Bade Achhe Lagte hain 2 EDT #39 - Page 109

Originally posted by: smriti81

The writers don't know the first thing about true love...this is complete bullshit! They think just by showing that the FL will put her life in danger to save the life of the ML...it can be declared as Saccha Pyar...my foot!

Love is made up of a million small gestures and considerations towards the other, sensitivity to see their perception and care to handle their insecurities. Her attitude towards him today has finally done it for me. I am so through with Raya ka safar. To hell with their love story...I ambaffled by the makers of BALH2 ! They are making history by showing the most insensitive FL of ITV!! I know I am sounding like a certain set of stans on twitter today but Priya pissed me off big time today😡!! What exactly are they trying to prove here.

I loved the father daughter bonding though...that is such a beautiful relationship. I wish they would just show Priya and Ram separating and raising Pihu through joint custody.

The ranting has helped though! I just want the show to end asap...what ever shit they want to show...just show it and get this trash over and done with. I would love to see Nakuul and Disha in some good OTT show in future😊!!

Exactly, that's what I have also been saying. They have just maligned the concept of true love with this insensitive depiction of Raya. If I know that my husband is insecure of something and I have hurt him in some way in the past, I will make it a point to not repeat it or bring out his old wounds. But here, Priya clearly knew that she devastated Ram by telling him that the child was Krish's but even then she leaves no opportunity of not mentioning Krish infront of him. When Krish and Ram were talking, she took him into a corner to talk to him alone infront of Ram!!! Then she compared Krish to Ram saying that Krish knows only how to love? I can even understand that the original situation might not have been in her control. But abhi toh uske control mein tha na sab? Why is she royally rubbing Ram's old wounds & feelings on his face as if she doesn't know anything about him or his nature?

Even I didn't want to sound like those twitteratis who always bashed Priya, but I am sorry this is the worst portrayal of FL I have ever seen. Really feel sorry for Ram, poor guy never got anyone who could love him unconditionally. I just wish he and Pihu reunite and Pihu brightens his world a little. Don't want Priya in his life again.

Originally posted by: EtherealRati

Ram says " Priya usse chod ke chali gayi thi"

But kya actual mein priya usse chodke gayi thi...man, the amount of questions he has for priya today ....why dint he asked them then ????...It was him who left her in jail after she told about cheating and never looked back till he needed her for his help........aaj usko itna dard ho raha hai, woh yeh sab priya se bol raha hai but last 5 years....he never even checked that if she is alive or dead. What if priya and pihu had died.....two years in jail isnt an easy thing and we all are aware that what kind of days they saw after that. Aaj ram ko bahut bura lag raha hai ki priya ne uski photo waali magazine pe moofali kha li.....but kam se kam priya ke paas woh magazine thi toh .....raam kya jaanta hai pihu aur priya ke 5 saalo ke baarein mein....kuch nahi...kam se kam she tried keeping a track of him. Usne kabhi priya se milne ki koshish tak nahi ki dobara....bas chod diya usse jail mein sadne ke liye.....na jail mein, na uske bahar aane ke baad woh kabhi usse mila ya uski koi info li.I do understand that priya should not hide things now, not at this point but she had reasons then. And ram also did make a big blunder......is it so easy to believe that a wife who is ready to give her life for you will cheat on you with another man .....sorry but he believes that so much that he never tries checking, never even assumes that may be may be pihu can be his daughter. It is made to look like that ram is the only victim but its not true ....priyaaa toh can't even take it out ram ki kaise.....kaise usne ek baar mei maan liya ki priya ne usse dhoka diya ......just because it was convenient for him that he will not have to choose btw priya and nandini/shubham at that time. I don't say that priya's decision has been right but ram faults are also there. He got separated from his daughter because he dint trusted his wife.....he actually couldn't even judge that priya can never do that. And a man can judge that, especially when he is in love with his wife to the extent that is shown in the show till that point.

Haan this is the other problem that I had with this show. They are showing Ram now as someone who loves Priya so much that he can't even hate Priya & Krish's illegitimate child. But if he loved her so much, why didn't he try to check up on her at least once all these years? Why didn't he go for a paternity test? I can understand that initially he might have been in too much trauma, but after a few months he could have checked na? His trust was so fragile that he just believed whatever Priya said, even when he knew what they shared. Did he consider Priya to be someone who can lust over boys? 5 years is a looong time. I cannot believe still that if you love someone truly you can just leave them as if nothing happened. Most bakwaas love story ever. They just had nothing and then got something and mistook it for love, which was not!

I finally watched today’s episode.I want V’s plan to work regarding Eshaan. I think that’s the only way Eshaan’s truth to come out. Otherwise Priya will never open her mouth.

Originally posted by: EtherealRati

Ram says " Priya usse chod ke chali gayi thi"

But kya actual mein priya usse chodke gayi thi...man, the amount of questions he has for priya today ....why dint he asked them then ????...It was him who left her in jail after she told about cheating and never looked back till he needed her for his help........aaj usko itna dard ho raha hai, woh yeh sab priya se bol raha hai but last 5 years....he never even checked that if she is alive or dead. What if priya and pihu had died.....two years in jail isnt an easy thing and we all are aware that what kind of days they saw after that. Aaj ram ko bahut bura lag raha hai ki priya ne uski photo waali magazine pe moofali kha li.....but kam se kam priya ke paas woh magazine thi toh .....raam kya jaanta hai pihu aur priya ke 5 saalo ke baarein mein....kuch nahi...kam se kam she tried keeping a track of him. Usne kabhi priya se milne ki koshish tak nahi ki dobara....bas chod diya usse jail mein sadne ke liye.....na jail mein, na uske bahar aane ke baad woh kabhi usse mila ya uski koi info li.I do understand that priya should not hide things now, not at this point but she had reasons then. And ram also did make a big blunder......is it so easy to believe that a wife who is ready to give her life for you will cheat on you with another man .....sorry but he believes that so much that he never tries checking, never even assumes that may be may be pihu can be his daughter. It is made to look like that ram is the only victim but its not true ....priyaaa toh can't even take it out ram ki kaise.....kaise usne ek baar mei maan liya ki priya ne usse dhoka diya ......just because it was convenient for him that he will not have to choose btw priya and nandini/shubham at that time. I don't say that priya's decision has been right but ram faults are also there. He got separated from his daughter because he dint trusted his wife.....he actually couldn't even judge that priya can never do that. And a man can judge that, especially when he is in love with his wife to the extent that is shown in the show till that point.

@bold - Ram did not initially believe Priya's lie even though she said it with conviction. But when Nandini told him its true he believed it. Had it been vice versa with Priya and MS, Priya would never believe MS coz she was aware of his true nature. But Ram is yet to see Nandu's true colors. Had Priya not caught MS with Rakhi, she would have lived in her happy bubble thinking her father is a good man just like how Ram is today with Nandu. The day the truth is out, like Priya he will start seeing people at face value. I do agree about the convenience part - it was easy for him to choose his family who had lost VK and later his sister over a wife who cheated on him which is why he did not fight it anymore. Also given the circumstances, he was emotionally drained.

I don't get why Ram is held responsible for not keeping tabs on Priya. When he believed Priya, he accepted she belongs to Krish now. Should he become a stalker and intervene in her life? He let her move on assuming Krish will take her responsibility. If you were dating someone you broke up with, what would be the ideal thing to do? Go check in on them to see how they are doing? Or will you move on for the sake of your own sanity and block them from all platforms? But then again, him approaching Priya for help is not something I agree with. He shouldn't have agreed to that.

But coming to the baby, he should have used his common sense - I agree there. Even if what Priya was saying was true, she claimed to have had her affair at around the same she consummated their marriage. There was a good chance the baby was his even if her lie was true.

Originally posted by: EtherealRati

Today' scene was about ram's helplessness but it actually made me feel for priya.....atleast ram is shouting and pouring his heart out ......she isnt even able to tell him the truth.....even the previous good scene ended ended with nandini threatening through pihu and it all come back to square one.....she did tried fighting till it all came to pihu knowing about jail. This situation is scary......hum bacho ko sikhate hai ki joh galat kaam karte hai woh jail jaate hain.....pihu knowing priya was in jail is big deal.....it would have a big impact on pihu...joh sab hua woh sab kisi 5 saal ki bachi ko samjhaya nahi ja sakta....priya being scared of that isnt wrong. She should actually take ram's help in that .....but she has just landed up herself in a situation that everything is becoming up so messed....she is not getting ki exactly kya karein.....kaise karein.....it is not easy to deal with so much plotting and planning when you are in such an emotionally weak position.

I agree the situation is messed up and I am also scared thinking ki how will Pihu react. Its too much for a child to process this information but hopefully by then Ishaan decides to tell the truth and he clears the air for Pihu too.

Originally posted by: ajacob31

Did they show any monologues from Priya that she understood or is Behen still on CID mode. Maybe we will get some tomorrow? Looks like her motive now is to bring N’s truth and leave with Pihu. It’s almost 250 episodes and we see the same plotting planning and the nasty sister Sarangi who is worried only about herself!

They didn't show any monologues but I am hoping when the truth is out, Priya does express her feelings and regret over the pain she inflicted on Ram. But she was defo affected by that. From no angle did it look like she is being insensitive to his pain. I know many wonder ki why does she say good things about Krish in front of Ram. But Priya being Priya, how will she stand there, listening to Ram or anyone humiliate the only person who stood by her? She cannot tell Ram the truth but at the same time, she is aware ki she had wronged Krish too and that guy has only stood by her despite that and taken care of Pihu when she couldn't. It would be so not Priya to not take a stand.

I am annoyed with Sarangi 🤢 Couldn't they already show Maitreyi having a small kid and not being pregnant? At least this way Maitreyi could have gotten more screenspace. And all this hullaboo for Sara's wedding is 😡 I mean even Ram and Shivi did not celebrate this way. Unnecessarily they are giving footage to Sara Vikrant. Vikrant is still better than Sara. How I wish he could reconcile with Twinkle rather than marry Sarangi? She would have been more resourceful 😵

Originally posted by: EtherealRati

My heart just goes so much to priya.....she destroyed her own life just holding to a hope that ram will have a better life without her.....but ram lived a life worst than she could have ever imagined. It must be so heartbreaking to know that all the sacrifice she made went in absolute vain. He lived a nightmare for last 5 years.

All she wanted was that ram doesnt get hurt because of her.....thought she is grahan on his happiness, even his friends told her same. She blamed herself for the deeds done by her family ......blamed herself that her family snatched ram's father and ram's sister...his most precious people. That girl allowed her daughter to be without her father just because she dint wanted to remind him of what he lost by looking at her everyday....and she dint want him to choose btw family and her because she always knew the importance of his family for him... and here she is.....his mother and brother have still trapped him under that same thing....the shock is that his family was never is. And the man she loves is suffering because of a lie she said to protect him/to make life better for him....to take the grahan named herself out of his life. The helplessness in her eyes was depicted so well by disha today. All she says is mujhe suna lo but don't cry......how can she see him cry after all dhe went through and he was crying right there....in front of her eyes. I wish cvs have shown what priya went through after that instead of directly showing morning. I wanted her to cry her heart out, even it was alone in her room.....but she needs to speak tooo.....she should speak to her ownself if not anybody else. Her decisions have badly misfired.

I agree with what you said about Priya being broken upon seeing Ram in this state.

@bold - I agree, Priya should at least be given a monologue to express her regret. The makers have made a mess. Rather than waste that time on Sara, they can give Priya one scene where she is all alone and is repenting for having said that lie and given Ram that pain.

Originally posted by: BeyondHorizon

@bold - Ram did not initially believe Priya's lie even though she said it with conviction. But when Nandini told him its true he believed it. Had it been vice versa with Priya and MS, Priya would never believe MS coz she was aware of his true nature. But Ram is yet to see Nandu's true colors. Had Priya not caught MS with Rakhi, she would have lived in her happy bubble thinking her father is a good man just like how Ram is today with Nandu. The day the truth is out, like Priya he will start seeing people at face value. I do agree about the convenience part - it was easy for him to choose his family who had lost VK and later his sister over a wife who cheated on him which is why he did not fight it anymore. Also given the circumstances, he was emotionally drained.

I don't get why Ram is held responsible for not keeping tabs on Priya. When he believed Priya, he accepted she belongs to Krish now. Should he become a stalker and intervene in her life? He let her move on assuming Krish will take her responsibility. If you were dating someone you broke up with, what would be the ideal thing to do? Go check in on them to see how they are doing? Or will you move on for the sake of your own sanity and block them from all platforms? But then again, him approaching Priya for help is not something I agree with. He shouldn't have agreed to that.

But coming to the baby, he should have used his common sense - I agree there. Even if what Priya was saying was true, she claimed to have had her affair at around the same she consummated their marriage. There was a good chance the baby was his even if her lie was true.

I totally agree with the fact that ideally people would block their exes from all the platforms, but I know that everyone at some point or the other at least stalk their ex or just for an info sake try to know what's happening in their life. I am just pointing it out here because of Ram's nature. He is always shown as going all the way out for love, if he can love Priya's daughter then his love is to an another level. He was emotionally drained when Shivi died, but after sometime once he got back to his senses he should have questioned what happened at that time. He should have tried to get answers from her. You don't leave people you love right at once. You give them at least one chance. If he really believed that time that Priya is lying, he should have acted on that instinct at least once.

However for me, Priya is definitely the bigger evil between both of them, I cannot blame Ram much. Overall, dono hi faltu hain aur sabse bade faltu humlog jo in idiots ke upar behas karte hain🤣

Originally posted by: BeyondHorizon

They didn't show any monologues but I am hoping when the truth is out, Priya does express her feelings and regret over the pain she inflicted on Ram. But she was defo affected by that. From no angle did it look like she is being insensitive to his pain. I know many wonder ki why does she say good things about Krish in front of Ram. But Priya being Priya, how will she stand there, listening to Ram or anyone humiliate the only person who stood by her? She cannot tell Ram the truth but at the same time, she is aware ki she had wronged Krish too and that guy has only stood by her despite that and taken care of Pihu when she couldn't. It would be so not Priya to not take a stand.

I am annoyed with Sarangi 🤢 Couldn't they already show Maitreyi having a small kid and not being pregnant? At least this way Maitreyi could have gotten more screenspace. And all this hullaboo for Sara's wedding is 😡 I mean even Ram and Shivi did not celebrate this way. Unnecessarily they are giving footage to Sara Vikrant. Vikrant is still better than Sara. How I wish he could reconcile with Twinkle rather than marry Sarangi? She would have been more resourceful 😵

Lol seriously! They are having a one week celebration for their wedding. Itna toh Ram Priya ke liye bhi nahi hua tha 🤣I am so happy that even when they are having so many functions, they are not getting any importance. Sarangi deserves it

Originally posted by: EtherealRati

Ram says " Priya usse chod ke chali gayi thi"

But kya actual mein priya usse chodke gayi thi...man, the amount of questions he has for priya today ....why dint he asked them then ????...It was him who left her in jail after she told about cheating and never looked back till he needed her for his help........aaj usko itna dard ho raha hai, woh yeh sab priya se bol raha hai but last 5 years....he never even checked that if she is alive or dead. What if priya and pihu had died.....two years in jail isnt an easy thing and we all are aware that what kind of days they saw after that. Aaj ram ko bahut bura lag raha hai ki priya ne uski photo waali magazine pe moofali kha li.....but kam se kam priya ke paas woh magazine thi toh .....raam kya jaanta hai pihu aur priya ke 5 saalo ke baarein mein....kuch nahi...kam se kam she tried keeping a track of him. Usne kabhi priya se milne ki koshish tak nahi ki dobara....bas chod diya usse jail mein sadne ke liye.....na jail mein, na uske bahar aane ke baad woh kabhi usse mila ya uski koi info li.I do understand that priya should not hide things now, not at this point but she had reasons then. And ram also did make a big blunder......is it so easy to believe that a wife who is ready to give her life for you will cheat on you with another man .....sorry but he believes that so much that he never tries checking, never even assumes that may be may be pihu can be his daughter. It is made to look like that ram is the only victim but its not true ....priyaaa toh can't even take it out ram ki kaise.....kaise usne ek baar mei maan liya ki priya ne usse dhoka diya ......just because it was convenient for him that he will not have to choose btw priya and nandini/shubham at that time. I don't say that priya's decision has been right but ram faults are also there. He got separated from his daughter because he dint trusted his wife.....he actually couldn't even judge that priya can never do that. And a man can judge that, especially when he is in love with his wife to the extent that is shown in the show till that point.

100% agree with you. Yes Priya made many mistakes but most of the fandoms here gave quartered her, butchered her. Was Ram not equally to blame. How many times did he keep his family above her, took their word over her. Right from the very beginning he never questioned his mother or brother or sister. He let them take advantage of him throughout his life and put them above everyone even himself. That is not selfless but bewakoofi. Being a smart business man his primary skill is reading people which he successfully employed where his business was concerned so how come when it came to his family or judging the Doods or even Priya those skills totally failed him. Time and again he proved to Priya that she could not trust him to reach the correct conclusion so why put all the blame on Priya. Sorry if my comments don’t sit well with many . Lot of ppl have been blaming Priya but what about Ram, even he does not deserve a clean chit.