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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: TheCoolDocSid

I have been trumpeting it, but found zilch answers… so…🤷‍♀️

I think Akki and shivi settled in abroad/ out of Mumbai in India… under care and supervision of Nandu 😆

Yellow: Kitna accha hota agar ye sach hota instead of shivina dying
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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: SummerBorn

Anddddd we are back to MM yap-yapping about Agni-pariksha… what is with this woman and her obsession with Agni-pariksha track? I feel she has some messed up theory in her head related to it. Koi Iss Jagat mata se puch hi lo k woh kya hai. Ek baar pravachan de degi toh shayad dobara isko yaad na aaye iski🤷🏻‍♀️And what is this sara ki problem(other than her ugly hair) why is she against telling Ram the truth about pihu

Sara is annoying the crap out of me 😡 Vikrant is only asking her to talk to Priya and not Ram. WTF is her problem? I wish she gets to know what Priya did for her son. Shameless woman! She didn even bother to check with her son and make him comfortable about her decision to marry Vikrant. While one might argue that Sara doesn’t need her son’s permission, she surely owed him an explanation before getting engaged. Khair chodo! No expectation from this woman!

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Posted: 3 years ago

Accha will vedika get exposed?? Or after nandini and shubham's end uska chapter chalta rahega🤔. Aur agar aisa hua then we are back to the same track we were in months ago😆. Just a change earlier we had gold digger vedika now we have criminal vedika🤔

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: BeyondHorizon

Sara is annoying the crap out of me 😡 Vikrant is only asking her to talk to Priya and not Ram. WTF is her problem? I wish she gets to know what Priya did for her son. Shameless woman! She didn even bother to check with her son and make him comfortable about her decision to marry Vikrant. While one might argue that Sara doesn’t need her son’s permission, she surely owed him an explanation before getting engaged. Khair chodo! No expectation from this woman!

What to expect from meera ma and her beti sara di🤪?? Atleast priya thinks about her daughter(though seperating a father and daughter is not justified) par ye log to apne bacho ko hi musibat mein dal de for their stupidity🤔
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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: SummerBorn

Anddddd we are back to MM yap-yapping about Agni-pariksha… what is with this woman and her obsession with Agni-pariksha track? I feel she has some messed up theory in her head related to it. Koi Iss Jagat mata se puch hi lo k woh kya hai. Ek baar pravachan de degi toh shayad dobara isko yaad na aaye iski🤷🏻‍♀️And what is this sara ki problem(other than her ugly hair) why is she against telling Ram the truth about pihu

Yaar yeh Sara is too much!! Vedika wale time bhi she knew the truth and still hid it from Priya. Now she is doing the same with Ram. Ise problem kya hai yaar batane mein!! Even MM mein galti se thodi buddhi aa gyi ki she wanted to tell the truth, but yeh stupid Sara 😡 I just hate the characters of this show so much. These morons are equally vile as Nandini 🤢

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: BlurredLines

So no progress after the confrontation as expected right.? Someone tell me if i should watch it or not😆


Also can you be kind enough to say when Meera Ma appears onscreen so i can FF that moment

No progress? Are bhai ek guilt tak nahi dikhaya Priya ka confrontation ke baad. Koi monologue kuch nahi. Ram poured his heart out and Priya didn't even bother to check on him again. Mast scene next morning pe cut ho gaya. What a pathetic show man?? They have made me hate Priya so so much. I cannot just stand her anymore. Yaar how can you love someone and see them hurt like this and do nothing??? Matlab kuch bhi. Aise emotional moment mein toh koi bhi sach bol de yaar. What was even the point of this scene if it meant nothing? Arey room mein jaane ke baad she should have gone to him again and said something! Faltu ka fake drama Priya ko band karna chahiye ki she loves Ram and jaake Krish ke saath khush rahe. If this is how you love someone then Vedika is still better for Ram than Priya. Ram deserves much better than this stupid woman. God, I just hate her

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: smriti81

Oh Boy...Ram laid bare his scars today, his hurt his pain, his agony...and it was so so heartbreaking to watch him! But it was really necessary for Priya to hear all this so her delusional bubble would burst! Though I don't trust the writers to show any progression in Priya's character!!

Sometimes I truly feel Ram's love for Priya is far deeper than her love for him. Her love is conditional, practical, logical, that is why she can easily walk away and still have a fairly good and happy life with Pihu. Of course the child makes a lot of difference in a mother's life. A child can easily become a mother's priority over a spouse. But I feel even if Priya leaves Pihu with Ram he would still feel sad and incomplete somewhere deep inside and keep yearning for her. Like Ram once said...truly deeply madly!! And what was interesting that he says 'tum mujhe chod ke chali gayi' not 'tumne mujhe dhokha diya'.

Priya's attitude and brusqueness before Ram's breakdown because he shut her phone off was annoying. He was trying to apologise and explain but madam was giving him attitude. Sometimes Priya' s sheer insensitivity towards Ram baffles me and makes me question her love for him. Has the woman forgotten that she told him she slept with Krish and had his baby. So why can she not understand the pain he must experience whenever Krish is hovering between them, literally or figuratively. Ok.. in her own mind she knows there is nothing there and she did not cheat but how can she forget how it appears from his perspective when she is calling Krish aside to have tete-tete with him.

And honestly I am not expecting any major change in Priya even after this. Cause if his hurt and tears meant anything to him the woman would go and tell him the truth later. I bet she still has no intensions of telling him about Pihu. She may try to focus on exposing Nandini now to save him from being manipulated. But I can't help but find Priya's love for Ram just an illusion...a habit.

Yes, 100% correct! I have seen Priya show so much empathy for others in the show but for Ram it's none. Kuch pyaar wyaar nahi hai, she's sometimes more hostile towards him than others. Har time taunt and attitude dikhana hota ise bas Ram ke aage. Even Shivi loved Ram more than Priya. She got that Krish was insecure when she & Pihu spent the day with Ram, but somehow she never gets that how Ram would feel when she is with Krish. Her love is just an illusion as you said, she doesn't show that in her actions.


And yes regarding 'tum mujhe chod ke chali gayi' , this is what she did exactly. Despite everything, she left Ram alone when he was at his lowest. Choosing Ishan over Ram was the biggest betrayal she could have done despite knowing how broken that guy already was. In real life, wives or mothers cannot ever choose someone above their husband or child. This is pure evil.

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Posted: 3 years ago

And to think of they were promoting love in an arranged marriage with this show. Ise dekh ke toh koi nahi karna chahega Arrange marriage. Shaadi ke baad pyaar hote hote ho hi jata hai, ghanta! 🤣

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: ajacob31

Thanks for the update. Priya should stop stonewalling. She has always been doing this with Ram in smaller doses before separation itself. How’s this different from N’s gaslighting. She never valued Ram in the first place, so her love seems unconvincing seeing her actions. I hate the writers who made Priya so narcissistic to do this kind of emotional gaslighting to Ram… I hope they never unite the way it’s written since Priya can hurt Ram again at another opp. if they reunite. What were the writers thinking to show the leads in poor light.. so sad…

Haan I agree. Even before the separation it was always there. The taunts, the tantrums, the lies! I hope they stay separated and never see each other again 👎🏼

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Sanjari7

No progress? Are bhai ek guilt tak nahi dikhaya Priya ka confrontation ke baad. Koi monologue kuch nahi. Ram poured his heart out and Priya didn't even bother to check on him again. Mast scene next morning pe cut ho gaya. What a pathetic show man?? They have made me hate Priya so so much. I cannot just stand her anymore. Yaar how can you love someone and see them hurt like this and do nothing??? Matlab kuch bhi. Aise emotional moment mein toh koi bhi sach bol de yaar. What was even the point of this scene if it meant nothing? Arey room mein jaane ke baad she should have gone to him again and said something! Faltu ka fake drama Priya ko band karna chahiye ki she loves Ram and jaake Krish ke saath khush rahe. If this is how you love someone then Vedika is still better for Ram than Priya. Ram deserves much better than this stupid woman. God, I just hate her

Can some one tell me how is Priya better or different than N? N is clearly vile who has been gaslighting Ram since VK’s death. She is very clear with her intentions and has no regrets which is understandable. But how is Priya being justified for her actions. She mostly never values or understands what Ram says. She always had excuses to ignore him or justify herself, consistently refused to answer Ram’s questions, also walked away in multiple occasions. These are also perfect examples of emotional gaslighting. How can this be ever justified as love? I feel for once she told truth about loving Krish in prison and it seems that’s true from her actions.There is definitely no love for Ram from her side. She should leave Ram instead of hurting him more. Such pathetic writing!!

I am absolutely positive that the writers have no clue on how to show progress in a relationship between a couple weighed down with emotional baggage. They have no clue how to handle topics on mental health, childhood trauma etc..

Edited by ajacob31 - 3 years ago

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