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Originally posted by: missFiesty_69

Bro, it's not like they can't get pregnant! In the second place, chalo man liya he's feeling all kinds of incapable, guilt he couldn't save his baby. But how's that an excuse to send her out of the house or asking her to leave?! Asking for space is one thing, sending someone out altogether is something else.

And moreover she was leaving in the night, a man who's concerned would never allow her to leave in the night, never mind if he's angry/sad/ or just plain depressed?!

What's this darkness they keep referring to? Mujhe samajh nayi woh tweet ?!

Okay I'm being harsh I see. Chalo he's getting depressed seeing the baby's death whenever he sees imlie. But he could have asked for space/ some breathing time, he could have shifted to a different room! Couples aksar aise karte hain.

He's basically guilt tripping her by saying zindagi bhar iss dukh ko yaad karungi, thamlo mera haath?! Wtf ?

Atleast he could have stopped her from leaving the house at night. Kam se kam.

Originally posted by: wasra

@bold: yeah u r right @dyuqueen ji, we will have to wait for ASR's monologs to know ki uske side of story kya hai, it was all about Imlie today.

@italic: i don't trust the writers, it looked more like FK's improvisation😆

@underline: regarding precap i stumbled on a beautiful insight today, lol i was so curious went on to do some research here it is:

"Sometimes people feel guilty for simply feeling good. If you are very sensitive to feeling guilty, suffering might seem to you like a safe place to be at. As long as you clearly suffer more than others, there is no way that you can judge yourself as guilty. And if you judge yourself as guilty, you will believe that you are undeserving of love. So suffering might help you to appreciate yourself more, or be less hard on yourself"

So post leap this is what Aryan is going to be all about

@italics

If that's the case then Ghonchu should improvise more scenes or even help the CVs.

@bold

Yeah it gives them the right to say - "Dard sirf tumhe nahi mujhe bhi huya hai. Pal pal hum bhi maare hai."

God's know what post leap Aryan will bring out. Hopefully something good

Originally posted by: wasra

@bold: yeah u r right @dyuqueen ji, we will have to wait for ASR's monologs to know ki uske side of story kya hai, it was all about Imlie today.

@italic: i don't trust the writers, it looked more like FK's improvisation😆

@underline: regarding precap i stumbled on a beautiful insight today, lol i was so curious went on to do some research here it is:

"Sometimes people feel guilty for simply feeling good. If you are very sensitive to feeling guilty, suffering might seem to you like a safe place to be at. As long as you clearly suffer more than others, there is no way that you can judge yourself as guilty. And if you judge yourself as guilty, you will believe that you are undeserving of love. So suffering might help you to appreciate yourself more, or be less hard on yourself"

So post leap this is what Aryan is going to be all about

Well, they need to redeem the guy! We'll wait for their perspective on why Aru acted like he did. Aur kya hi Kar sakthe hain!

@red: Aree mujhe bhi laga 🤣 chalo it's okay, I'm happy he atleast felt the urge to stop! I was sure writers aisa likhenge ki Aryan khud Imlie ko darwaza thak chodke aayega!

Originally posted by: missFiesty_69

Okay I'm being harsh I see. Chalo he's getting depressed seeing the baby's death whenever he sees imlie. But he could have asked for space/ some breathing time, he could have shifted to a different room! Couples aksar aise karte hain.

He's basically guilt tripping her by saying zindagi bhar iss dukh ko yaad karungi, thamlo mera haath?! Wtf ?

Atleast he could have stopped her from leaving the house at night. Kam se kam.

They didn't touch aryan for 200+ episodes but they butchered him to bring their so called leap so that they could bring baacha..

I'm disappointed yaar. Separation karna zaroori that for story maana but usko itna to butcher na karte. Uska core hi damage kar diya.

Till yday it was fine bcz he showed signs of classic defense mechanism projection but aaj to use sab MLs jaisa bana diya..

They did dirty to my aru.

Originally posted by: DyuQueen

@italics

If that's the case then Ghonchu should improvise more scenes or even help the CVs.

@bold

Yeah it gives them the right to say - "Dard sirf tumhe nahi mujhe bhi huya hai. Pal pal hum bhi maare hai."

God's know what post leap Aryan will bring out. Hopefully something good

This is nonsense 🤣 sorry but what??! Abbey she didn't leave the house, you asked her to ! Reason chhahe jo ho!

Fir what pal pal maare hai hum 🙃 maare to dono hai!

Originally posted by: missFiesty_69

This is nonsense 🤣 sorry but what??! Abbey she didn't leave the house, you asked her to ! Reason chhahe jo ho!

Fir what pal pal maare hai hum 🙃 maare to dono hai!

We know that but our lovely CVs doesn't, so they may play this angle.

The CVs from time to time, suffers from selective case of amnesia. So might try to portray Bechara ML, and Mahanta ki Murat FL

Originally posted by: sheen97

They didn't touch aryan for 200+ episodes but they butchered him to bring their so called leap so that they could bring baacha..

I'm disappointed yaar. Separation karna zaroori that for story maana but usko itna to butcher na karte. Uska core hi damage kar diya.

Till yday it was fine bcz he showed signs of classic defense mechanism projection but aaj to use sab MLs jaisa bana diya..

They did dirty to my aru.

Bro I won't even accept that AKT comment. Par chalo, Even that can be explained as heat of the moment pe kuch bhi keh diya. But seeing her leave the house and not stopping her, that's not done.

Do they mean to say, Woh dukh mein itna doob gaya ki usko Imlie ki dukh nazar nahi aayi. Aryan aisa nahi tha!

He's human. He can make mistakes. But this is far too much who claimed to unconditionally love her. Yeh kaisa pyaar hai ?!

Originally posted by: wasra

Are mein bhi toh yahi bol rahi thi kal DT mein:

Im not undermining their loss but yaar 1-2 SR aur karlo. Cheeku cheeki cheeka sab aa jayenge

@bold: ye baat koi ASR ko samjhaega? Cheeku wapis chahiye toh wifey ka bhi saath hona zaroori uske liye. I don't think Imaliya ko koi problem honi thi ASR ko doosra Cheeku dene ke liye But nhi Cheeku chala gaya, isliye tum bhi chali jao kyunki tum cheeku ki yaad dilaogi seriously? I thought ASR was an MBA.

Ye dekho, italics mein, ajeeb reason hai bhai separation ka🤪

I don't know yar.

But thing is every person deals with loss differently. Some people are not able to overcome loss of child and try for another one, they think it's being disloyal to their first child.

Also, once a child comes in equation the the dynamics of couple changes, as child becomes first priority.

Aryan thought chiku is not her first priority, and he wouldn't have minded that probably but the loss drove him mad because of his past trauma of losing loved ones.

He was very cruel with words whether he meant them or not, or whatever his intentions behind them. So imlie is justified in leaving too. I wouldn't want to stay another moment with such a person.

Baaki speculation karne ka Mera mindset nahi hai abhi too much pain

Originally posted by: missFiesty_69

Well, they need to redeem the guy! We'll wait for their perspective on why Aru acted like he did. Aur kya hi Kar sakthe hain!

@red: Aree mujhe bhi laga 🤣 chalo it's okay, I'm happy he atleast felt the urge to stop! I was sure writers aisa likhenge ki Aryan khud Imlie ko darwaza thak chodke aayega!

@bold:- lol agar aisa hota aaj TT pe sab muskan ko tag karke likhte Mam zara Aryan ko hume handover kardo hum swayam apne hatho se usko goli mar dete hai🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Param-Sundari

I don't know yar.

But thing is every person deals with loss differently. Some people are not able to overcome loss of child and try for another one, they think it's being disloyal to their first child.

Also, once a child comes in equation the the dynamics of couple changes, as child becomes first priority.

Aryan thought chiku is not her first priority, and he wouldn't have minded that probably but the loss drove him mad because of his past trauma of losing loved ones.

He was very cruel with words whether he meant them or not, or whatever his intentions behind them. So imlie is justified in leaving too. I wouldn't want to stay another moment with such a person.

Baaki speculation karne ka Mera mindset nahi hai abhi too much pain

I agree with you. Every person deal with same incident differently. Some can overcome things faster than others. And one thing I believe if can't remember/respect each others bottom line it's better to be separated atleast for awhile. Sometimes being away from each other gives us a better perspective of things.

Let's just wait and watch it unfolds.