put her on belonging in her bag she must have reach to Kapadia house but due to partiality of CVS they did not shoot such scenes in Kapadia house

They directly show anupama standing near the van going for picnic and anupama giving list to Anuj jisme Anuj ko Kab medicine leni hai Anuj ke liye Jo bhi important hai woh sub anupama ne paper mein likha aur anuj ko.diya aur told kisi bhi ki jaroorat ho to samar se Manga wala Lena to aisa nahi anupama ko anuj ki chinta nahi hai but since they hardly shoot at Kapadia they shoot at mostly at shah house So it look anupama is always at shah house but actually she is not

Originally posted by: surabhi01

And we need to stop crictising anupama uncessazry

Watch today episode and previous episode where anupama telling toshu to galti ki hai to sabse dil se maafi maangne ki bhi Himmat rakho .anupama has rebuke toshu for his behavior

And in today episode anupama did told pakhi don't do anything jise se tumhe aur sabko pareashsni ho .

So I am saying again we need to stop criticising anupama uncessary

I liked Anuj's character but I did not shy away for calling out his behavior when he became just another twitter fan of anupama. worshipping her even when she is wrong and not standing up to pull her out of a toxic house.