Originally posted by: Sherry24
Too much of everything is ..............
Thats an old saying right? But how does that fit in here?
Sai and V loved each other, and it grew new bounds over time. So much that it exists in after so many years of separation. The desire to be with each other..................to have the other to oneself came stronger with the love. Trust came along the way, as they shared a life, a relationship, a journey together. Not an easy one, but they did with their share of ups and downs.
3 strong pillars in a relationship well established, what could possibly go wrong?
The proportion!
While love and desire soared high, trust staggered under the pressure to hold its footing.
WOW you put it so well. They need to workout 'something' but they dont know what it is. They are two very different people. They want to be together but cant figure out how to navigate situations together. For that trust is needed, which they dont have because of their fears that the other never valued them enough. It is a catch22 situation.
It’s ironical, how as humans the very pure form of emotion gets diluted as more emotions and needs get attached to love. The need to have someone to belong to us, the strong desire, gives ride to FEAR. The fear of not having that desire fulfilled is so strong that it overpowers any rational thinking. Even the trust. All that remains is fear and insecurity. Constant validation is demanded to keep it under control. Paradoxical, that while one is constantly seeking those confirmations, he/she refuses to see the clear signs..believe that they are indeed blessed...that it is true. It's like, One prays to God, and it gets answered when God himself says "You are meant for each other, and no one can separate you", but they will still start finding arguments to prove to God that "Look Dude.. you are wrong".
Exactly! They are not seeing the obvious. Their fear that the other moved on is overpowering their judgemnet.
Thats what fear of losing can do to people.
Sai is no logical counters for UM, but she continues to stand her ground. V is looking around the house to find that one pic, one proof. Unable to bear the thought that Sai has moved on, yet looking for proofs for his doubts.
The fire has been simmering for long and had to come out. V is the first to ask. Again a stark character contrast. V is always expressive of his pain and calls it out loud. Sai only does when she is provoked to an extent. She prefers to deal with it on her own and keep it within herself. This was evident when V said "Poochon na". He is just waiting for her to ask to spill it out. His pain, his longing and suffering. They are really not sure what they are asking and what they are addressing. It's a bitter concoction. They are hurt and they are hurting each other in return
It was clear that V is holding something crucial about his marriage with P. And he is confident that Sai will buy it. This would have been simpler if V had said what it is. He is back to being "Jalebi". He just says "Kabse main tumhe kuch batane ki koshish kar raha hoon, par tum sun nahi rahi ho?" Bhai, kya batana chahte the? Aaj tak hum bhi nahi samajh paaye.
Exactly. I am more and more confident that he has a strong reason. It is more of. DUTY. Pretention. He did not even consider it as a big deal!! He was not even entertaining Pakhi when he is in this space with Sai.
Both are stubborn. But what makes V more wrong here. V has Vinu, Sai has Savi. Till now V was expecting Savi to be adopted, like Vinu is (Since he still believed that Sai can't give birth). Once Sai confirmed that she gave birth to Savi, he went soft and moving away to look at Savi. But then he was back into accusation mode. This is what I was referring to. One moment he was happy that Sai could conceive, hopeful....but then his mind refused to believe the obvious. This is what I mentioned in the beginning. They are already so negative in their minds, so fearful to get hurt, that they are refusing to believe the obvious positive indications. Sai was taken aback by V's question. Rightly so. He doubted her, and the paternity of their child. And that closed off Sai. If V could believe that Sai could conceive and deliver, he would have believed if she said Savi was their child. Why dis she not say it? Because V asked the wrong question. If he believed that she could have a baby, why did he not think that he could be the father? Funny right? That's an unfulfilled dream, yet when the possibility shows up, one refuses to believe.
Virat is too possessive of her. If you know Rono, his behavior is normal. Rono repeatedly suspects her to have affairs. He cant stand her with another man. He was too possessive and insecure about her. It was like that from the beginning. His fear that somebody else had a relationship with her is too much for him to handle. If it was Rono, he would have accused her of sleeping with someone else. Virat is made softer and hence his dialogues are more refined. He asked who the father is 😃
V on the other hand is justifying his stand with nothing. It has been clearly stated that he is married. What else is Sai to believe then? If his mother, his family and the entire world believes it, why can't Sai? But that is the problem. Why did Sai believe? How can she believe it?
Demanding trust when you fail to return the favours. Very similar to SH track. V kept asking Sai to trust him, but gave nothing else for her to trust. Today he is doing the same.
Yes this is true. He doesnt realize the damage he does for the relationship by giving free pass to Pakhi, and he blames Sai for everything. If you had sent that lady away from police station directly to her house, everything would have been fine.
Sai was hurt by V's question. She obviously never believed him to think that he would even doubt about Savi's parentage. V again goes wrong here.
It was a chain reaction. And in this all the connecting arguments were lost. Assuming to be dead, not searching ...all that was supposed to clear the air was discarded. Because there was something more important in play.Their loyalty and exclusivity to each other.
P remains the trigger, but it is frustrating that V still refuses to acknowledge it. His view of her over the years may be a reason. Now that he has seen her change, it makes Sai all the more wrong in his eyes. But he still misses the point.
P is trigger for Sai. For virat, the trigger is Sai still gives importance to P.
Vinayak saying "Main to yahin hoon" is a sign. The parents believing they lost their baby, and he is very much amongst them, just that they are unaware.
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