Bollywood CC #78 - Page 78

Originally posted by: Donnybrook

I do not know you. Nor have I interacted with you. But your tone with Xeta in the last few pages, and the other member came across as personal. Again, in my opinion.

Yes, it is problematic because this a public forum. Furthermore, the atmosphere of this forum right now makes it problematic - where anything that is not what someone thinks should be part of Hinduism is termed Hinduphobic. And because this is not a religion forum, it's Bollywood. No one comes here to "taught" about religion. If someone asks, yes. This forum invites a vast array of people with different religions, so it is best to stop talking about it and keep it Bollywood forum.

Ya right Hindus which are the most tolerant are now the most rigid right.. we are calling for beheading of members here, right... right!? Calling members to respect Hinduism is problematic now? I guess we need to inspect on what is problematic. I didnt meant teach religion here.. but if someone mocks a religion they better be told.

Keep it Bollywood forum I agree on that. Why people want to comment., dissect and mock hindu festivals like Raksha Bandhan and Kanyadan tell me again., why are those thread allowed?

Originally posted by: Donnybrook

I am sorry, but I find you going to each topic and saying everything is anti-Hindu comes across as very problematic. You started by mocking her. While I agree, she should not mock your writing style, you still mocked her. Two wrongs do not make a right. If her posts are causing you to become angry, report them. There is no need to get personal

here anti Hindu threads in guise of bw topics only are allowed so called on it . No , she quoted me many times n attacked n I tried to tell in polite way but she don’t understand the civil , polite Lang . Here She just accusing others n acting , so just shown her d mirror n she can’t see herself n tats her prob .

What we all need:

Originally posted by: Zeal17

Ya right Hindus which are the most tolerant are now the most rigid right.. we are calling for beheading of members here, right... right!? Calling members to respect Hinduism is problematic now? I guess we need to inspect on what is problematic. I didnt meant teach religion here.. but if someone mocks a religion they better be told.

Keep it Bollywood forum I agree on that. Why people want to comment., dissect and mock hindu festivals like Raksha Bandhan and Kanyadan tell me again., why are those thread allowed?

It's not about Hindus being tolerant or any other religion. It's about humans being tolerant and respectful of others. I skimmed over the topic where a member said something about beheading - and most members called that member out. One of the members who is very liberal, told her off quite rightfully. So where is the problem?? Members need to respect each and every religion. If someone mocks a religion, you report it and not engage.

That is why there are mods - to make sure rules get followed. It is not up to you or I to tell members what to do. We can only request that something not be done. If they do not listen, report and not engage. I will die saying this, but there is absolutely no justification to become personal - no matter how strongly you feel about any religion.

I was born into Sikh faith, and I was quite offended by someone blanketing every Sikh a Khalistani. However, I chose not to get personal and sit there and try to teach my faith to ignorant people. Because it is not worth it. My faith is much stronger than that.

Dissection of topics is not a bad thing - people are allowed opinions. Not matching your opinion does not mean it is mocking. However, if it is truly being mocked then it should be banned and taken up with the mods.

Originally posted by: Medha_Sree

here anti Hindu threads in guise of bw topics only are allowed so called on it . No , she quoted me many times n attacked n I tried to tell in polite way but she don’t understand the civil , polite Lang . Here She just accusing others n acting , so just shown her d mirror n she can’t see herself n tats her prob .

Then report her. Again, two rights do not make a right. Absolutely no reason for anyone to get personal

Originally posted by: Medha_Sree

Ppl here ganging up n mocking my writing style n u also join them n laughing , give advise to self n others also who trolling ,bullying by mocking my writing style since ages like broken record . Have issue when confronted d bullies .

Medha shree,

I have supported you in the past when I felt like you were being mocked for the writing style thing, but no one is ganging up on you now.

In fact, I see you continuously calling Chameli billi anti hindu, hinduphobic, tharki and what not when I have never seen her making such remarks.

And It's so bizarre to read some of the things here. No one needs any "guiding" on how to be a sanatani the "right" way. like GEEEZZ. That's super cringey to even read yar.

Originally posted by: Donnybrook

Then report her. Again, two rights do not make a right. Absolutely no reason for anyone to get personal

Give advise to self n to her .u ppl went personal n ve no right to advise when shown mirror , own it n ask apologies n be better humans .

Originally posted by: Medha_Sree

Give advise to self n to her .u ppl went personal n ve no right to advise when shown mirror , own it n ask apologies n be better humans .

I did not go personal with you. However, I do not wish to engage with you again.

Originally posted by: Donnybrook

It's not about Hindus being tolerant or any other religion. It's about humans being tolerant and respectful of others. I skimmed over the topic where a member said something about beheading - and most members called that member out. One of the members who is very liberal, told her off quite rightfully. So where is the problem?? Members need to respect each and every religion. If someone mocks a religion, you report it and not engage.

That is why there are mods - to make sure rules get followed. It is not up to you or I to tell members what to do. We can only request that something not be done. If they do not listen, report and not engage. I will die saying this, but there is absolutely no justification to become person - no matter how strongly you feel about any religion.

I was born into Sikh faith, and I was quite offended by someone blanketing every Sikh a Khalistani. However, I chose not to get personal and sit there and try to teach my faith to ignorant people. Because it is not worth it. My faith is much stronger than that.

Dissection of topics is not a bad thing - people are allowed opinions. Not matching your opinion does not mean it is mocking. However, if it is truly being mocked then it should be banned and taken up with the mods.

It's easier than it appears. Who is saying debating and discussing topics is bad? Everyone's perspective is welcomed as long as it is respectful. That's it, that's what I've been asking the whole time.

Even today, I merely stated that Chameli's posts are condescending to Medha Shree, prompting her to respond with retaliatory posts. I just said to Chameli to tone it down and be respectful.

I have been here long enough to see both of them posting, and "according to me," Medha Shree does not respond until she is mocked and provoked and Chameli is known for throwing attitude.

Originally posted by: Zeal17

It's easier than it appears. Who is saying debating and discussing topics is bad? Everyone's perspective is welcomed as long as it is respectful. That's it, that's what I've been asking the whole time.

Even today, I merely stated that Chameli's posts are condescending to Medha Shree, prompting her to respond with retaliatory posts. I just said to Chameli to tone it down and be respectful.

I have been here long enough to see both of them posting, and "according to me," Medha Shree does not respond until she is mocked and provoked and Chameli is known for throwing attitude.

And who died and made you the hall monitor, boy? Seriously your need to appear unbiased is starting to get really old now.