Originally posted by: SlytherInMe
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agree to disagree
after shiva openly supported her in front of the family, I would have preferred for her to share but even then my problem isn’t with her hiding, my problem isn’t even with her telling a small lie, my problem was her not recognizing that her lie would obviously lead to an argument
but she did realize that in last episode. and that’s why I don’t just find fault in her - shiva is an equal participant
as for bike, I think Shiva asking who was the guy that she was roaming around with on the bike is justified
I tweeted it before too - what is not justified is his tone and yelling, I would never accept that kind of behavior and I don’t think Raavi should either
well the problem in this whole situation...is the phone call ...if raavi had even told him that it was call for a shoot and i believe...even if raavi had not given the details of her job (which she obviously doesnt have to...)the reaction from shivas side would have been different.. first...he would understand that she had already told him about the shoot... second he would have then easily being able to differentiate btw her work and personal life ...and all that he would have felt would have been jealousy...which they could have sorted out..
but because of the lie and the situation with the bike his jealousy turned into doubt.....
and the reaction from raavi was apt and upto the point.... in the room ep shiva had clearly doubted her character again ...
but the fact is raavi herself was responsible this time not because hiding about her shoot but because of the lie she told the other night....
the two things raavi saying....
shiva had problem with her success
and shiva knew her from childhood she should atleast have a benefit of doubt...
"shiva had problem with her success".... well raavi says shiva doesnt understand him....(which he doesnt most of the time)....but raavi too doesnt understand him previously when raavi carefully explained it to him about her shoot...initially he was reluctant...but he understood and he even said it doesnt matter if she blocks anyone but she should include him or keep him updated,,,
even then she should have understood shiva can be termed as worse in trusting her but he definitely in any circumstances will be jealous of her success...he was the first one to congratulate rishita for her job...despite entire family being skeptical...also when she started this sm he always said as long as she keeps his family and his personal life away from him he has no problem with whatever she does....
but this time raavi was excited for the job at night...as evident from her dialogue"sabka chehra dekhne layak hoga"...because now she seemed confident that job is not a hoax and she intentionally hiden it to surprise him....
"trust"
the major problem in their relationship is trust ....
the fact that shiva has lied to her during loan kaand is true...... but why he had lied to her at that time....the reason being raavi will spill the secret...thats why....
now this conclusion in shivas mind came...because of a previous incident...
Shiva had first open upto raavi at that time...about dhara and gautams decision to not have a baby... and him and dev hearing it...and shiva also asked raavi to keep it a secret....
but raavi had told this to suman eventhough her intentions were to support dhara as always but she had broken the trust and promise...of shiva at that time.... because shiva and dev could also reveal the secret when they tried to defend dhara... but since it was dhara and gautams....private decision they had kept it hidden ....and it should have been revealed by them only...
thats were his impression of raavi cant keep a secret came into being.....
in this way both have trust issues... but it takes time to build trust
shiva and raavi are married for one year only...almost whole their life they were enemies.....