Bade Achhe Lagte hain 2 EDT #39 - Page 108

Originally posted by: RockingSunny

Bold: Maybe nandini's panic attack truth won't come out hence ram will have sympathy for her🤔. Maybe priya won't say the full truth😕

If the show is ending, then either Nandu and gang will get punished or Ram will try to name all his property to Nandu but Nandu stops him having a change of heart. In the end RaYa are together with Pihu. Or another one where Nandu does feel repentant but Ram walks away regardless. Harshad's show Humsafars had this end where the ML transfers all his property to his step MIL who he will be considering as his mom but that woman would have used him all along and he walks away with the FL who wants to be with him even if he is penniless. So something similar could happen.

Or if the show is getting an extension (which I doubt), RaYa will walk away and start afresh. And they might end it with Ram successfully establishing himself again in the business world with the help of Priya and his friends (if his useless friends decide to do something other than just sing hum saath saath hai 😛)

Originally posted by: BlurredLines

@bold - Alas we won't get any continuity's to the realisation . It is the show's main problem. I fear this scene would make Priya hide about Nandini in an misguided attempt to not get him hurt further 🤣.

I sincerely hope not coz Priya 1.0 would never tolerate such BS 😆 But I have no faith in Priya 2.0, thats the problem

Originally posted by: BeyondHorizon

Sara is annoying the crap out of me 😡 Vikrant is only asking her to talk to Priya and not Ram. WTF is her problem? I wish she gets to know what Priya did for her son. Shameless woman! She didn even bother to check with her son and make him comfortable about her decision to marry Vikrant. While one might argue that Sara doesn’t need her son’s permission, she surely owed him an explanation before getting engaged. Khair chodo! No expectation from this woman!

Originally posted by: SummerBorn

Wahi toh! She is one shameless woman… back then during that whole varun fiasco too, she let her sister’s life be ruined but kept saying “Priya Ka kya hoga” to Meera… huh! As if you care! Now she is unwilling to even talk to Priya, let alone allow vik to talk to Ram. Aisa toh hai ni k Priya usse kachha chana jayegi🤣 toh kya problem hai bhai?

I agree. Vikrant only asked her to talk to Priya, not reveal the truth without Priya's consent. When Varun's truth was out, she did not think once the impact it will have on Priya's marriage. Instead she was like Ishaan ka kya hoga which is not wrong. But she never took any step to prepare Ishaan for this. Did she honestly expect Ram to let Varun go scott free after murdering his father? This is the same woman who did not think it was important to convince Ishaan to accept Varun but was merrily shopping for her engagement while her son remained clueless. No point expecting anything from her. If MM wants RaYa to unite, why can't she walk up to Ram and tell him the truth? She didn't listen to her daughter once when she was asking her to say the truth. Now why is she listening to her to hide the truth?

Ram says " Priya usse chod ke chali gayi thi"

But kya actual mein priya usse chodke gayi thi...man, the amount of questions he has for priya today ....why dint he asked them then ????...It was him who left her in jail after she told about cheating and never looked back till he needed her for his help........aaj usko itna dard ho raha hai, woh yeh sab priya se bol raha hai but last 5 years....he never even checked that if she is alive or dead. What if priya and pihu had died.....two years in jail isnt an easy thing and we all are aware that what kind of days they saw after that. Aaj ram ko bahut bura lag raha hai ki priya ne uski photo waali magazine pe moofali kha li.....but kam se kam priya ke paas woh magazine thi toh .....raam kya jaanta hai pihu aur priya ke 5 saalo ke baarein mein....kuch nahi...kam se kam she tried keeping a track of him. Usne kabhi priya se milne ki koshish tak nahi ki dobara....bas chod diya usse jail mein sadne ke liye.....na jail mein, na uske bahar aane ke baad woh kabhi usse mila ya uski koi info li.I do understand that priya should not hide things now, not at this point but she had reasons then. And ram also did make a big blunder......is it so easy to believe that a wife who is ready to give her life for you will cheat on you with another man .....sorry but he believes that so much that he never tries checking, never even assumes that may be may be pihu can be his daughter. It is made to look like that ram is the only victim but its not true ....priyaaa toh can't even take it out ram ki kaise.....kaise usne ek baar mei maan liya ki priya ne usse dhoka diya ......just because it was convenient for him that he will not have to choose btw priya and nandini/shubham at that time. I don't say that priya's decision has been right but ram faults are also there. He got separated from his daughter because he dint trusted his wife.....he actually couldn't even judge that priya can never do that. And a man can judge that, especially when he is in love with his wife to the extent that is shown in the show till that point.

Today' scene was about ram's helplessness but it actually made me feel for priya.....atleast ram is shouting and pouring his heart out ......she isnt even able to tell him the truth.....even the previous good scene ended ended with nandini threatening through pihu and it all come back to square one.....she did tried fighting till it all came to pihu knowing about jail. This situation is scary......hum bacho ko sikhate hai ki joh galat kaam karte hai woh jail jaate hain.....pihu knowing priya was in jail is big deal.....it would have a big impact on pihu...joh sab hua woh sab kisi 5 saal ki bachi ko samjhaya nahi ja sakta....priya being scared of that isnt wrong. She should actually take ram's help in that .....but she has just landed up herself in a situation that everything is becoming up so messed....she is not getting ki exactly kya karein.....kaise karein.....it is not easy to deal with so much plotting and planning when you are in such an emotionally weak position.

Originally posted by: BeyondHorizon

@bold - Couldn't agree more with you. Even before the leap happened I was eagerly looking forward to Ram Pihu bonding and I am really happy with their journey. Just hope they do not spoil it any further.

As for Priya, she has made her fair share of mistakes but she did realise the amount of pain Ram is in today. I wish there was a scene with just her where she could speak her thoughts out loud. But alas makers want to utilize every non RaYa moment to show the vamps plotting and scheming or useless characters doing nothing to move the story forward.

My heart just goes so much to priya.....she destroyed her own life just holding to a hope that ram will have a better life without her.....but ram lived a life worst than she could have ever imagined. It must be so heartbreaking to know that all the sacrifice she made went in absolute vain. He lived a nightmare for last 5 years.

All she wanted was that ram doesnt get hurt because of her.....thought she is grahan on his happiness, even his friends told her same. She blamed herself for the deeds done by her family ......blamed herself that her family snatched ram's father and ram's sister...his most precious people. That girl allowed her daughter to be without her father just because she dint wanted to remind him of what he lost by looking at her everyday....and she dint want him to choose btw family and her because she always knew the importance of his family for him... and here she is.....his mother and brother have still trapped him under that same thing....the shock is that his family was never is. And the man she loves is suffering because of a lie she said to protect him/to make life better for him....to take the grahan named herself out of his life. The helplessness in her eyes was depicted so well by disha today. All she says is mujhe suna lo but don't cry......how can she see him cry after all dhe went through and he was crying right there....in front of her eyes. I wish cvs have shown what priya went through after that instead of directly showing morning. I wanted her to cry her heart out, even it was alone in her room.....but she needs to speak tooo.....she should speak to her ownself if not anybody else. Her decisions have badly misfired.

Priya lied to ram about the child being just her's and not their......but her whole family knows the truth and she need not tell them that.....they know if she has a child, its ram's....they have no confusions regarding that unlike ram who actually has no confusions regarding the child being her's and krish being the father. It is as if like he doesnt even knows her .....anybody who knows priya will know that she isnt a woman capable of cheating her partner but here her own partner doesnt know that about her. Though may be it is all due to the kind of life ram lived....he never got the things he wanted ....he had the constant scare of loosing his people and thus he believed very easily that he lost priya.....he instead of showing belief in her showed disbelief in himself that he might have not been her first choice/desired partner because he hasnt been special to anyone else either since childhood. That she choosed krish over him. The baggage these two had with them before marriage has actually messed things up for them.

Originally posted by: ajacob31

Can some one tell me how is Priya better or different than N? N is clearly vile who has been gaslighting Ram since VK’s death. She is very clear with her intentions and has no regrets which is understandable. But how is Priya being justified for her actions. She mostly never values or understands what Ram says. She always had excuses to ignore him or justify herself, consistently refused to answer Ram’s questions, also walked away in multiple occasions. These are also perfect examples of emotional gaslighting. How can this be ever justified as love? I feel for once she told truth about loving Krish in prison and it seems that’s true from her actions.There is definitely no love for Ram from her side. She should leave Ram instead of hurting him more. Such pathetic writing!!

I am absolutely positive that the writers have no clue on how to show progress in a relationship between a couple weighed down with emotional baggage. They have no clue how to handle topics on mental health, childhood trauma etc..

Yeah! It's just pathetic writing man. The writers have made their strong FL turn into a character even worse than the villain of the story. I really feel sorry for Disha, while Ram is given such great dialogues, such great scenes to vent out his emotions; Priya gets nothing. Earlier there were Pihu-Priya scenes, but they are non existent now. They have reduced Priya into a glammed up doll who has no role in the story. At this point, it looks like she just cares about Ishan and Krish. There's no depth in her character left. Priya 1.0 was so a no nonsense character. She felt remorse for her father's misdeeds. But this Priya doesn't care at all! Disha deserved better.