Making Life Easier For AnupaMaa

Kinjal is Rakhi's daughter not yours. As you did not like Pakhi giving more attention to Barkha than you, similarly Rakhi feels inferior when Kinjal gives more importance to you. Let Rakhi take care of Kinjal. It does not matter what that ungrateful bimbo Kinjal wants.

Vanraj is Kavya's husband not yours. So let Kavya do Jhoola Rasam with V. Why you snatched Kavya's right?

Baa is Dolly's mother not yours. So instead of serving tea to that ungrateful classless lady, serve tea to your mother Kanta. Let Dolly take care of her mom.

Bapuji is Kavya's FIL not yours. So instead of complaining him about carrying Matkas, go see if your current FIL GK needs any help. Don't you feel ashamed of putting so many Matkas on this old man?

AnupaMaa is snatching everyone's rights from them and then complaining that she is overworked. God did not entrust you with so many responsibilities. You yourself snatched other's responsibilities and now crying crocodile tears. See nobody's life is that hard. Just focus on your responsibilities and let others handle theirs.

Why don't kavya Dolly baa stop anupama in serving tea breakfast why they dont ask anupama not to take tension we will do this work magar jub anupama kaam rahi hoti hai tub to sub log baithe rehte hai .fact is that they all enjoy anupama is serving to them ki yes unhe kaam nahi karna pad raha hai

Is anupama is not making breakfast dinner lunch for Anuj

Is anupama is not going for anu parents meeting

Did not anupama say to Anuj she will not go to baby ceremony and day before yesterday episode again anupama refuse to go to shah house but Anuj still Anuj insist anupama to go to shah house

Anupama said that she will not go to shah house

Anupama making food and serving food both to anu and anu .anupama realising Anuj hungry .and anupama immediately went to prepare food for anuj and little anu and nupama really care of Anuj and anu by massaging hand of anuj .helping Anuj to walk on his own without using wheel chair

Anupama take care of Anuj in hospital but still she is not concerned about her husband Anuj, daughter and gk

How ??

Unbelievable.......I really hope that Kinjal's daughter behaves the same way with Kinjal the way she is doing with her sagi maa.....

Yes Rakhi was wrong in hiding the truth from Kinjal....but all she wanted was to save Kinjal from the trauma at a time when she just had a C-section......it is considered a major surgery.....the body becomes weak...there is a baby to take care of and there are chances of post partum depression...Rakhi did not have any ulterior motive.....Anupama and Kinjal both disgust me.....Anupama is not thinking about Rakhi and her feelings and she is encouraging Kinjal with her disgusting behaviour.

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

Kinjal is Rakhi's daughter not yours. As you did not like Pakhi giving more attention to Barkha than you, similarly Rakhi feels inferior when Kinjal gives more importance to you. Let Rakhi take care of Kinjal. It does not matter what that ungrateful bimbo Kinjal wants.

Vanraj is Kavya's husband not yours. So let Kavya do Jhoola Rasam with V. Why you snatched Kavya's right?

Baa is Dolly's mother not yours. So instead of serving tea to that ungrateful classless lady, serve tea to your mother Kanta. Let Dolly take care of her mom.

Bapuji is Kavya's FIL not yours. So instead of complaining him about carrying Matkas, go see if your current FIL GK needs any help. Don't you feel ashamed of putting so many Matkas on this old man?

AnupaMaa is snatching everyone's rights from them and then complaining that she is overworked. God did not entrust you with so many responsibilities. You yourself snatched other's responsibilities and now crying crocodile tears. See nobody's life is that hard. Just focus on your responsibilities and let others handle theirs.

Until now I found Anupama annoying as hell with her bhashans and all....but she is disgusting as well....she makes everything about herself......even with Kinjal ...its not about Kinjal...it is Anupama ji's trauma...and now she is actually gloating that Kinjal prefers her over her sagi Maa.....disgusting woman..🤢

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Why don't kavya Dolly baa stop anupama in serving tea breakfast why they dont ask anupama not to take tension we will do this work magar jub anupama kaam rahi hoti hai tub to sub log baithe rehte hai .fact is that they all enjoy anupama is serving to them ki yes unhe kaam nahi karna pad raha hai

Because anupama dominates them and acts as if her sasural is still her home and she has rights on it

They do not want to hurt her feelings especially dolly and kavya

If a guest or relative comes homes and starts ordering you at your home you too keep quiet so they do not feel offended because they are there for few days only not permanent. Like some far off dadi comes and says put ghungat full day on head or do not wear modern dress youngsters are told by parents to comply not to offend that bua dadi etc is it not

If a cousin comes and starts acting as if they are son or daughter of your father or mother you do not shout or show them reality you bear as its for few days why break relation? bear few days thats what indians are taught from childhood its called atiti devo bhava and not hurting others feelings and break relationships

You bear with them for few days and do not show them reality because you do not want to hurt them or make them feel uninvited to that home

Thats why kavya and dolly are quiet

But baa and pakhi do not care and tell her on face as they are mother and daughter to her. Do your father mother or daughter fear you to say truth on face no not really. Family is born to speak truth on face but yes Baa and pakhi are misbehaving ppl.

But anupama interferes too much in their life too especially pakhi . Like hotel scene pakhi went to drink cofffee with adhik anupama joined them. When you are in school, college, office or go out with friends will you be ok if papa mummy accompany you for lunch or coffee. No one does that ever. Thats why children lie to parents and roam alone because they know parents will do such things. Here adhik has bad intention but pakhi do not know. If not adhik she goes with another boy will anupama follow her on every coffee and lunch with friends or boy friends. Why she never did that with samar nandini or kinjal toshu because the girls are not her daughters so her sons can take advantage its ok why double standards for own daughter and others daughters?

If rakhi does not want kinjal marraige to toshu you marry them offf against her parents will

But if pakhi wants to marry adhik will anupam amarry them against her will?

One rule for others daughters one for her daughter

thats why no one likes anupama at her home because shes not same with all

when samar broke engagement with nandini anupama is ok and did not fight at all for her respect why because shes kavyas neice or because she does not worship anupam alike kinjal

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Why don't kavya Dolly baa stop anupama in serving tea breakfast why they dont ask anupama not to take tension we will do this work magar jub anupama kaam rahi hoti hai tub to sub log baithe rehte hai .fact is that they all enjoy anupama is serving to them ki yes unhe kaam nahi karna pad raha hai

Apni boundaries khud he draw kar ke raho na ! Dusro se kyun expect karna ki Muje apni hadd samjao !

Yeah aisi baat ho gayi ki uska nature bhed-bakri jaisa hai so kisi ke bhi Khet mai khusegi, usko bhagane ki responsibility khet owner ki! Kyunki bhed-bakri ka toh nature he hota hai idhar -udhar ghus jaane ke! 🐷

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Is anupama is not making breakfast dinner lunch for Anuj

Is anupama is not going for anu parents meeting

Did not anupama say to Anuj she will not go to baby ceremony and day before yesterday episode again anupama refuse to go to shah house but Anuj still Anuj insist anupama to go to shah house

Anupama said that she will not go to shah house

Anupama making food and serving food both to anu and anu .anupama realising Anuj hungry .and anupama immediately went to prepare food for anuj and little anu and nupama really care of Anuj and anu by massaging hand of anuj .helping Anuj to walk on his own without using wheel chair

Anupama take care of Anuj in hospital but still she is not concerned about her husband Anuj, daughter and gk

How ??

In real life i know

People leave fathers funerals or brothers weddings to be with hubby and kids for simple reasons like exams or onsite projects

Anupama is always in shah house even before kinjal trauma started because she likes that house more than kapadia mansion

Knjal has a mother and father rakhi and her husband

No one loves or will love kinjal more than her mom dad not anupama not vanraj not anuj kapadia so let her be with her parents

Do not try to snatch only child kinjal from her parents they hv no one but her and their grandkid

Its sin to do that

Regarding anupama taking care of anuj, even maids will cook, clean, mop or massage hands

There is diff between family and maid

Anuj needs emotional support and assurance not a maid in anupama

Shes always in hurry to run to shah house leaving anuj alone although so sick

Like i said people leave fathers funeral both boys and girls for work and hubby

What anupama doing for anuj is 5% of what others sacrifice for their hubby career and health etc

After his stroke has she stayed one full day at home with home no always going shahs house everyday on one pertex

Any stroke patient want his wife or parent to spend max time with him

I know wifes who never gone outstation for 10 years as hubby had stroke they take care and be with him day and night

Anupama don't dominant anyone infact baa vanraj try to dominate anupama

Why was baa scolding anupama when anupama come so late for baby naming ceremony . When baa is scolding anupama for not coming timely in baby ceremony that it is baa dominant anupama

Baa even told anupama many times u r bad dadi tum apni daadi ka farz. Nahi nibha rahi ho

When anupama when join Anuj meeting baa and vanraj try to dominant anupama not to meet Anuj

And vanraj was saying u duty to take care of ur own children but u r getting married at this age

Abd baa dominant anupama why are u meeting Anuj as he is paraya mard

And vanraj Even lock the gate not allowing anupama to go with Anuj in business meeting

And day before yesterday vanraj went to Kapadia house and insist anupama to come to shah house to to take care of kinjal where anupama clearly refuse to come that she will not go to shah house because doctor told her not to leave Anuj alone .anupama clearly refuse to go to show house but both vanraj and Anuj insist anupama to go to shah house to to care of house kinjal

Anuj said to anupama u don't worry I have other members to care of me

And even vanraj said he will send samar to tale care of anuj

Annd yesterday also Dolly was saying how she will handle kinjal without anupama

ND today also baa going to call anupama to come to shah house to care of kinjal till vanraj stop baa not to call anupama but he said he will call anupama later

Matlab every time baa vanraj go to anupama and even call anupama to take care of kinjal .even kinjal told anupama to accompany her with doctor during pregnancy .Kinjal want anupama that anupama should be around her during kinjal pregnancy. Even kinjal told anupama that she should with her in labor room

Whenever Shah family face trouble time this baa always said ab to anupama hi is situation ko Sambhal. Sakti Hai .during Nandini and samar break up baa was telling that anupama hi is situation ko Sambhal sakti Hai

When baa insult bapuji then bapuji himself went to anupama home and both baa and bapuji drag anupama for their personal problem

So whenever shah face problems aur celebrate festival the shah themselves sdrag anupama. To solve their problems that anupama hi is situation Sambhal sakti Hai

Even rakhi took promise from anupama that she will always support kinjal

But Pata nahi anupama Kaun sa version chal raha hai ki jahan anupama shah ke life mein interfere karti hai aur dominant karti hai ?

Originally posted by: blue-ice.1

Until now I found Anupama annoying as hell with her bhashans and all....but she is disgusting as well....she makes everything about herself......even with Kinjal ...its not about Kinjal...it is Anupama ji's trauma...and now she is actually gloating that Kinjal prefers her over her sagi Maa.....disgusting woman..🤢

lol she is not gloating, this is entirely the OP take on the current track.