Chemistry - Yay or Nay? - Page 6

Hiiiii sweeties…

Not getting how to start. IDK what exactly is in my mind? Maybe I am not able to express myself clearly. But, kuchh kahe bina raha bhi nahi jaa raha.

Do you remember Slogan: “ tum mujhe khoon do, mai tumhe aajaadi doonga.

For me MaAn’s Chemistry is like:

You grind almonds, I will make almond milk

You knead the dough, I will make thepla

You dust and sweep, I will wipe the floor

you seedi pakdo, I will saaf karo fans

You papad banao, mai sukhaoonga

At dining table, Mai pahataphat bana laata hoon.

It seems now Anuj is Anupama.

According to me, 2 people, 2 diff personalities, and different identities, but Anuj is losing his identity and he behaves like a sanskari bahu. Even sanskari bahu does notdo like his. Everything seems fake and OTT.

Ghar ke kaam ke alawa exercise kar lo saath me; celebrities ke yoga poses saath mei kymast hote hai, isse acchi physical exercise kuch ho sakti hai. Double calories burn😉. Anuj ne shaadi ke baad newspaper bhi dekhna chod diya. Ab woh toh ho hi nahi sakta, Anu nahi padti na.

The chemistry before property transfer to Mukku was amazing, superb. Their eyes speak louder than words. ( Ab dono milkarparivaar par aurat par essay sunate rehte hai) . Without touch and kissingscenes, there was some magic, there was really kuch kuch hota hai waali feeling, 💛🧡💙I had butterflies in my stomach. It used to transport me to dreamy land and it was like koi fark nahi padta bahar kya ho raha hai, mast apne world mei.😍😘🥰

Maybe more than romance, I want to see a somewhat little bit close to reality or expect Anuj to behave like a normal person, not as a follower of Anupama, treating Anu as wife, not as some baby doll or his daughter. Who says to wife “princess “ , Babe, baby bolna nahi samajh mei aata toh kuch aur bol le.

Me Before

Now

Sorry, Kuch off topic ho gaya but what a relief sir jee

Originally posted by: Arshi67

Chaliye inke beech history thi aur ab geography mein saath hai 😀

Nahi behen inka saara bhugol bigda hua hai😆

Ipkknd is IPKKND. Period.

Nobody can match up with ArShi when it comes to chemistry, IMO.

When it comes to MaAn, the answer is yes and no. There is chemistry but it's the writing that is letting it down! GauRup are so good in the reels! It's not that they don't have chemistry! It's the makers obsession with dadi ki shadi/middle age/mid life crisis that is hampering the chemistry. The only thing which remained untouched with this obsession was the shayari. Ab toh unka bhi kabada kar diya! I was expecting post wedding shayaris will be more romantic! Aankhon me aankhein dalkar shayari padhi jayegi yahan pe toh man me bol rahe hain! What was that mang me sindoor hai toh haath pakadne ka haq hai crap at the beach?! It's like they deliberately don't want maAn to have sizzling chemistry. Look at the sbs/sbb holi segment. It was so hot! But they chopped off the scene. In recent episodes the car scene post wedding was amazing! But they keep oscillating Anupama between sharmana and boldness which is a major put off. So I won't blame the actors.

Originally posted by: Bol_do

But we all campaign (and court) in poetry and govern(live) in prose.

That said, I haven't seen IPKKD ( clearly my loss - shall be remedied) but as far as MaAn are concerned, the potential was always there:

But the age, maa, chabbis saal was flogged to death and somewhere we were constantly reminded of it and they too were TOOO bound by pointless shackles. Within the constraints we saw some sparks.

1) Witness the Holi scene, but I think that was the only one where both were allowed to display that "sulagti tadap". Except for this one time, she has never looked at him with that yearning, desire, passion. AK's been carrying the mantle of passion on his v able shoulders, biceps etc.

2) Him confessing his love multiple times in multiple contexts was all hot. But she didn't seem worthy of it. Because she just didn't get it and still doesn't .

3) When he takes her pallu from her waist at some function and walks her Outta the kitchen.

But again like Smita and Ali said, that was him, not them.

For me, he's been the hook and now that he is no longer allowed to play to his strengths or the character arc which is etched in our heads, the magic is gone.

It's like the pixies came and deposited some magic dust on Sep 2nd and gave us a real Prince Charming w JUSSST the right kind and quantity of machismo, humor, swag and EQ. BUT Christmas onwards, it's been downhill. I did not feel anything during the long drawn out confession (gaana, grow old, dance competition etc), shaadi karoongi hug etc.

Like Ali and Smita said, an organic evolution was never allowed. Gaurav Khanna can be a great romantic ML if paired w the right person and story.

The characters have to retain their essence and AL's has been butchered. A woman can be strong and a man can be strong alone and then together in a rship. Here the BoP is always skewed.

My two pennies in this long rant. I was upset initially w AK's track going askew but now just cudnt be bothered.

I do miss the restless wait for Sunny's review and then the long drawn out DBT.

Originally posted by: Arshi67

Ali that brings to mind something else altogether 😂

Originally posted by: SundariP

See i don't remember so can't claim now can I ? 👀

Originally posted by: BaAZiGar0

remember that black hole you were talking about the other day? 🕳 <—— here it is, please go back into it.

I'm already in a black hole, what more do you want? 🥺

Originally posted by: SundariP

I'm already in a black hole, what more do you want? 🥺

does this have anything to do with someone whose name rhymes with Bae-maan?

And I find more chemistry of RG with Sumit Raghavan (her costar from Sarabhai vs Sarabhai)..RG and GK have very less offscreen bonding...RG has very good and precious offscreen bonding with Sumit Raghavan...and GK ki offscreen bonding Paras and Nidhi ke saath bahut achi h

Originally posted by: BaAZiGar0

why? what happened to my good sis ? 😟

does this have anything to do with someone whose name rhymes with Bae-maan?

I'm in fae black hole what more do you want? Can I think of another man? 😏