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Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

We know the problem statement.

This is the worry ALL parents have right from their teens and not just of girls but parents in general.

Whether its Growing up children, in their teens, college going:

Worried about their company, habits, worried about their eagerness to explore.

Our parents worried for us, we worry for our children.

What is the possible solution?

Clearly restrictions will only make them more rebellious and reckless. Genuine question.

Originally posted by: radhika_2001

Jis ghar mein ladki ek ladke ke sath room mein akele payi jaaye us ldki ko kaun trust krega? Upar se ek ladke ke liye vo family ki baat nhi maan rhi..uski Maa ne bola andar jao,nhi gyi, baap ne bola andar jaao, nahi gyi, ladke ne bola to ek hi baar mein maan gyi...Milna hai to family ke saamne milo, koi nahi rok raha but milne ke liye agar bache ghar pe jhooth bolkr jaayein to it's a bad thing. Agar apke ghar mein apke bache ya bhai behen aapsejhooth bolkr jayenge to apko kaisa lagega? This shows that these two cannot be trusted jo itna smjhane ke baad bhi akele milne aaye hain. Kalko kuch oonch neech ho gayi, to society kisko blame karegi? Pakhi ko..USA mein aap kisise bhi milo koi fark nahi padta kyunki koi aapko nahi dekh rha..lekin India mein jahan rehte ho, mohalle wale, nukkad wale dekhte hain jaan pehchaan hoti h neighbourhood mein..jaise bolte hain CCTV hi smjh lo..gharwale bolenge na ki college bolkar gyi thi, vahan kya kr rahi hai? aur vaise bhi India mein adult ka age 21 h ladkiyon ke liye sirf India se baahar 18 hai..so according to Indian law she still is a child.

Didi, unko jhooth bolna padh raha hai kyunki unko bacchon ki tarah treat kiya ja raha hai. Samjhaya kya, order de diya, jabardasti ki. Yeh kis bhasha mai samjhana hua? Slaves ki tarah treat kar rahe order de kar, adults ki tarah two way baatein kahan ho rahi

And in the end jitna bhi parents bole, decisions adults ka khud hona chahiye

Trust is a two way street. Aur ooch neech kya hota hai behna, that also happens when parents are not open with their kids. If they are open, talk about precautions, safe sex, then these things won't happen. Age for sex in india is still 18 btw

Aur yaar aaj ke jamane mai nukkad walo ke bare mai sochoge to kya jiyoge aur kya jeene doge.

I think abhi india mai yeh soch is minority. No one cares kaun kya karta hai, neighbors don't care, parents are more open minded. Most of india has moved on and is still moving on. There is still a minority which thinks like that but their numhers are reducing. Also it varies state wise, states with less education and more poverty has regressive thinking but most states in india have become very open minded. Yeh serials hi atki hui hai purane soch mai

which parent follows kids to college canteen

in college girls boys nteract and sit and have dates in canteen or hotel

no parent follows kids like anupama and vanraj

another kid would have thrown tantrums at such behaviour

none of our parents ever came to school forget colleges only if teacher called they came that very rare once in 5 years may be

after 4th std no one from family comes to leave or pick up from school too except rarely on some occasion

what is this constant following daughter to college leaving her

no wonder shes trying to run off to kapadias family

sara does not get stalked by parents although shes 21-22 years same as pakhi

in college trips boys girls sleep in same room

this is more 1970s behaviour not after 2000s

nowadays kids will never accept such beh of parents atleast in big metro's at 13 years forget 20. At 20 years they behave 40 years so independent and do everything alone

one kid i know 7 year old kids refuse to allow parents to drop her to school shes so independent shes 7 year acts like 30 year old no way can parent stalk her like this or she will scream at them

which century is anupama serial from 16th century or what?

In 1990s and 2000s no parent would do like this forget 2022

People are saying 18 years is child sorry at 18 you can marry and have babies girl kids. Age of marraige is 18 years not 21 years

In 1990s 18 year old was 18 years old

in 2022 18 year old is 30-35 year old they have so much exposure in life

Please watch serial yeh hai chahtein there ruhi and saransh behave like 30 year old at 5 year and 10 year are highly independent and run off here there without saying parents. Thats more like 2022 behaviour of kids forget 20 year olds

In 2000-2010 college kids would hide 40% life of college and outside

In 2022 most parents do not know 80% activity of their college kids above 17 years its

In 2010-2022 kids hide 80% from parents never say anything only 20% they inform truth rest 80% they hide or lie as they do not want parents stalking them like vanraj and anupama all hidden or lies

nowadays boys of daughters (school or college) come to girl home for party or weekend get together freely no restrictions as such unlike 1990s and early 2000s

anupama vanraj and anuj behaviour is more 1970s not 2022 tleast in cities atleast

Originally posted by: radhika_2001

Yes that’s exactly what they are showing. Who knows maybe we will see Adhik having a change of heart after getting to know Anu more and realize what he is thinking (the unspoken agenda to manipulate Pakhi) is wrong. As we know Vanraj is disaster creator and Anu is disaster management.

How? By following them? Now that they met outside, will they track them both?

Is this lessons learnt from Paritosh-Kinjal's college love story?

So, was that wrong?

Today legal marriageable age for both boys and girls is 21 years.

So, if Pakhi waits for some time and elopes with Adhik just like Paritosh-Kinjal, what will Anupama or Vanraj do? Infact, Anupama will be forced to accept just like she accepted Paritosh-Kinjal.

Point I am trying to drive is, we ALL, naturally try to do what we are asked Not to do, especially parents and especially at that age. They won't be in a frame of mind to understand.