A wife like AnupaMaa is every man's nightmare

I have heard many stories about housewives succumbing to depression because of their husbands busy work schedule. I have heard women complaining that their husbands only come home to sleep. But at least those wives can council them by telling themselves that their husbands are working to keep roof over their heads and food on their plates. Is there any justification of what Anu is doing on a daily basis? She leaves her home early in the morning to go to Shah house and returns at late night just to sleep there. If instead of going to Shah house everyday she went to her office, I would not have judged her. Working women can not spend much time with their families but they contribute financially to their families. How is Anu's staying at Shah house whole day helping her husband and kid? After seeing AnupaMaa, any man will be scared to marry divorcee women with kids. But in reality I have seen divorcee women with small kids taking care of her new family after second marriage. Not even mothers with toddlers neglect their husbands as much as Anu neglects her husband. I really don't understand why Anu needs to meet her grown up kids every single day. These days many people are settled in abroad who meet their parents once in a year. I really don't care what Anu did with her optional family in the 7 days they did not show us. She needs to totally cut off with the Shahs from her life. She can meet her grown up kids somewhere else if they are indeed interested in meeting her. I am so disgusted with her. Either divorce Anuj, or completely marry him. Going to your husband only at late night just to sleep is unethical.

A husband like anupama is also a nightmare.

I will not say anupama whole day stay at shah house .she might be there foe 2 to 3 hrs during festival in shah house .

Anupama surely going to office in morning she might be taking care of husband and little anu .but there is presentation is too bad because they shoot 95 percent in shah venue house and show only 5 percent shooting in Kapadia house

For eg in today episode when it is shown anupama went to Kapadia in night and next morning scene again turn to shah house where baa bapuji preparing for Satyanarayana Pooja and then immediately after this it is shown anupama is coming to shah house with all dressed up

As far I know Satyanarayana Pooja generally start at 3pm

To aise to nahi subah hote hi Anuj anupama aur little anu tayar hoke subah 6 am pe hi pahunch gaye honge shah house

They must have reach shah house at between 3pm and 4 pm but before that from 6 am to 3pm anupama must be in Kapadia house taking care of anuj and little anu then she must have gone to dance academy .but due to partiality by CVS deliberately not bother to show such scenes in Kapadia house and dance academy but only bother to shah house people and shah house venue

So due to partiality and due to bad presentation it look anupama always in shah house but actually she is not

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

I have heard many stories about housewives succumbing to depression because of their husbands busy work schedule. I have heard women complaining that their husbands only come home to sleep. But at least those wives can council them by telling themselves that their husbands are working to keep roof over their heads and food on their plates. Is there any justification of what Anu is doing on a daily basis? She leaves her home early in the morning to go to Shah house and returns at late night just to sleep there. If instead of going to Shah house everyday she went to her office, I would not have judged her. Working women can not spend much time with their families but they contribute financially to their families. How is Anu's staying at Shah house whole day helping her husband and kid? After seeing AnupaMaa, any man will be scared to marry divorcee women with kids. But in reality I have seen divorcee women with small kids taking care of her new family after second marriage. Not even mothers with toddlers neglect their husbands as much as Anu neglects her husband. I really don't understand why Anu needs to meet her grown up kids every single day. These days many people are settled in abroad who meet their parents once in a year. I really don't care what Anu did with her optional family in the 7 days they did not show us. She needs to totally cut off with the Shahs from her life. She can meet her grown up kids somewhere else if they are indeed interested in meeting her. I am so disgusted with her. Either divorce Anuj, or completely marry him. Going to your husband only at late night just to sleep is unethical.

Very well said and that's why I stopped watching the show because no matter what happens she wants to act as DIL of Shah's. She won't let them peacefully neither Shah nor kapadiyas , choose one side and leave others.she doesn't even know what divorce means , if she so wanted Shah's in every aspect of her life or to be in their life why you divorced himjust allow kavya at home. As she previously did. Than act as bechari and mahan both and leave that choti Anu she doesn't need Shah family as her maternal family, atleast gk and Anuj can provide her healthy environment and better sanskar

Itna to actual daughter bhi mayka ka her function nhi attend kar pati.... because of responsbility of sasural jitna ye nakli mayke ka har chote bde event me hissa leti hai😆

Even agar bacche bhi nanihal me pdte hai to b

Sometimes mother send only children to their nanihal for longer period like in summer vacations because she can't go there .

How many times has Dolly come running to Shah house? Uska toh asal me mayka hain na?!

Baat bachchon ki hain toh Bachchon ko khud Anupama nahin chahiye, kewal Kinjal ko ajeeb-o-gareeb zidd hain.

Kinjal, I tell you😡. Jab Choti Anu khoyi thi toh ho jata hain kabhi etc. karke samarthan kiya Anupama ka jab apni bachchi khoyi toh kya kuch nahin sunaya Rakhi ko, I mean really?

I m not a regular viewer of this show,just saw few clips on twitter and I couldn't understand this unhealthy obsession of Anupamaa with her toxic Ex In laws who abused her through out her life ? Who in her sane mind makes her toxic in laws as her maika ? Whatever little I have seen is that she loves playing victim card and just give bhashan at any topic at any time..🤪

Just like we do not agree that Anupama was laughing at mama flirting with Rakhi without a proof with episode number, I will also not like to "imagine and agree" that Anupama only goes to shah hose for a few hours.

I will also not agree until I see a scene every day that she was at office in the morning.

I will not believe that she cooked food for her family (Kapadia - her real family), if they do not show in the episode. I will not believe that she takes care of Anu if they do not show in any episodes.

Give me episode number if anyone wants to say that Anupama goes to office every day, cooks for family, takes care of choti Anu/GK/Anuj and "only" goes to shah house for few hours.

Originally posted by: zohakhan7

I m not a regular viewer of this show,just saw few clips on twitter and I couldn't understand this unhealthy obsession of Anupamaa with her toxic Ex In laws who abused her through out her life ? Who in her sane mind makes her toxic in laws as her maika ? Whatever little I have seen is that she loves playing victim card and just give bhashan at any topic at any time..🤪

And I am sorry to say that Rupali is overrated as an actress...The way she always shivers n starts crying even during confrontation is so ott..The hypocrisy that Anupama as a female lead shows amuses me.I mean one day she walks out of her toxic maika and claims that she won't come back in this house ever again and then next morning she is already there serving breakfast as if she is their maid.I mean what is this hypocrisy ? And now showing that only temperamental issues was the reason that Toshu had an EMA and is on the verge to get forgiveness and be praised to next level as if gold medal jeet ke aya ho..🤔