Nicely put, to the point!Originally posted by: Pixierocks
Iss show mai shiva had everything given to him served in a platter in case of marriage.He never had to make any efforts to win raavi's heart. It was either raavi or dhara who were making efforts to save the marriage. She Stopped his engagement with someone else, proved herself innocent, proposed him, wooed him, pampered him, made food for him, called him. He simply reciprocated her affection and love.
Even today his ego didn't allow him to call raavi. Because she is supposed to call. After all she always did.
To be honest suman has spoilt him by Encouraging his aggressive behaviour. And raavi has spoilt him by giving him leeway every time he did a mistake. She not only forgave him easily but loved him unconditionally, never questioned him.
Now he is a spoilt brat who will throw tantrums backed by his mother.
Someone who has put 100 % efforts in a relationship will be questioned if their efforts is reduced to 80% . Someone who has put 10 % efforts will be hailed and praised if they put 20%.
Suman and shiva have taken raavi for granted and unfortunately she has let them do so.
Raavi’s responses are always vulnerable! Because whatever she says or does, in the end she will be declared ‘Galat, dobi, panauti, kachra’ by this pack of pandyas! Her character / intentions/ ideas /efforts will either be questioned or outright demeaned or ignored, with zero trust or respect!
All that girl wants is warmth of the family, to belong & to be loved!
She is not even putting any conditions like sachche ehsas or my 3 Maas first or my fikar of anything!
Just simple , pure, basic love is all she asks for! Still deprived! Just like a glass of water!!
