AnupaMaa's misplaced priorities - Page 8

Originally posted by: ItsmeAzra

usko pehle bolo ki decide karle ki kya chahiye usko😆

Originally posted by: CheekuKaBeej

are yaar, main to bol dun, meri sunta to nahi. Wo to sirf apni Anu ki sunta hai🤣

We need Malvika back. She can band bajao Anupsma for leaving Anuj and CA alone for so long even though she could have gone and come back as Anuj needs her more

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Not adjusting without anupama even for 1 hr is certainly mental pressure on anupama. Anupama is human being koi robot ya machine nahin hai ki uski apni feeling nahin ho sakti

Yeh to sara sar had hai

Feelings ko waqt ki nazakat ko samaj kar kaabu mai rakhna he maturity hota hai .

Sarasar hadd toh yeh hai ki 40+ lady ko na he waqt ki nazakat ko samajna aata hai aur na he feelings par kaabu hai.

Feelings par itna control toh mai teenage mai he sikh gayi thi jitna yeh ghode jaisi 40+ lady ko aj bhi samaj nahi hai.
I wish Anuj ki bhi koi Leela jaisi maa hoti jo anupama ko feelings par control and compromise dono he dusri shaddi mai sikha deti.
Pehli shaddi mai vanraj wheelchair par hot tab pata chal jata Leela jaisi saas kitne celebration mai anupama ko jane deti.

Dusri shaddi mai anupama ki koi sasuma nahi hai iska anupama pura fayda utha rahi hai.

Ok during covid people sold their property to pay 30 lakh 50 lakh to save their family member mostly aged 60 plus year olds

I know many who locked themselves never went out 6 months or 3 months so bed ridden grandparent or parent with covid will not get infected

This all happened in india

Imagine full family not leaving house at all to save one serious person life

Is it such a big choice

No oxygen not many vaccines were there in 2021

So you want to save an aged sick family stay indoors in lockdown for 2 to 3 months

If family get serious take off from work and stay another 3 months inside or work from home

This happened in big cities Mumbai bangalore Hyderabad to save family

So what is everyone saying can anupama leave anuj 3 hours a day to see grand child

People resigned their jobs if not allowed to work from home shifted to village leaving careers in big posh city to save aged life in covid last 2 years

Thats called family and true love

People sold propertys only property houses for 30 lakh 50 lakh to pay hospital icu bills in covid and became pauper

Thats called true love

Not the love anupama does to anuj

Anupama is just using anuj to bring up shahs economically higher and to help shahs etc from starting

Yes annuj is a emotional fool in real life no such man exist or alll will laugh at this man for going blind in love

Who leaves paralytic in law or parent or hubby or child and roams hospital and houses for births and function even a grand kid

Nowadays most parents miss grand kid birth as they live in diff cities

I see for anupama, anuj is option and relationship with benefits only

Like friends with benefits in USA show they showed this is husband with benefits for anupama and her shahs nothing much from last one year

Only anuj has to do all compromise and yet gnored by anupama or shahs thats sad part and treated badly too

Honestly if anuj mom was alive anupam awill be kicked off anuj house and life faster than vanraj did one night

Because every normal person can see how much advantage this lady and her so called mayka taking of anuj and kapadias

I did not see anything called love for anuj by anyone in shahs or anupama so far except few days in hospital crocodile tears of anupama

Anuj is paralytic because of anupamas shahs mayka vanraj

another woman would not step into mayka if vanraj had called anuj and he fell off(or pushed off) in life again

Kavya doesn't even get to put first drop in baby's mouth even though Kinjal is her DIL. Anupamaa unnecessarily overtakes everyone and then gets overwhelmed about multiple responsibilities. Till hospital, Anupamaa being there was okay although the doctor thanking Anupamaa was 🤪.

I agree with tha Kapadias and Shahs preferential treatment. IIRC Vanraj had tried to prove Anupamaa mad legally, taking advantage of her panic attacks, but Anupamaa is on laughing terms with him. Barkha and gang haven't done half as worse as Vanraj and Shah family on the whole but while they are rightly scorned, Shahs are somehow her maayka.

Originally posted by: PranPriye

Kavya doesn't even get to put first drop in baby's mouth even though Kinjal is her DIL. Anupamaa unnecessarily overtakes everyone and then gets overwhelmed about multiple responsibilities. Till hospital, Anupamaa being there was okay although the doctor thanking Anupamaa was 🤪.

I agree with tha Kapadias and Shahs preferential treatment. IIRC Vanraj had tried to prove Anupamaa mad legally, taking advantage of her panic attacks, but Anupamaa is on laughing terms with him. Barkha and gang haven't done half as worse as Vanraj and Shah family on the whole but while they are rightly scorned, Shahs are somehow her maayka.

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

Will this noble woman ever sort her priorities or will she continue to misplace her priorities forever making lives messier for everybody around her? I know Anuj is after Mr Shah, Baa, Bapuji, Samar, Toshu, Pakhi, Kinjal, new kid in her priority list, then why did she marry him? Why could not they remained as best friends? Why when she was neck drown in responsibilities, she chose to add another responsibility in her already twisted life by marrying him? I have never seen any woman even with small kids to be so indifferent to her spouse's mental needs. Anuj comes 9th in her list of important people and he should have remained so forever. She did not need to prioritize his need of adopting a baby when she was completely against it. She has no mental connection with CA and does not put any effort to connect to her. By strictly rejecting the request of adoption she should have come across as a mature, sensible and truly empowered woman. She has made everyone around her handicapped but when they all demand her attention, she complains that she always has to divide herself. Who asked her to make pieces of herself, she could have been puri ki puri of Mr Shah's and we would have been spared the dialogue of ek auraat ko kiyun hamesha batna padte hai every two episodes.

Word. I want to strangle the writers. There was a time when Anu was prioritizing herself , her dreams where did that women go?? This show went s show aftrr maan wedding..its all about V, ShahF.

Lord. Initiallly after marriage before the house pooja it was Anuj but bringing the drama and need for trp with regressiveness was wat makers focused on..

They made her home.maker again dealing with utter useless crap, home makers balance things n know how to set boundaries.

Before marriage she was loyal and prioritized Anuj, wat happened to that??