Originally posted by: RishuDarling
I should actually sleep for a couple of hours but..
Perhaps I will change my mind but... I would like to swing around the viewpoint for the sisters.. Let me try and see your opinions.
Zoya stopped objecting herself to the wedding plans with this older man and did not include her sisters in her plan. Bano did object and that too in front of Zoya. Which is actually more than we saw Zoya sticking up for Bano, the one who sacrificed so much.. Bano reaches out to Ayesha who has no clue what is going on at home, but who is willing to also do or say something for her sister. Though Zoya acts like she has accepted to get married and enjoys all the gifts. Bano did say she does not have it in her to look Zoya in the eyes.
There is a difference for me in how Zoya was brought up being the youngest. I feel she was the one spoilt rotten in terms of attention, and knowing that she should speak up to get what she wants and fight for herself. Fight for herself, not for others. Why should I fight for them if they don't fight for themselves?
I know it is not fair what I am going to say now.. Because the intensity of love does not hold a timeline. But I don't think I see Talal and Bano in the same way like I see Amir and Zoya. Bano kept quiet for years and didn't go against her mom. Talal was patient for years. And here are these youngsters, did not graduate, no job nothing. Bano did not say yes to someone else to get married too. No other commitments. I think that makes the shame for Qudsia even bigger. And... Also all the jewellery being gone, Qudsia is now in bigger debts.
The oldest did see Zoya's pain.. And did want for her sister to end up with her love.. But Amir showed his colors at home.. That is what the sisters have seen. And now you runaway without also telling your sisters? Why would she then expect support? By the way, while Zoya is dancing at her wedding with half heart, who gets the blame? Bano.. Also not really fair right?
The middle one, she is so righteous.. So busy with being the good fair honest kid. Not living at home anymore, and calling Zoya out on her behavior (the money she stole) does not make Ayesha the best person to turn to as well.
Ayesha also sacrificed.. Medal.. Education.. Her freedom to work.. She married a rich but very dominant guy with issues, and she is lonely..
Except for roti, luxury.. What did Zoya sacrifice in comparison to the sisters? Running away for love, leaving them behind to deal with whatever would follow. Leaving them with debt and no face to show for, Zoya did not consider her sisters too..
And.... In the end I don't understand why everyone is so surprised... Especially Qudsia and Bobbi.. Zoya always said she would not accept any wrong doings to her and just runaway..
Maybe unconsciously.. Bano did let her go.. She could have followed her etc. You see your sister at that time with bags and all.. She is not going for a picnic right?
My thoughts are not so clear perhaps but I am a bit sleepy.. Now for real.. Good night 😆
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