Originally posted by: Telly_Addict
Just another observation based on the precap and why i loved confrontational Vidhi
i loved the precap and reason is below...
i dont think its guilt tripping on her part? why..
if a girl is confused abt the mixed signals fellow boy is sending all this while in the name of her being "a good employee" why cant she just ask upfront abt the feelings ?
if Dev has no feelings for her he can simply say "No i dont have feelings for you. And everything i did was simply as a mentor in office. But still you select the groom as per your choice" as he used to say her always.. abt job, new job, be in this office etc...
yes it would break her heart but it will be one time.. or may be a month she would cry to sleep but she will realize it once she grows up more. and might cut ties with him too (which he surely cant handle)
and if he has feelings (even an iota.. but is scared abt the age difference thing) that too he should put out in words "Vidhi yes i do like you but you know we have a very big age difference and ur dad isnt someone who would allow us to be together, so can you please forget abt us"
that again would hurt but at least she would know the reason Dev behaves hot n cold time to time. She cant live in confusion forever. if he is not into her or cant see a future together its better to break her dreams now so that she can move on.. she is 21 and can have another man who loves her more than she love Dev....
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Dev not wanting to hurt her is itself a sign that she is not just another employee for him.. was he worried about Kanika when he was blaming her ? it was Yogesh who gave the money to the waiter but Dev blamed it all on Kanika cause she called HP to come get Vidhi.
She was his friend longer than he knows Vidhi.. but he dint trust Kanika enough to go to the club or ask waiter about the mastermind and suspended her.
Yes he would have done the same for another employee as he did for Vidhi.. but he never trusted anyone else as he trusts Vidhi. Thats clear difference in his behavior towards Vidhi and other employees (even his friends) and its this that confuses Vidhi.
And why her seeking truth.. seeking answers in black and white is guilt tripping.. when him being overly concerned/caring is confusing that girl so bad...
When Dev is way too old to know what a typical 21 year old teenager would feel and behave in those early years for their crush.. and he must be knowing how to handle her.. but here he isnt, he cant.. it simply means he feels for something but unable to muster up the courage to tell her cause he is scared he would fall deeper than he cant even handle.... or she would leave which also he cant handle.
Vidhi to him is what fire to a moth.
he is scared this fire can burn her so he wants to stay away from her but always end up around her.
Thats not how anyone can pursue love by being on fence always. He has to take some decision.