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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: majoni03

Fangirls are justifying the precap also. Cannt a wife ask her husband to give her a glass of water? Raavi has always taken care of Shiva and family. But i think this time choubays will not show Raavi wrong.. I still have hopes from choubays😆

What can you expect from the fangirls and Choubays? Such low thinking😆

I have no hope from Choubays 😆

You think Choubays will not show wrong but I think this is their ploy to make Raavi quit her SM influencer job because they are going to show Suman being against it too.

Both Choubays and fangirls want Raavi to be Shiva's wife, Kandya Niwas bahu, Dhara and Rishita's Devrani and Krish's Bhabi and whatever relationship is called with Gautam and Dev (probably sister)

Once Dhara comes back with Shweta and the baby, first thing Suman will do is ask Raavi to quit doing what she is doing. The non-supporters list is growing anyways 😔

Soon, Raavi will have no support as Dev and Gautam cannot go against their wives and it was visible in the last scene.

Edited by mpks1 - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: majoni03

Fangirls are justifying the precap also. Cannt a wife ask her husband to give her a glass of water? Raavi has always taken care of Shiva and family. But i think this time choubays will not show Raavi wrong.. I still have hopes from choubays😆

I have a hope too, Mr. Choubey will not go too crazy!

Though I have no hope from mrs. & rest creative gang: come ‘my Dhara’ & they all will go bolo tara rarra..

story will flipflop for Bhabhi again , now that she is back to insert herself!

Edited by spdp - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: spdp

On Dining table drama::

First thing first: Rishita has no right or reason to demand this special treatment forever. At first she was badey ghar ki beti, then she was working, now she is pregnant : so she will not lift a spoon!

Khud banaa le! Tomorrow she will want Raavi to cater to her baby’s needs too! Nothing wrong if it’s give & take. But in Rishita’s case of is always just take.
Her jealousy is making her mean soul uglier!


Suman: a regressive crap many will find relatable!

Utter nonsense & demeaning situation this, for any normal person! Hope Suman doesn’t take it too far. Don’t want it to add to ShiVi’s growth upheaval & definitely don’t want Bhabhi to rescue in this matter.

I could relate, because even after So many years of seeing us growing together, seeing her son helping me in daily chores equally: My mil has this hunch as to why?! She is ok if he makes chai / food for her , when I am not around. But expects he doesn’t when i am. Which she always end up getting disappointed with.

Recently she got good counter dose by my pati & his bro & jijaji : when post family Raakhi dinner: when my son & nephew wr doing dishes: she commented my daughter & nieces should do it. Bhaio Ko kyoon kaam diya.

It is SO ingrained in her - it is traumatizing!

I can see Suman going off tangent: though I am looking forward to see how Shiva & rest of the brothers will be reacting to that!

I have read countless stories of yours from you real life that you have shared last year. I always admire you for going through such hardships and fighting against it. I am fully with you on training the boys to handle the kitchen. It is not because they are just sitting there and wasting time but because these are life skills everyone should learn.

I wish my mother and my chachis had this kind of support in the 70s and the 80s to fight back.

I cannot stop Thanking God for giving me in-laws family totally opposite to what my mother went through. If my husband was not supportive or my MIL was ruthless, I would not have been able to do what I wanted to in my life. Even today I told my husband during our afternoon tea that how lucky we are to get such understanding parents who only thought about our future and betterment and nothing else in return. Both sets of parents have been givers to us in many ways.

Edited by mpks1 - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: spdp

I have a hope too, Mr. Choubey will not go too crazy!

Though I have no hope from mrs. & rest creative gang: come ‘my Dhara’ & they all will go bolo tara rarra..

story will flipflop for Bhabhi again , now that she is back to insert herself!

Actually last scene gave me hope. They showed how no one understands her and she is alone. I think Raavi buying pags spoiler will come true and Shiva will be back to supporting her

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Posted: 3 years ago

One thing I want to say to all those unmarried girls here out in the IF who read this post and are active participants in this forum (I have no qualification to say anything to TT and IG fans who always read this EDT and make fun of me as an aunty, because they seem to know everything in life and has seen it all, so this is definitely not for them, don't even bother reading it. I am requesting you all to stay away from my posts😕)

Your respect in your inlaws place is established only when your husband respects and supports you. If it doesn't happen, then you will be treated like how Raavi has been treated all along that everyone will take you for granted and always waiting to put you down. No matter what you do, they will never be happy.


Raavi has heard it from all of them at some point and not been able to give it back because they take her for granted and she has no standing or respect in that house. And today we saw she was standing there alone with no one to support and tomorrow Shiva will throw out the food which will again be justified and she will be called a liar by him until she apologizes.

Edited by mpks1 - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago

My opinion no one asked for...😛

"Mene ek din me itna kama liya jitna tu ek mahine me nahi kama paata"

I have been in both the situations so I don't think anyone was wrong here.

Shiva has always been hot headed bail, pagla gaya woh sunke but he shouldn't have broken her gift. Hope he gifts her one and apologize for his behaviour!!

I understand why Raavi said this. She was excited that she earned aur usne jo bhi bola that was spontaneous. She didn't mean it.

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Okay my point was Raavi saying this might sound rude but she actually didn't meant it,but it triggered Shiva.pata nahi sab Raavi ko rude, arrogant aur money minded kyu bol rahe hain, it's just her wrong words not intension,i know when she will realise she will apologize.Also Shiva saying I am not doubting on Raavi but yelling on her and he is hurt that she lied but his behaviour is hurting her more.

Edited by Saakshi2k - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago

Is this shweta's house same as Singh's house(best of luck nikki)😛

Mujhe esa laga they inserted that intro house clip😆

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Posted: 3 years ago

Also one thing... Jab mene segment TV pe dekha tha(I have not watched it after that), tab shayad jo parcel container the woh khaali the, jaha tak I remember, also Shiva uss time peeche khada tha,i mean pn ke bahar khada tha

I don't think khaana kisi ne bahar feka hai... Also VO was like esa kya hua jo Raavi ko jhootan uthane me majboor kiya, and empty containers.

Toh maybe raavi ne khaana stray dogs ko khila kiya yaa fir kisi needy people ko diya hai.

Ese khaane ki barbaadi na dikhae bas😒

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: mpks1

One thing I want to say to all those unmarried girls here out in the IF who read this post and are active participants in this forum (I have no qualification to say anything to TT and IG fans who always read this EDT and make fun of me as an aunty, because they seem to know everything in life and has seen it all, so this is definitely not for them, don't even bother reading it. I am requesting you all to stay away from my posts😕)

Your respect in your inlaws place is established only when your husband respects and supports you. If it doesn't happen, then you will be treated like how Raavi has been treated all along that everyone will take you for granted and always waiting to put you down. No matter what you do, they will never be happy.


Raavi has heard it from all of them at some point and not been able to give it back because they take her for granted and she has no standing or respect in that house. And today we saw she was standing there alone with no one to support and tomorrow Shiva will throw out the food which will again be justified and she will be called a liar by him until she apologizes.

I am 20 turning 21 by end of this yr, never been in relationship but this is something I fully agree on.


Your respect at in laws place is how your husband treats you.

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Raavi won't ever get respect and treated like human as Shiva doesn't do it.


I have seen my mother, she is an absolute sweetheart ❤️ bas apne baccho per gussa karti hain 🤣


My parents tells us that when they were newly married and till the time my brother was born they used to have a lot of guesting and it used to be really hectic for my mother as no one from the guest used to help her.

But whenever my father used to return home they used to pretend that they are helping as my father can be really rude at times 😆. My mother never complained but we as kids saw that.


There were no insults but as my mother is youngest in their generation so they all have a big age difference, my buas have taunted her not bohot zyada but kiya hain, I have 4 badi mumma and all have been through this but they never degraded each other.


Mera bada man kiya hain to reply them back when I got older when I hear these stories but couldn't ever do as phir Mumma ko he taane milte. We told this to our father as we just knew that ki yeh cheez galat lag rahi bhale I didn't understood as I was really small and he used to reply back, later we shifted to Gujarat waha toh barely guesting thi as it was soo far away.

When we again returned back to Delhi then again guesting started but this time, it used to be a healthy environment and not that hectic for my mother.

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