Kuch Kuch Hota hai

In the movie Kuch kuch hota hai, Shahrukh said
pyaar kya hai
"pyaar dosti hai
agar woh meri sab se achi dost nahi ban sakti to to main uss se kabhi pyaar kar hi nahi sakta"
But here in DMG when were Armaan and Riddhima best of friends
i have never seen them sharing their joys and sorrows ,they never talked about their fears and ambitions with each other, even after confessing their love to each other they never talked about their future together.I have never seen them as best of friends so how could they be lovers.
All riddhima knows is how to hurt him with her sharp tounge and now she has
started playing practical jokes also which by no means is taking their relationship to any positive direction.
She has him just as a pawn in her life whenever and whereever she wants she can move him, play with him and i hate Armaan for being a toy in her hand.
he can once and for all decide that if she is playing hard he better move on,there is life ahead also better than being insulted by not only his lady love but now by everyone in Sanjeevani. ( i hate when all the interns laughed at him in th robe thingie even sis lovely also) . I wonder where is his self respect , even if his doesnt hurt mine does on seeing him so humilated.
I also believe that Riddhima was just doing these activities for only bringing old Armaan back and not to be normal as BF GF.coz after knowing he is normal she is not bothered about giving their relationship the rejuvination touch instead she is hitting him hard again with more force and i fail to understand what purpose it solves.
And also what puzzles me is the thing that how can you insult ,humilate and torture a person you claim to love so much.If you find satisfaction in these harkatein then i am sorry i dont think it is love it happens when you are new in a friendship but once you confess love you cannot go back to all these pranks.
these are steps of love you go up and if she is coming down then why telling Bi and giving Armaan incomplete hints that she loves him .

And the present storyline is robbing all the charm they once have together.
All these pranks are now getting overdosed

And now after watching the serial
KUCH BHI NAHI HOTA HAI

Is there anyone who also feels like me😭😭

srk evn said ki hum zindagi mein sirf ek insaan se pyar karte hain aur ek hi se shaaddi karte hain...he doesnt evn follow his own advices...

u need friendship in a relationship, in ny relationship, chahe woh maa-beti kaho aur b/w 2 sisters etc etc...n if u cnat c dat b/w armaan n riddhima den well u havnt really paid attention 2 d show...if ders ny1 in sanjeevani whu understands armaan, its riddhima...if u havnt realised den all I cna say is r u watching d same show as us???...

n as for being best friends in luv...u need freindship alrite, par sabse acchi dost utna zaruri nahin hai...bcz frienship ke based par pyar nahin hota!!!...if u hav cn kuch kuch hota hai den u must hav seen kabhi alvida na kehna 2...priety n SRk wer best friends frm college bt yet srk cud never luv her, she used 2 b his sabse acchi dost bt yet he fell in luv wid RANI, after marriage bt vatever...so all relationships r differnt...u cant judge dem acc/- 2 one person's opinion or ideas...every relationship is different...after all d kind of relationship ur mum n dad share must b differnt frm ur aunt-uncle...every rleationship is unique n it doesnt follow a set pattern..

n as for hurting armaan ver riddhima's concerned...hum chot bhi unhi ko pahunchate hain jinse hum sabse zyada pyar karte hain...example if sumday ur dad is a li'l frustrated, ven he cums back home he mite shout at u for silly reasons or ur mum etc etc...does dat mean he doesnt luv u???...it happens in every family...it happens b/w d best of friends, d smart one is whu realises dat...

n riddhima I kno is at fault for not getting back wid hih, bt did she ever say she wud??..she said she wud get d old armaan back..d hansta hua all...bt she never said dat...n dey r at a gud stage rite nw...evn if it luks like back 2 sqare 1 2 u...2 me it luks like dey r yet in luv n dey enjoy each other's comapany...ders no gile shikve as of now...bt den each person thinks differently...so if u donot like it der i Cant help u...

Originally posted by: sournsweet

srk evn said ki hum zindagi mein sirf ek insaan se pyar karte hain aur ek hi se shaaddi karte hain...he doesnt evn follow his own advices...

u need friendship in a relationship, in ny relationship, chahe woh maa-beti kaho aur b/w 2 sisters etc etc...n if u cnat c dat b/w armaan n riddhima den well u havnt really paid attention 2 d show...if ders ny1 in sanjeevani whu understands armaan, its riddhima...if u havnt realised den all I cna say is r u watching d same show as us???... Yes honey i am watching the same show as you and i think riddhima is the only one in Sanjeevani who has hurt him the most either in front of shashank or employees or interns and you cant call this understanding

n as for being best friends in luv...u need freindship alrite, par sabse acchi dost utna zaruri nahin hai...bcz frienship ke based par pyar nahin hota!!!...if u hav cn kuch kuch hota hai den u must hav seen kabhi alvida na kehna 2...priety n SRk wer best friends frm college bt yet srk cud never luv her, she used 2 b his sabse acchi dost bt yet he fell in luv wid RANI, after marriage bt vatever...so all relationships r differnt...u cant judge dem acc/- 2 one person's opinion or ideas...every relationship is different...after all d kind of relationship ur mum n dad share must b differnt frm ur aunt-uncle...every rleationship is unique n it doesnt follow a set pattern.. But even if not always ,friendship can be the base of love.Agree,and once the relationship moves forward from there and you consider making life commitment for it ,then you give you soul and 100% to that relationship and not take 200% from the relationship
every person has different and unique relationship ,right agree with you but she must know how to handle it .Do you think she is handling it wisely and maturely

n as for hurting armaan ver riddhima's concerned...hum chot bhi unhi ko pahunchate hain jinse hum sabse zyada pyar karte hain...example if sumday ur dad is a li'l frustrated, ven he cums back home he mite shout at u for silly reasons or ur mum etc etc...does dat mean he doesnt luv u???...it happens in every family...it happens b/w d best of friends, d smart one is whu realises dat... "hum chot bhi unhi ko pahunchate hain jinse hum sabse zyada pyar karte hain " agree but do we hurt them again and again so that they lose their mental balance and emotionally drained. pls forgive me for saying this but what If your dad shouts at you or your mom everyday ,do you think that everyday shouting or abusing has the same light effect on the relationship

n riddhima I kno is at fault for not getting back wid hih, bt did she ever say she wud??..she said she wud get d old armaan back..d hansta hua all...bt she never said dat...n dey r at a gud stage rite nw...evn if it luks like back 2 sqare 1 2 u...2 me it luks like dey r yet in luv n dey enjoy each other's comapany...ders no gile shikve as of now...bt den each person thinks differently...so if u donot like it der i Cant help u...
You call all this enjoyment 😭😭 Tell me honestly are you really looking forward to this kind of enjoyment with the man or woman of your dreams. cant you see Armaans state of mind his hurt and the efforts he is making to keep himself away from her thoughts every single minute of the day, he is not even sure if she loves him though she is cool with it coz she knows he is ripe mango and she can pick him whenever she wants

And if you still like the story line then i think it should go on like this forever and we should stop wathing it coz we definitely looking for some substance in their relationship and not fooling around with each others feelings.

nice post!
but this is how the daily shows r....take any show(no offence...i m talkiing in general)....the characterisation is not given priority....only entertainment is....

a lot can be said and discussed on wht u mentioned....great post....

yeah i agree with tat making fun in front of others r not that
good...watz hurting me is how can one insult their love lik that..i
mean that stealing dress thing.i can swallow al other pranks by
them bt this 1,i just cnt tolerate.. being frank, am not happy even if
they confess now... am al upset wit the current line

*reserved*

i would like to post my thoughts on this topic to but i don't have time atm...so i'll come back again later on.

Well said 👏
I completely agree with your point of view 👏 AR didnt have that much time, they didnt spend that much time together, when they made up, broke up, thats how relationships are 😳 And see, now they broke up, their relationship will be much stronger.

Originally posted by: *Shifali*

Well said 👏
I completely agree with your point of view 👏 AR didnt have that much time, they didnt spend that much time together, when they made up, broke up, thats how relationships are 😳 And see, now they broke up, their relationship will be much stronger.

U spoke my mind hun! agree! 😃

Originally posted by: shruthinair

yeah i agree with tat making fun in front of others r not that
good...watz hurting me is how can one insult their love lik that..i
mean that stealing dress thing.i can swallow al other pranks by
them bt this 1,i just cnt tolerate.. being frank, am not happy even if
they confess now... am al upset wit the current line

I think same as you do ,
Coz Ridz has not given her 100% to the relationship all she has given Armaan is hurt ,pranks. injuries and tears. Now if they unite I want her to accept Armaan for who he is and not what she wants in her man.
She needs to understand the basic and most practical things in love, she needs to realise she will never get her order made husband and the most important thing I want her to do is to respect Armaan.
Remember once Armaan told her that he has kept her on very high level above himself, now Riddhima should make a level much more higher than hers for Armaan so that all the hurt and pain and hard feelings melts away and they can be together once again but with much more mature and stronger conviction.

isnt love and relationships an individual thing. the way i percieve it probably wont b the way u percieve it? 😕