Happening thread - Page 2

You know EXACTLY how to make it happening. Just need to tag the right people. I will sit back and relax. 😆

Originally posted by: Chameli_billi

Well…make it happening. Don’t just stand there

😂 OMG we’re resuming the discussion here. Was this intentional and I’m just being slow. Can someone tag all the people from that thread (minus the OP and the sensible members who will make it close again).

Originally posted by: iBleedPink

So, basically, I wanted to say in the thread that got closed that you can't have your cake and eat it too.

You can't say something nasty and then disown that part of yourself the next day with a cop-out as convenient as "I was drunk, that's not me" to convince people that you're all peaches and cream. Especially when you've made comments along the same lines before in your "sober" state as well.

The good, the bad and the ugly -- that's all of us cuz we're all multidimensional. No one's a saint, and whoever wants to pass themselves off as a saint even after saying not-so-saintly things needs to be smacked some sense into. As an adult, you need to take ownership of everything you say and do.

To be fair, however, I do think she was ganged up on and the outrage was totally disproportionate compared to the "crime" and that might have intimidated her and pushed her into apologizing to "redeem" herself in Lord-knows-who's eyes.

That's the post mortem analysis I was itching to post but the thread was locked. Thank you, Chameli.

Originally posted by: HearMeRoar

The personal comments on her were totally uncalled for and were much worse than what she did because it was directed toward someone they knew at least online.

With re: apology, i said what I wanted to in the threads. I started out by saying as long as HR loves Saba, it doesn't matter what others said. The response was *I highly doubt that* because *love is a heavy word.* That answer, combined with prior shenanigans suggesting HR communicating with her etc., is a sign of a problem waiting to happen. Fun and games for others, but it sounds like Minty is taking it seriously.

I'm not denying how delusional, annoying and obnoxious this phantom lover syndrome has all gotten. They continue to deny a problem that's evident to everyone here, what can we do or say to snap them out of it? A real intervention is in order, I think, but that's unfortunately not up to us. So we're stuck with these lame discussions when the forum is lacking action. 😶

The best strategy to avoid closure is to create the most un clickbaiting and boring title/topic that you just know won’t get any traction and tag only the people you want to debate/fight with and the audience you want whom aren’t going to snitch. I’m peaceful so I won’t debate but please tag me.

Originally posted by: Chameli_billi

You’re welcome. Now I’m quoting you just as a fail safe mechanism in case mods decide to delete/close/trash this thread too.

Originally posted by: Sorein

😂 OMG we’re resuming the discussion here. Was this intentional and I’m just being slow. Can someone tag all the people from that thread (minus the OP and the sensible members who will make it close again).

The post was intentional my end cuz I really wanted to say it in that thread earlier but was tied up at work. By the time I freed up a lil, it was already locked.

If anyone has any follow up comments on it, please feel free...... I'm sure that'll go a long way towards making this party happening. 🤭

I don’t have any follow up comment but I shared a suggestion below on a way to avoid getting this thread closed again. Hope this helps 🤗on

Originally posted by: iBleedPink

The post was intentional my end cuz I really wanted to say it in that thread earlier but was tied up at work. By the time I freed up a lil, it was already locked.

If anyone has any follow up comments on it, please feel free...... I'm sure that'll go a long way towards making this party happening. 🤭

Originally posted by: Sorein

The best strategy to avoid closure is to create the most un clickbaiting and boring title/topic that you just know won’t get any traction and tag only the people you want to debate/fight with and the audience you want whom aren’t going to snitch. I’m peaceful so I won’t debate but please tag me.

WHY ARE YOU HERE? 🥺 We haven’t done anything wrong yet, could you please not close it yet? ❤️❤️

Originally posted by: WildestDreams

Originally posted by: Sorein

WHY ARE YOU HERE? 🥺 We haven’t done anything wrong yet, could you please not close it yet? ❤️❤️