Why is Aryan confiding in or believing Jyo? - Page 2

Originally posted by: rekha02

I believe in yest episode, when Jyo was acting to show grief over her delusional mind that Imlie was finished, Aryan made his entry with a sad face saying I don't know what to do . Immediately a thought came to my mind, he is acting. Today it strengthened. There is no scope for doubt, fears related Imlie , there is only scope for old friend to doubt now. His initial talk of Imlies gut feeling correct about him even when he was lying was bang on. How can he distrust Imlies feeling since she can't be wrong now about her village friend. So he has to doubt his old friend as yes Imlie can be cheated by people she has trusted her ex-husband, sister now the female who she brought home and called a friend. Last time Aryan was wrong about his revenge. This time he can't be as the third udhaar is really not on Madhav but his old friend. Just an opinion. I can be wrong but it does pain him to do this act even before Imlie.

That dance done by Jo was witnessed by Arpita and we don't know what Aryan did about the shooting that happened targeting Imlie. Now even Madhav is targetted. Aryan can ignore both

Aryan should seriously look into the shooting matter and as Madhav is targeted he should clearly feel the wrong pieces because it is obvious that someone is trying to frame him by attacking Madhav. So may be a little hope that if he opens up his brilliant mind and think that his reports could have been manipulated both the times and he tries to do another test. Even if he doesn't suspect Jo he can be sure that whoever did this is from RM he also knows the intelligence level of BD and BM so eventually sui ka kata Jo baba pe aana hai.

Ever since the Surpita track started, everything has been on a FF mode and CVs are taking things forward without any buildup. Take the case of Sundar-Arpita marriage. They didn't even give an explanation of why Ts were missing in Surpita's marriage, which indeed was an insult to the artists who ran the show for almost 1year. Surpita's marriage was one of important tracks which many of us had expected to be an opportunity for Arylie to revisit all the functions together and wholeheartedly. Instead what we got? Direct jump to their marriage. Next was Jyo's track. Instead of giving us a buildup on Aryan-Jyo relationship they directly gave us Jyo's entry and bringing her directly to RM in the same episode. Just like how the viewers were left to guess SR happened just because Aryan found Imlie hot, it was left to us to guess that Aryan & Jyo were not just casual friends by few hints - 1.Aryan went for a hug on meeting Jyo, instead of a handshake, ruling out the awkward factor 2. He gifted her Arpita's earrings during their college days 3. Jyo's words that she was praying for Aryan to get the best life partner, implying to Aryan that even though he didn't keep up their friendship, she did. 4. Aryan requesting her help in setting up the tree date for Imlie whereas he could have gone for Arpita's help when she herself had arranged their previous date. It's because we know Jyo's motives that we are not being able to see her as his friend and accept their closeness. Aryan doesn't know her motives.

Now, coming to why discussing his infertility condition with Jyo, it's her who came to know about the mismatch that happened in the hospital with the first report; Aryan still doesn't know about this mismatch that had happened. Watch the below link

https://twitter.com/i/status/1531807083665973249

Aryan, once he received the mismatched report, went for a second test w/o informing anyone, whose report was delivered home which again Jyo managed to change and as he opened it in front of her, she came to know about it. Maybe this he could have avoided; but then CVs have to take the story forward. So, they decided to bring a dent in Aryan being a private person. And since it is shown Jyo already came to know about the condition and since hints have been given to show that there is no awkwardness in their friendship, I don't find it wrong in him sharing his thoughts with her. Also, the thing he is discussing mostly with Jyo is mostly related to Imlie's safety/protection; I doubt whether Jyo's constant rant 'Tu baap nahin ban sakta' does reach his ear. Because his mind is now completely occupied by Imlie being violated and how to give her justice for it. He wouldn't have fallen prey to Jyo's manipulation that easily, if Imlie and Madhav hadn't lied about what happened on the string operation day. Hence, Imlie too is equally responsible for the pit he has fallen into now. The only wrong moves I have a problem with Aryan is with the way he put everything in public before discussing with Imlie and hiding Jyo's name today from Imlie when she asked him if anyone else was involved. Because, these 2moves can cost Aryan a lot once Imlie exposes Jyo in front of him.

Regarding him not following up the shootout incident and attack on Madhav, I will wait for tomorrow's episode before commenting on it.

Originally posted by: MrinalR

Though you have said it perfectly well when Aryan talks about anything with Jo I loose my mind . But yes he can share certain things with friend. My only issue with him is someone like him who is overprotective of his family has not done any checks on the bedroom fire or tree house collapse or even attack on Imlie when she was with children. Something should have triggered there. He can be blind at times, he can be a mess too but it is hard to believe that he has not sensed the abnormalities going around him. The wedge between the couple is not a foreign issue for him they have had this kind of situation before, stand against each other while going forward with their belief but here again doesn't Aryan know about Imlie's instinct? When he was having revenge syndrom back with AKT he was open minded and has helped Imlie even though he believed that searching for the truth is futile. So the way he is blind again as he feels guilt that he couldn't protect Imlie can't he trust Imlie again blindly? I seriously don't know what I am writing. I hope I make sense.

Bold - That's a sensible question w.r.to Aryan, especially when he was shown to get a clue of what Malini was up to with that smoke inhalation plan to kill Imlie, just with the way Malini was watching them the very same morning. Hence, I will just blame the writers for making Aryan look dumb with not even giving him a monologue where we could see him feeling suspicious about all these incidents. At least that much they could have done to justify his overprotective nature. 😔

Originally posted by: Enlightened21

Bold - That's a sensible question w.r.to Aryan, especially when he was shown to get a clue of what Malini was up to with that smoke inhalation plan to kill Imlie, just with the way Malini was watching them the very same morning. Hence, I will just blame the writers for making Aryan look dumb with not even giving him a monologue where we could see him feeling suspicious about all these incidents. At least that much they could have done to justify his overprotective nature. 😔

Sab writers ki hi galti hai. Hamare Aryan babu aaisa nahi the. May be with Malini he was very alert because he knew how Malini was. Jo is his friend as the writers are trying to show them close friend so should I say it is understandable that his sensors are off.

Originally posted by: MrinalR

Sab writers ki hi galti hai. Hamare Aryan babu aaisa nahi the. May be with Malini he was very alert because he knew how Malini was. Jo is his friend as the writers are trying to show them close friend so should I say it is understandable that his sensors are off.

We are not asking them to show him doubting Jyo. What we are saying is that where was/are his sensors, when all the times Imlie's life was in danger during their Shaadi track; when the live wire from the heater was found in their bathroom; when all the recent incidents of candle fire, tree house falling, food poisoning, gas leak happened. This is just convenient writing to bring a conflict.😏 We are getting enough moments to enjoy their angst and the Khan duos fantabulous performance. I am just being happy with it.

Originally posted by: Enlightened21

We are not asking them to show him doubting Jyo. What we are saying is that where was/are his sensors, when all the times Imlie's life was in danger during their Shaadi track; when the live wire from the heater was found in their bathroom; when all the recent incidents of candle fire, tree house falling, food poisoning, gas leak happened. This is just convenient writing to bring a conflict.😏 We are getting enough moments to enjoy their angst and the Khan duos fantabulous performance. I am just being happy with it.

Angst is the only solace at the moment I think. I wish writers ke sensor on ho jaye pehle so that wo ASR ke sensor on kare. Anyway Khan duo is like bring it on even if you write nonsense we can still give power pack performances.

Originally posted by: Sona_G

Aryan and Jo were college friends and the snippet at her introduction shows he did consider her as his friend then. He seemed to have even gifted her ear rings, albeit stolen from Arpi, on her birthday. It is not like they relationship ended on a sour note, he was happy to see her and hug her in public when they met. It is not uncommon for old friends to meet after a few years and resume from where it stopped. Yes, it is gibberish that Jo mata thinks they are meant to be a couple but Aryan seem to think of her as an old friend.

In any of the infertility related discussions, he never has initiated the conversation with Jo. If an old friend whom he has no reason to distrust is offering support, that too voluntarily, why not talk to her. It is frustrating for us to watch but to me from Aryan’s point of view, there is nothing wrong.

I am loving the last few episodes, story as well as the acting but what I don’t get in all this is, what is Jo going to get from this. Aryan has made it clear he trusts Imlie. If he trusts her, he is not going to leave her and marry Jo at any cost, why then does she feed him nonsense about Madhav and keep instigating him. Even in a worst case scenario, if Imlie and Aryan split over Madhav, Aryan is not the kind who will marry Jo just to spite Imlie. Even if her plan of killing Imlie had worked, I doubt Aryan would move on and marry Jo. She is delusional at a different level.

Jo is crazy straight from asylums. Aryan can never move on even if Aryali split the one who can't move on from his Brother in law's unfortunate death will never move on if the love his life leaves him. But of course Jo is the type I can wait. Universe will grant my wish and all that nonsense.

"...It's because we know Jyo's motives that we are not being able to see her as his friend and accept their closeness. Aryan doesn't know her motives...."

enlightened21 -- again, will disagree on above 😊 like I said in my previous post, these two characters are nothing alike. so their friendship doesn't seem believable. imlie is friends with sundar and madhav and both of them seem believable. they have the same kind of vibe, the sense of humour, the way of looking at the world, the joy. jo and aryan? nothing about their characters make it seem like they were such deep friends to share anything. 🤷 I accept it as part of the story but do I buy it? nope.

Enlightenment 21 I love the way you see the positive of Aryan always. I would like you to continue the same.

Distance and time do grow people apart. From my personal experience, same love will be there but not comfort to this extent. On top his life has gone through a lot of changes hence the connection would have been lost. I live away from my family, I still love them as much but us sharing our issues isn't there. We just grew apart.

The fact gifting ear ring, I think Aryan was carefree in those days and he is rich, it doesn't hold a lot of value. Also I take it as winding up Arpita and stole the earring more than the affection or any kind of feeling towards Jo. Otherwise he would have bought a new, not gift his sister's, unless it has a sentimental value. Prayers might mean something (although I felt it's more being grateful toward Imilie than importance to Jo, he didn't even believe her beliefs) but not a close relationship, not even of a friendship. Hugging a long lost friend isn't a big deal. I hug my husband's, my brother's friends doesn't mean they are close. Just a formal hug. It didn't give me a close friend vibe neither he felt any excitement seeing her, just a formal hug. If I can remember, at the beginning he didn't even want to share any of his feelings towards Imilie, his life since college days with Jo. He was uncomfortable and cut it straight.

Even if we avoid what Mango falooda is saying about similarities. Friends don't have to be similar. Even if we take the fact Aryan doesn't know the real Jo and only the audience know her. Still leaving the fact they are friends, I can't accept the fact he is talking about infertility, still if I give that in. The fact he is talking, in a way accepting to Jo (an outsider, third person) that he doubt it's not his baby doesn't fit the fact that he accepts the baby as his due to Imilie, doesn't convince me that it doesn't affect whose the biological father is but he is happy to be the father for the love of Imilie. For me, still he is putting his love of life's dignity at stake and the child who he says is willing to be the father to. How is he protecting both of them? If the fact his wife is violated but not her virtue is his issue then he should be more catious in accepting that he doubts even Madav. He is not only talking about Madav here, it's Imilie as well. And she's repeatedly telling him it hurts her. I expect him to be over protective of her dignity especially after all the torture she has gone through in recent days just because she was said to be infertile. I would be amazed to see it as his internal conflict but not spoken out to someone, I mean to say even if it's his own family then Jo is no-one. If anything not only Aryan but many men would find it difficult to say it out loud. Especially out of all these days, Jo was initiating the convo, but today it felt as Aryan. He came home with tears. The Aryan I know would mask well also he listens more and doesn't normally give away what he feels. Even with Imilie till the confession. His talks are always in riddles or shor or udhar. Today he really talked as if he is talking to himself. I am not sure if I have clearly written what I feet. This will cost him a lot unless it's a plan which I really doubt.

I still can take the fact Imilie lied as childish, one that she's always been like this, second she doesn't even know what is brewing up. She doesn't want to make him stress about her. She's in her character. Having said this doesn't mean I agree with what she has done.

I am happy to take all these for the story to move forward. I am not complaining. It's hard to keep all perfect in itv/daily show. I am Just saying in analysis perspective. I think the way Aryan has been written, our expectations of him is high. Still in real life these things aren't spoken to anyone, not even a close friend, especially the way Aryan was shown to love Imilie.