Originally posted by: SlytherInMe
Many people, including myself, called him out for keeping those secrets especially since Raavi felt so bad about it. Which is why her keeping this a secret shows no growth at all. Whatâs the difference if sheâs going to do the same thing Shiva did? I mean really whatâs the point in defending with the argument that usne pehle ye kiya so itâs okay agar she did it this time.
(hi prema-ika đ¤)
Ashu đ¤
I called out on Raavi hiding the bank promotion deal from Shiva. But two things made her take that decision. One, she thought it could be a prank call, second, if it is not a prank call, then she would surprise him.
We all saw what was his reaction when she handed him over 25,000 rupees for the restaurant gig. He couldnât believe it and he himself thought that she was pranking him and even asked her if she looted from somewhere. Shiva till this date thinks Raavi is a dobi, canât do anything worthwhile, always messes up things and has a tede dimaag. So, when the bank deal came, she knew exactly how Shiva would react if she did not have any proof. Later she does realize that her surprise backfired. But he cannot continue hold that against her.
As for character growth, there is no denying that Raavi has had a better character growth than him. Else with all that abuse and humiliation she went through during IVF kaand and divorce kaand any other girl would have left him. Even during the remarriage when sge told him the truth about Dhara secretly getting them married, she said, â roz roz taane sunna, subah uttke berukhi baatein sunn naâ when it was no fault of hers, shows character growth on Raaviâs part because she was determined to get her love back.
Up until this SM track Shiva has not stood up for Raavi, even her own dialogues said that whereas Raavi has stood up for him against Mami even when they were not in love with each other. Definitely shows her cgaracter growth.
Every time there is a problem between them, except for filing divorce, he asks Dhara for help or Suman for help. Whereas Raavi always fights her own battles, she is not bringing in Mami in between them.
He wanted sacche ehsaas, he gave her that.
He wanted her to prove that she didnât file for divorce, she tried her level best to prove but Shivaâs lack of trust on her blinds his thinking.
There is also bo denying that she has done more for him and his family than he has ever done for her and her family. He has saved her from danger but many times it was his duty and sometimes he dud it out of humanity, would have done for any girl (he saved and helped Disha)
Raavi has all along never tried to hide anything from him but there is no denying that he has never taken seriously.
IMO, Raavi has had a better character growth in this than Shiva has had. Sometimes Raavi is not even allowed to get angry and take it out on others, because the tables are turned on her, whereas Shiva takes out all his anger on Raavi when things donât go his way.
Edited by mpks1 - 3 years ago