Habs: Feroze Khan - Ushna Shah (ARY drama) - Page 69

Originally posted by: twerping

The thing about divorces is when parents divorce or separate, they should be very careful not to draw the child into the conflict that is between the parents. In Basit's case, this did not happen. He picked a side. Perhaps we will slowly see him view his mother not as the betrayer of his father and the person who abandoned him. Obviously the fact that she left him is a major source of pain for him. And he will have to accept her with that bitter history lies between them. But perhaps he will stop arguing with her on behalf of his father.

I don't want to think Basit's father was not a loving husband. Perhaps it was just that she did not love him. And perhaps it was wrong of her to pick her love over her child. I want to see Sadia and Basit at some point talk about the season pain and hurt that lies between them like two mature individuals. Till now he has only responded to her through taunts that come from the hurt that lies within him.

Maturity. That's what is needed..although as a child separation affected him badly and the effects r visible but at the same time , I believe that he needs to understand his mom. If a couple is not in happy marriage they must part ways . Yes thy must also ensure proper care of their children together .

In cases where the mother remarries I guess that's the most difficult part , if the step family is not good . (Like this show hum.kahan ke sachey they in which this woman abandons her daughter in her maayka bec the 2nd husband refused to keep her )

When rhe father remarries , again it depends on the step family but with basit his father didn't marry .

What basit needs is the maturity to not repeat his parents mistakes , start developing trust and faith..not every woman can be like his mom. Kaante ki saza phoolon ko nahi di jaati( a line from my fav show ) ..as an adult basit must understand that he has full control of his life and he can make it anyway he wants to. Depression anxiety mei rehna hai toh his choice but he can get out of it and be a better person than his parents.

Originally posted by: Krinya

Maturity. That's what is needed..although as a child separation affected him badly and the effects r visible but at the same time , I believe that he needs to understand his mom. If a couple is not in happy marriage they must part ways . Yes thy must also ensure proper care of their children together .

In cases where the mother remarries I guess that's the most difficult part , if the step family is not good . (Like this show hum.kahan ke sachey they in which this woman abandons her daughter in her maayka bec the 2nd husband refused to keep her )

When rhe father remarries , again it depends on the step family but with basit his father didn't marry .

What basit needs is the maturity to not repeat his parents mistakes , start developing trust and faith..not every woman can be like his mom. Kaante ki saza phoolon ko nahi di jaati( a line from my fav show ) ..as an adult basit must understand that he has full control of his life and he can make it anyway he wants to. Depression anxiety mei rehna hai toh his choice but he can get out of it and be a better person than his parents.

@bold Yessss!!! And that magical journey hopefully we shall get to see.

I loved that part when Fahad returns from London for Basit's wedding, and Basit asks "Unhone bulaya?"

And Fahad nods saying, "Tujhey sharm aana chahiye."

These tiny exchanges reveal so much...

Something Haute review on Habs is out:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8Cr0Qq33X0E (39:23)

In short: They loved it! ⭐️

Not sharing the Fuchsia magazine review for Habs because I find their attitude to reviewing the characters very problematic. I am a proud feminist myself. However, that does not mean I attack a character for the way it behaves without taking into consideration the reasons why the character behaves in a particular way in a particular situation. You need to understand that in this drama the characters have been crafted in a very realistic fashion where their behaviour is shaped not only by what is happening immediately in that scene but rather the entire situation that the character is in. Anyway...

Originally posted by: Madhuilove

oh yeah , the smile was everything 😍😍🥰😍🥰😍🥰😍🥰🥰🥰

Waiting him to fall irrevocaly in love with Ayesha.

So much so that , if some day she goes to her house ;

He will feel her absence ... Would recall , how she used to fuss him over dinner ...

Then , in the morning will drive his car to her mother's house and take her with him . For the reason that , life with out her was becoming more and more unbearable 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

I think when he will fall in love, it will unapologetic, intense and deeper than that off Ayesha's, Basit is someone who can surrender his whole existence for someone if he even gets a miniscule of affection. I am sure this journey will be glorious, he will surprise us and Ayesha too

Originally posted by: Krinya

Maturity. That's what is needed..although as a child separation affected him badly and the effects r visible but at the same time , I believe that he needs to understand his mom. If a couple is not in happy marriage they must part ways . Yes thy must also ensure proper care of their children together .

In cases where the mother remarries I guess that's the most difficult part , if the step family is not good . (Like this show hum.kahan ke sachey they in which this woman abandons her daughter in her maayka bec the 2nd husband refused to keep her )

When rhe father remarries , again it depends on the step family but with basit his father didn't marry .

What basit needs is the maturity to not repeat his parents mistakes , start developing trust and faith..not every woman can be like his mom. Kaante ki saza phoolon ko nahi di jaati( a line from my fav show ) ..as an adult basit must understand that he has full control of his life and he can make it anyway he wants to. Depression anxiety mei rehna hai toh his choice but he can get out of it and be a better person than his parents.

Yes, and right now the reason Basit is not still there is because he had no choice over his life, he was emotionally blackmailed and forced to marry when he was not ready, he feels cheated by both his parents, the mother just left and never explained to him why she did it, the father died and manipulated him to do what his father thought was right for him, so where is the real Basit here? No where..

.He is an aimless, lonely and extremely hurt soul, who has no goal, who does not have a reason to feel empathetic too, Ayesha might be poor but she has dreams, goals, she has a family despite crazy at least they will not abandon her, whereas Basit has nothing, and he still survives with the idea that he is doing everything to give some peace to his father. The day Ayesha digs deeper into his scars and he genuinely cries his heart out to her, will be the most memorable one.

I really want Basit to vent out all his hurt in front of Ayesha and just cry, he really needs a proper and a reasonable apology from his mother where she explains why she left, whatever she is doing is not good enough, living with him and trying to advice him is not what can give him a closure, the woman needs to tell him her side of the story otherwise why is she expecting his forgiveness?

https://twitter.com/BasitKiMehbooba/status/1555615378914639873

Good night girls...

here is another vm..credit original uploader (MaYa Vids)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S_-0M0MgUUg

Originally posted by: twerping

Yeah...this interview was taken during covid lockdown 2 years back. I love the way he talks...his style of telling stories. One could spend hours listening to him.

Hehe...anyway, I wish people took more interviews of directors..

https://youtube.com/shorts/uVCbcZshI38?feature=share

Yeah mostly directors remains behind the camera. Only few directors are famous and call for interviews.

Originally posted by: Krinya

Should I say something ?

He was smitten by her beauty in the dim lights of laptop🥰😍

To my surprise ayesha was in a pretty good mood after the ups and downs of the day..just a few mins bk basit stopped her frm acting the good wife 😆 may be she was happy that he is dependent on her for office work. At least somewhere he needs her .

Yeah she was happy that atleast in office work he is relying on her. Otherwise his other stuff is done by home staff.