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Posted: 3 years ago
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Today was the first day I felt .. pakhi played well .. i see the episodes and then post my thoughts .. without reading to others view ..




Today I felt .pakhi’s intentions were wrong .. but what she was doing right now was not wrong .. I applauded her ..


in the beginning we see everyone in Chavan niwas behaving maturely ..

ashwini talking with Sai .. and they talk of counselling and we also see Sai n virat finally start to talk to each other . They have Made a start if discussing their loss .. why did they buy so many toys ..


We also had a conversation between the 3 oldies .. they were discussing the Pros n cons of surrogacy , adoption and second marriage ..typically Ho hum .. Bk is clear she wants a baby .. and she wants it between Sai n virat . Then I feel why was she making a mess in the initial days .. tabhi karwa lena chahiye tha



Sai n virat are thankfully back in their bedroom.. and discussing that samrat’s birthday…. Virat wants to let it pass 🤮.. but Sai thankfully is against it .. and also talks of bringing back pakhi n Mansi Bua .. as they had promised samrat dada




Now my question is what if they had not promised samrat dada .. still did they not owe mansi n pakhi



now we get pakhi entering the house with MB ..

bk is totally against it . There I felt BK was very very wrong and the housemembers were equally crass … That family has just lost their son ( husband) and you are throwing them out .. yes pakhi did wrong zzz but she should have been stopped when she started badmouthing . That time Sonali n Kaku listened to her trash zz and after they lost the baby . They threw her out .

Frankly throwing her out was too much .. they should have counseled her mother .. told them pakhi has her life . Why you want to make her lead a life of a widow .. let her move back with you and begin her life again ..

The way they did it was very very crass

Today pakhi came back with wrong intentions .. but what she said was totally right .. she told Bk the truth .. whatever she said


the point is not whether pakhi is right or wrong . If samrat n Mansi had a stake in the house then pakhi n Mansi cannot be thrown out when samrat is dead . It is downright wicked ..

Also it was wrong of virat n Sai both .. that they did not go to bring her back .. samrat lost his life trying to save Sai and yes Sai was not at fault .. but the net result .. MB lost her son and pakhi lost her husband ( never mind she did not love him ) the least virat could have done Is keep them back in the house and support them financially forever .

the way Chavan folks .. omi , bk and Sonali were discussing pros n cons of calling police was very very crass and pakhi understands them but they hurt Mansi .. very very badly . Who talks like this



Pakhi played it well she has entered the house on wrong intentions .. but .. her entry as samrat’s wife with her mother in law plus her right to stay on in the house is not wrong .. today it’s is even more right than what it was was 2-3 years ago ..

because samrat had accepted that marriage .. and he lost his life in a tragic accident .

chavannis proved woh kisi key bhi sagey nahi hai .. a person like samrat who gave up his life to save Sai .. was an anomaly .. really in the family


I felt patralekha played her cards well .. her points were clear .. she knows she has nothing to lose any more and a lot to gain .. right now she’s playing it like Sai .. so Sai is getting impressed with her .. even ashwini .

So long she stakes claim as samrat’s heir ( widow is too sad ) she is not doing anything wrong .. and she should be supported .. but when she stakes claim on virat ( Sai ‘s husband ) she’s wrong





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Posted: 3 years ago
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I feel bad for Mansi, people around her are playing games and she is the one who has to suffer

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Posted: 3 years ago
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I don't watch the show anymore ..however I had read Pakhi wanted to kick Sai out after Sam's death. who is she to say who can stay and who can go? Sai is Virat's wife and she has more rights to Chavan Niwas. Pakhi cannot sak Sai to leave No excuse . And i don't believe Sai owes anything to Pakhi Or even Mansi bua. Sam was in the army ...he could have easily lost his life on the field. who would Pakhi blame in that case? I am sure even than she would have blamed Sai.


Pakhi has done nothing good. She has 0 good will towards Sai and even Virat . In my opinion she is better of staying away from Chavans.


In my opinion she cannot claim Sam's inheritance either. She had 6 yr of marriage with him, and she has never never treated him like her pati. Her eye has always been Virat. And because Sai is Virat's wife Pakhi has made her life a living Hell. She has not even once considered Sai's pain or emotional state.


I am a very forgiving person ....but Pakhi has not committed a mistake....she has committed multiple Crimes and she would not have blinked an eye or shed tears has Sai been the one who died that unfaithful day. She would in that case have not wasted her time to be with Virat under the pretext of comfort.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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See this happens .. because she herself did not take charge .. she had lost her husband at an early stage .. then raised her son with the help of her brother .. trained him to be an army officer. .

somehow she failed in his the importance of financial security.. when samrat left his mother at the mercy of her family .. it should have rung a bell to her when he came back .. how wrong he was ..if he was uncomfortable With P .. should have helped him get a divorce .. but should have made sure to make him earn a decent living .. get a house in her name .. the way samrat was not earning something .. had retired .. all these things invariably played it into the hands of omi n bk ..

they are being mean .. but they are not wrong .. because medical expenses cripple a family they may not want to support Mb abd pakhi forever n forever


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Posted: 3 years ago
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Ideally speaking, if they want to honour Samrat's wishes, Sai & Virat should get Mansi bua back to CN. Ask Pakhi's parents to take her back, and commit to helping Pakhi get back on her feet - & move on - in whatever way that is required. And never ever agree to Pakhi being surrogate to their child - that will only bind her more.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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What pakhi did was wrong .. trying to throw Sai out of the house .. and Bk stopped her


But her right to the house cannot be questioned.. because samrat whether she slept with him or not considered her as his wife .. even in his dying breath ..

she was his heir .. and it was crass of the family to throw her out with his mother m


yes they could have done it diplomatically.. they could have told pakhi .. you can stay but you have to be financially independent .. you can go ..all samrat’s saving will go towards you . And they could have also said why do you want to lead a life of widow.. go back to your old single life ..it was wrong on samrat’s memory and though this is very common . When the widow with kids are thrown out of the in laws house .

This thing had happened with Mansi and she saw the same being done with pakhi n herself


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Yes taking her as a surrogate is very very wrong .. they should not even consider it .. looking at past history .. no sensible person should .. why samrat’s wishes .. didn’t Mb and pakhi had a right before that in the house . If samrat had not been brought back by Sai weren’t mb n pakhi living on in the house ..

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: msin

See this happens .. because she herself did not take charge .. she had lost her husband at an early stage .. then raised her son with the help of her brother .. trained him to be an army officer. .

somehow she failed in his the importance of financial security.. when samrat left his mother at the mercy of her family .. it should have rung a bell to her when he came back .. how wrong he was ..if he was uncomfortable With P .. should have helped him get a divorce .. but should have made sure to make him earn a decent living .. get a house in her name .. the way samrat was not earning something .. had retired .. all these things invariably played it into the hands of omi n bk ..

they are being mean .. but they are not wrong .. because medical expenses cripple a family they may not want to support Mb abd pakhi forever n forever


Couldn't agree more, she should have taken charge of her personal finances, if not anything else.

She allowed BK to take charge of everything, which was so so wrong, even after you have seen this people from these many years. She let BK dictate her and her son's life all this while.

Shivani and Mansi should legally claim their rights(if that's possible).

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Posted: 3 years ago
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From what I remember Shivani had once blamed BK na... That the reason she supports P is because keeping P in the house ensures Sam's money stays in the house.

This is before he came back from Mahabaleshwar.


That makes sense but it also doesn't make sense for Sam or the Army to consider P as his wife when he stayed with her just for a day... So they must not have even registered the marriage officially 😂. And Army doesn't accept this verbal communication 🤣


But itna logic inse koun expect karega??? Mansi should be the nominee as per his official records. Her staying in CN is her right. P can stay but not with the haq she expects to be.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Ideally speaking, if they want to honour Samrat's wishes, Sai & Virat should get Mansi bua back to CN. Ask Pakhi's parents to take her back, and commit to helping Pakhi get back on her feet - & move on - in whatever way that is required. And never ever agree to Pakhi being surrogate to their child - that will only bind her more.


Yes only Mansi bua should be back.

If P stays n CN she can never move on. She will be interested in rights in all forms etc.


They should give her share of money etc and ask her to move on. And her mother also wants that only. So they should support her mother.

Mansi Bua also came back to her maternal house after her husband left her.

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