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Originally posted by: Choco_mint

I only watched the first half of the episode and read the updates for second half! Guess I got clowned abhi still going to be angry on akshu! I really want to see akshu giving abhi the silent treatment next time! Obviously now Isn't the time for akshu throw a tantrum as a lot is happening in the family and it goes against her character to cause more problems! But maybe in the near future I would love see a track where she's upset with abhi and how abhi makes it up to her!

Please I love abhira and they come as a tram for me so please don't bash me picking sides 🥰

Would love that too! Abhi has been impulsive one too many times. So he does deserve this

Manjari: I totally agree that whatever Manjari’s did was wrong and does not justify the pain/suffering that neil went through for all these years. But I was just trying to think from her POV:

Scenario 1: Manjari would have revealed the truth about Neil’s identity as soon as she knew about it. At the time, Abhi and all the Birlas kids would have been too young to understand anything. Who’s to say that harsh wouldn’t just have beaten her up for accusing him of EMA and would not have thrown her out of the Birla house like he tried to do today? Would harsh have accepted neil? Would she have had Anand’s or mahima’s support? (I doubt Manjari expected them to give her any supportive since even I was surprised today by their reaction)

Result would have been- no support from anyone. Broken marriage. Most likely, harsh would have found a way to take abhi away from her. If harsh got abhi, he (abhi) would have been raised to believe all lies fed by harsh about Manjari. By any chance if she got abhi, then he would not have had the Birla background advantage, no mentor in form of tauji, no family. Abhi would have suffered most here along with Manjari due to harsh’s EMA.

Scenario 2: Manjari revealed the truth once abhi and neil were of age to understand and face the bitter reality. She could have done this, but I guess over the years everyone/ everything was settled well and she didn’t want to rile any feathers by bringing this up again.

Result would have been similar to the situation that they have on hand today. Neil would be hurt the most and everyone else too will be upset with harsh and herself for keeping a secret as big hidden from the whole family.

Manjari’s decision: whichever scenario Manjari would have chosen, she was always going to hurt someone or the other. So she chose herself, her marriage, her abhi and her family. Yes that makes her selfish but that makes her human too. But she was not heartless. She felt bad for the baby that got stuck in this mess of EMA with no fault of his. She was visiting the baby at anath ashram because she felt sympathy for him. She wanted to give love to that baby but it was not her decision to adopt neil, abhi did that and she went along with it and she did the one thing that she could do. She gave him love and care and tried to be the mother that he never had. But she could not give him family name or status.

Let’s not forget that Manjari herself is a victim of abuse. If she had the strength in her, she could have stood up for herself and all the injustices done to her by harsh. When she cannot even fight for herself, how can we expect her to stand up for Neil’s rights? Even then, she has time and again protected neil from Harsh’s anger and violence. Be it today when harsh tried beating neil with belt or be it that day when harsh tried sending neil off to sitapur for some project and Manjari called abhi under some pretext to prevent that from happening. She is kaand mata, she is wrong, but at the end of the day, she is still better than HAM and arohi for me.

Again, this is not me justifying her actions (don’t come after me with 🧹)- I am with agreeing with everyone that she is wrong here. But what I am just trying to see things from her POV as well.

Manjari and neil: Manjari may have done right by the baby that was abandoned by his parents and given him love and all but she did wrong by Neil by denying him family name, fathers name and rights.

Manjari and akshara: whoa!!! I don’t even know where to start. The one person that Manjari should be blaming for this mess (apart from herself) is Harsh. But she won’t do that. She ignores his unfaithfulness, his EMA, his pig like behavior to his son neil, his disrespect for his wife and goes and blames Akshara. And for what, for not keeping a secret?!!! Are you kidding me Manjari?? First of all, it’s not akshu’s secret to keep. If you are bold enough to do a kaand and be smart enough to know how to keep your own secrets from leaking. Secondly, you still think that this secret could have been contained once the report was processed? Let’s say the report could have landed in the hands of mahima or harsh or abhi, would you have blamed them too like you are blaming poor akshara who has absolutely nothing to do it with this whole thing to begin with??? Thirdly, you are angry at akshara because she ousted your secret but you are not hurt for the hurt neil is in?!

Abhira- once again, they are victims of the situation 😢, victims of arohi’s manipulations 😡 and victims of maata’s baseless assumptions. 🙄

Abhi- boy! You need to calm down and not let anger get the best of you.

Akshu- stop moving your head in “no” when people are accusing you and just blurt out what you need to say. Don’t wait for your turn.

On a lighter note, Akshu should have just shouted, “I have not done this” or fake fainted or had a panic attack to make abhi listen to her. 🤣

Abhi was wrong in the way he shut down akshu and didn’t give a chance to explain herself. But that’s always been him. And I don’t see this as a repeat cycle- I do see improvement in him. During Accident track, he just blew up on her and was not ready to talk to her or give her benefit of doubt or even consider her part of story. He literally called her a liar. He was listening to her but his anger did not let him make sense of what she was trying to convey. Whereas today, he controlled his anger and just walked away rather than saying things that he would have regretted later. And then, even in his anger- her words did get through to him. He did try giving her benefit of doubt and called lab but again fate was not their friend today. All in all, abhimanyu is making progress in anger management but he still has a long way to go. I am sure a day will come when he will not walk away with anger and give akshu a chance and listen to her side of story with a calm mind. But it’s going to be baby steps until that day.

When abhi is angry, akshu fumbles and get nervous explaining herself but when he cools down, akshu has a very calm, dignified way of explaining things to him. She is firm, authoritative and has a way to getting through to him even when he is being stubborn. So I am sure that Abhira will solve this mu soon either on their own by communicating or the truth will just come out naturally one way or other or through neil. But later on, I want akshara to explain to him how Manjari’s action were wrong and unjust to Neil inspite of her good intentions. Right now, Abhi has blinders on when it comes to Manjari (just like akshu had/has with arohi). Even today, he was defending Manjari to Anand. And I don’t blame him. He has been protecting manajri since forever and manajri is not entirely wrong when you see things from her perspective. And that’s what abhi is doing. He is looking at the situation only from her side and is not looking at the big picture. Which is where ak can come in and help him see the situation from Neil’s perspective and the way in which neil is hurt. And knowing abhi, akshara is the only person who can get through to him when it comes to Manjari.

Thank you for the review Pooja!

Anand and neil rocked the episode today!! Both were on point.

Abhira scene was heartbreaking! 😒 Abhi ke gusse par kabhi pyaar Sara hai toh kabhi gussa. 😆 I hope they sort out things soon. But looks like it’s going to be a couple days to a week based on the latest bts. 🤔

See makers surprised me yet again with anand-mahima scene.. more like shocked me!! 😮🤣

Originally posted by: iheartChai

HAMM:

I will give it to Anand that he finally stepped in and stopped the fight calling out both Harshvardhan and Manjari. I was actually shocked to see this reaction from him. Harshvardhan was wrong to have the affair and now karma has returned the favor with a tight slap to his face. His prestige, ego, face, etc taking a hit for this ugly truth coming out now. Manjari hide such a secret from everyone was wrong. She took away Neil's rights in the house under the pretext of keeping the family together? Then her spouting things to Akshu about helping her keep this secret? Truth was bound to come out however bitter. Relationships built on lies is not a foundation that is steady. (And I'm telling you Manjari is evil. I'm holding out for the twist 🤣 She will be worse than everyone in that household. She will make Abhimanyu kick Akshu out of the house in a much later track.) I really really hope it doesn’t go this way. I want manajri to be unintentional kaand mata only. There is already too much negativity as is on the show.

Mahima and Anand also facing the bitter reality of their family and also having their names getting a hit by this whole incident in society. Funny how however much they had yelled and screamed about the children of the family letting them down the biggest mistake was done by one of them, an elder of the Birla family. Oh, how the tables have turned a bit Life at is sarcastic best!

Arohi: 🤬 😡 she is leveling up and learning to do khaands Mahima style. Everything is stacking up against Akshu. I don't want Neil and Arohi to get together but I have a feeling Arohi finds Neil tomorrow and takes him home to the Goenka house. She's going to fake sympathy and he will be none the wiser that she caused this whole situation to cause problems for his brother. No doubt the truth had to be told but the way she relishes in seeing people in distress is pure evil 🤬 🤬 🤬

No words, no comments. Only emojis to express myself 😡 🤢 🐷

Neil:

I'm so glad he questioned Manjari because he deserved to know why she did it. Neil was making more sense than abhi today. And it's true Abhimanyu won't understand what he is going through. Abhimanyu at the very least has always known whom his parents were. And even though he hates his father, his father has given him every right in that household along with the his aunt and uncle. But Neil? Sure Mahima and Anand didn't bother with him much and let him do whatever but they also didn't shower him with love either. Only Manjari did and he just received hate from Harshvardhan. I have a feeling Neil and Harshvardhan are going to patch up first. It would be interesting if turns into Neil and Harshvardhan vs Abhi and Manjari. Hmmm… interesting indeed!

I really hope he sees Akshu as an ally to him and not feel like she is giving sympathy to him tomorrow. I hope so too. 🤞

Abhimanyu:

If people can call Akshu Akshara when they are angry at her than I will call Abhi Abhimanyu 🤣 I really wish she does this- just because I want to see the look on his face. 😆But on a serious note, she needs to explain to him how he is being unfair to her in his anger.

It's not like I don't understand he is in a tough spot. He really was. All his anchors- manajri, neil, akshu- everyone down in just one blow. It’s a very very difficult situation for him. His mother is in one corner dealing with the truth of her marriage so openly exposed to the family and also having one son who is grateful but yet upset with her. Neil is in another corner an emotional mess and is still trying to process everything. He believes Akshu broke her promise to him and got involved in this family's business. News flash your family life was pretty crappy and hiding secrets is not what one should be doing. Would Abhimanyu been able to keep this secret from Neil if he was the one who found out? Granted he probably would have been able to divert Neil from getting the report and then choose another time to tell him the truth so it wouldn't have been this dramatic (as in the media getting involved). For the first time he is in a situation where anger is not going to solve his problems. He is going to be learning how to mend relationships instead of breaking them the way he breaks his father and his relationship each time by blowing up like an volcano and breaking things. What I don't like is how each time he still continues to believe that Akshu didn't come tell him first when she has.

Akshu:

Things are not looking good. The entire household is all out of sorts and there are people who are going to be giving her the side eye. Manjari, Harshvardhan, Mahima, Anand, Abhimanyu for sure. Shefali is a hard one to call. Parth may be sympathetic to her. Neil may be okay with her because at least he got to know the truth.

I'm sure there will be some other situation or circumstance that gives another opportunity for Akshu to prove herself. Like having her bring Neil home and then having him tell Abhimanyu to not be upset with his bhabhi as the only reason he came home was because of her.

Maybe instead of Akshu defending Abhimanyu like we had thought of regarding saving the Birla name. Akshu will step in to defend her brother-in-law? I can see this happening.

Shefali:

First time we've seen her not answer her phone at home. So is this growth? She realizes the serious situation at home and knew better than to pick up that call from work. Though, I wonder if it was more someone calling to snoop about what happened at the Birla Hospital Founder's Day celebration. I was hoping it might be in relation to getting some recording /footage of the event showing arohi is behind all this but I knowI am expecting too much here 😆

Originally posted by: Reva_IF

Abhira- once again, they are victims of the situation 😢, victims of arohi’s manipulations 😡 and victims of maata’s baseless assumptions. 🙄

Abhi- boy! You need to calm down and not let anger get the best of you.

Akshu- stop moving your head in “no” when people are accusing you and just blurt out what you need to say. Don’t wait for your turn.

On a lighter note, Akshu should have just shouted, “I have not done this” or fake fainted or had a panic attack to make abhi listen to her. 🤣

Abhi was wrong in the way he shut down akshu and didn’t give a chance to explain herself. But that’s always been him. And I don’t see this as a repeat cycle- I do see improvement in him. During Accident track, he just blew up on her and was not ready to talk to her or give her benefit of doubt or even consider her part of story. He literally called her a liar. He was listening to her but his anger did not let him make sense of what she was trying to convey. Whereas today, he controlled his anger and just walked away rather than saying things that he would have regretted later. And then, even in his anger- her words did get through to him. He did try giving her benefit of doubt and called lab but again fate was not their friend today. All in all, abhimanyu is making progress in anger management but he still has a long way to go. I am sure a day will come when he will not walk away with anger and give akshu a chance and listen to her side of story with a calm mind. But it’s going to be baby steps until that day.

When abhi is angry, akshu fumbles and get nervous explaining herself but when he cools down, akshu has a very calm, dignified way of explaining things to him. She is firm, authoritative and has a way to getting through to him even when he is being stubborn. So I am sure that Abhira will solve this mu soon either on their own by communicating or the truth will just come out naturally one way or other or through neil. But later on, I want akshara to explain to him how Manjari’s action were wrong and unjust to Neil inspite of her good intentions. Right now, Abhi has blinders on when it comes to Manjari (just like akshu had/has with arohi). Even today, he was defending Manjari to Anand. And I don’t blame him. He has been protecting manajri since forever and manajri is not entirely wrong when you see things from her perspective. And that’s what abhi is doing. He is looking at the situation only from her side and is not looking at the big picture. Which is where ak can come in and help him see the situation from Neil’s perspective and the way in which neil is hurt. And knowing abhi, akshara is the only person who can get through to him when it comes to Manjari.

Yeah bringing up an illegitimate kid is a big deal. No women does that. For that manjari does deserve credits but her blaming akshara is pure vile and evil. That innocent girl has no clue about what's going on in your house and she literally accused her of breaking her trust. Even though akshara came and told manjari she knows the truth. If she purposely wanted to tell the truth to neil, she wouldn't come out clean to manjari and do all this behind the back. Why can't manjari see all this? Like aarohi did plotting from behind.

And you can't always get away with a bechari pass. This women has created so many kaands in yrkkh season 3 history.

Just saw a comment on the new bts from garima, another trip and fall for akshu why didn't she directly fall on abhis feet if they're going to make her apologise for something she hasn't done! Iollypop lollypop lolly lollypop 🤣

Am i the only one who finds Neil's voice sexy ? Like his voice shows a lot of maturity.

In this situation kairav has to come and question abhi..abhi iss mood mein hain..uskaa jawab epic ll be 🤣

Originally posted by: Reva_IF

Manjari: I totally agree that whatever Manjari’s did was wrong and does not justify the pain/suffering that neil went through for all these years. But I was just trying to think from her POV:

Scenario 1: Manjari would have revealed the truth about Neil’s identity as soon as she knew about it. At the time, Abhi and all the Birlas kids would have been too young to understand anything. Who’s to say that harsh wouldn’t just have beaten her up for accusing him of EMA and would not have thrown her out of the Birla house like he tried to do today? Would harsh have accepted neil? Would she have had Anand’s or mahima’s support? (I doubt Manjari expected them to give her any supportive since even I was surprised today by their reaction)

Result would have been- no support from anyone. Broken marriage. Most likely, harsh would have found a way to take abhi away from her. If harsh got abhi, he (abhi) would have been raised to believe all lies fed by harsh about Manjari. By any chance if she got abhi, then he would not have had the Birla background advantage, no mentor in form of tauji, no family. Abhi would have suffered most here along with Manjari due to harsh’s EMA.

Scenario 2: Manjari revealed the truth once abhi and neil were of age to understand and face the bitter reality. She could have done this, but I guess over the years everyone/ everything was settled well and she didn’t want to rile any feathers by bringing this up again.

Result would have been similar to the situation that they have on hand today. Neil would be hurt the most and everyone else too will be upset with harsh and herself for keeping a secret as big hidden from the whole family.

Manjari’s decision: whichever scenario Manjari would have chosen, she was always going to hurt someone or the other. So she chose herself, her marriage, her abhi and her family. Yes that makes her selfish but that makes her human too. But she was not heartless. She felt bad for the baby that got stuck in this mess of EMA with no fault of his. She was visiting the baby at anath ashram because she felt sympathy for him. She wanted to give love to that baby but it was not her decision to adopt neil, abhi did that and she went along with it and she did the one thing that she could do. She gave him love and care and tried to be the mother that he never had. But she could not give him family name or status.

Let’s not forget that Manjari herself is a victim of abuse. If she had the strength in her, she could have stood up for herself and all the injustices done to her by harsh. When she cannot even fight for herself, how can we expect her to stand up for Neil’s rights? Even then, she has time and again protected neil from Harsh’s anger and violence. Be it today when harsh tried beating neil with belt or be it that day when harsh tried sending neil off to sitapur for some project and Manjari called abhi under some pretext to prevent that from happening. She is kaand mata, she is wrong, but at the end of the day, she is still better than HAM and arohi for me.

Again, this is not me justifying her actions (don’t come after me with 🧹)- I am with agreeing with everyone that she is wrong here. But what I am just trying to see things from her POV as well.

Manjari and neil: Manjari may have done right by the baby that was abandoned by his parents and given him love and all but she did wrong by Neil by denying him family name, fathers name and rights.

Manjari and akshara: whoa!!! I don’t even know where to start. The one person that Manjari should be blaming for this mess (apart from herself) is Harsh. But she won’t do that. She ignores his unfaithfulness, his EMA, his pig like behavior to his son neil, his disrespect for his wife and goes and blames Akshara. And for what, for not keeping a secret?!!! Are you kidding me Manjari?? First of all, it’s not akshu’s secret to keep. If you are bold enough to do a kaand and be smart enough to know how to keep your own secrets from leaking. Secondly, you still think that this secret could have been contained once the report was processed? Let’s say the report could have landed in the hands of mahima or harsh or abhi, would you have blamed them too like you are blaming poor akshara who has absolutely nothing to do it with this whole thing to begin with??? Thirdly, you are angry at akshara because she ousted your secret but you are not hurt for the hurt neil is in?!

I agree Harsh could have taken a bigger step to deter Manju or have taken abhimanyu but I am sure anand and Mahima would nt have let that happen. Getting a kid from orphanage and giving him life full of abuses is worse than what it could have been.

On top of it instead of accepting her mistake she is blaming akshra was icing on the cake to show why she never told anyone anything as she had not guts to take the blame of reality or mess she created.

I felt so bad for neil today and he was completely justfied for his outburst and Abhira my heart broke for both of them , both are suffering coz they trusted wrong women in their life.