Anupamaa Live Update and Daily Discussion Thread 26 May 2022 - Page 11

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Originally posted by: ayushijindal

And if Anupama doing out of affection and is becoming conditioned to Anuj is also not cool.

Good morning everyone🤗❤

Thank you for the synopsis and tags!!

I watched ONLY the MaAn scenes.. not the Shah family scenes because I like my peace of mind atleast in the morning..

So today's fangirling ---

The kitchen scene, them cooking together, the convo about taking care of each other but not becoming a slave, dividing household chores equally was done very well..

Anupama saying - baaki naariyon ka pata nahi par mera swabhav yahi hai.

Good..atleast they're not going with the stereotype that women are supposed to be gentle and caring and stuff

And yes kadpe ready karke rakhna and all for the husband is quite a common thing... glad they called that out..

The stove thing.. I'm not surprised she she didn't know it.. I didn't know much about automatic stoves too... but then I don't cook at all.. I think she can be used for that one.. most middle class homes do not have automatic stoves as far as I've seen around me..

The cheek kisss😻😻😻😻

And her cute expression after that!!!!❤❤❤

Her including Anuj in every prayer is so wonderful!!!

Him understanding her worry about her kids and being equally concerned and the video call was good.. !!

Baa.. not even worth discussing..

The Kapadia breakfast table.. the 2 kids fighting over halwa and stop fighting when she threatens them with no lunch gave such positive and happy vibes...❤❤❤❤

This I felt was a contrast between two families.. shahs and kapadias..

The honeymoon thing.. bichara Anuj..haridwar😂😂😂

The precap🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩

Can't wait for their beach sequence!!

Mere upar 27 saal ka karz hai woh main zindagi bhar chukana chahti hu...----- damn good Anu.. you should!!!

And start with returning those kisses please❤❤❤❤❤

Btw Ig I won't get into any serious discussions here today.. takes up time and exhausts me metally.. might jump in for a bit of bakwaas though😂❤

Originally posted by: BaAZiGar0

hey girl 👋🏼

specific to anupamaa, how she behaves as a “functioning member of society” is imo 100% based on her upbringing and the tools her parents equipped her with to survive in their community. i think all of us operate in this way until something stops working and we question whether what our parents taught us is still relevant in 2022. ive always said that her self worth is tied to what she can offer in a domestic setting. for some people it’s money, others it’s sex and others it’s something more balanced. so to answer your question, i think everything she does is based on her being conditioned from a very young age that xyz will bring you happiness/value whatever. but you raise a good question, what does she like that is individual to her and her alone? 🤔

Ali.. can i just say i loved your take on this.. all the previous comments on this too..

This is how Anupama has been conditioned.. and to get out it, it will take time for her.. the messed up part of her going back n forth, i will give a benefit of doubt , that she is trying..but its not easy getting out of a habit of 30 plus years. No one, not even her own mother took into acc what she liked..she was just told to behave in a certain way to please her man, her inlaws..

One cannot change this in a one day old marriage.. it will take time. My pov.. no intention of triggering or offending anyone..

Now to do the simple chores because she loves to do it for anuj or to stop, its should be her choice. But it will take time for her to get out of old habit

Originally posted by: Peppss

Of course ....why are you even asking...give your opinion dear...🤗

Jaane do already discussion hogya hai may be.. Chhodo.. Mera tuzse koi alag opinion nhi tha..

So tomorrow is honeymoon. Can we expect Mr Kapadia to book a honeymoon resort or he will be again doing kanjoosi as he did in SR by not decorating their room? I wish to see some actions in honeymoon.

Originally posted by: BaAZiGar0

why? dont couples have routines?

No. My point is its about considering choices and wishes of both.. it should not be a routine coz at times it will become burden for one and graved and for other you make it a habit for your partner& if you are not available toh b trouble hota h. I mean do arrange stuffs in cupboards, make them tidy and organised. If he is not finding, make him inform but not a regular habit out of affection also.. kabhi kabhi acha lagta that I will always agree..

Ps: Rani I am tagging you taaki tu mera take padh sake . Isse previous wala b

Originally posted by: BaAZiGar0

hey girl 👋🏼

specific to anupamaa, how she behaves as a “functioning member of society” is imo 100% based on her upbringing and the tools her parents equipped her with to survive in their community. i think all of us operate in this way until something stops working and we question whether what our parents taught us is still relevant in 2022. ive always said that her self worth is tied to what she can offer in a domestic setting. for some people it’s money, others it’s sex and others it’s something more balanced. so to answer your question, i think everything she does is based on her being conditioned from a very young age that xyz will bring you happiness/value whatever. but you raise a good question, what does she like that is individual to her and her alone? 🤔

Loved this discussion today..

So I feel couples can have their routine.. and do stuff for each other but willingly!!!

And no it shouldn't just be the wife doing it..

Like.. on days when my mom has to leave early for work.. my dad gets out clothes from the cupboard and keep them ready for her..

If my dad has to leave early.. she gets his bag ready for him...

Even for household chores.. if one cooks, the other does the cleaning..

But my mom always feels guilty even when she's out at work and he's at home and does some chores which tire him out.. because she feels it's her duty and he has to duty because she doesn't..

And it's not like my family is conservative or my mom isn't educated..

But it's just the atmosphere around.. and the conditioning..

So for Anupama I'm sure it'll be 10x worse..

Originally posted by: rupsii

Ali.. can i just say i li6ved your take on this.. all the previous comments on this too..

This is how Anupama has been conditioned.. and to get out it, it will take time for her.. the messed up part of her going back n forth, i will give a benefit of doubt , that she is trying..but its not easy getting out of a habit of 30 plus years. No one, not even her own mother took into acc what she liked..she was just told to behave in a certain way to please her man, her inlaws..

One cannot change this in a one day old marriage.. it will take time. My pov.. no intention of triggering or offending anyone..

i agree, to change habits that you’ve had for 30 years is not an easy task. i guess that’s why she goes back and forth and cannot let go of that house. it’s probably a really scary feeling. she trusts anuj but she can’t guarantee how things will end up. as bad as it was, at least she knew exactly how things were in the shah house. im curious to see what old habits anuj will try to break and how he is going to defend her from his toxic family. 🤢

Originally posted by: rupsii

Ali.. can i just say i loved your take on this.. all the previous comments on this too..

This is how Anupama has been conditioned.. and to get out it, it will take time for her.. the messed up part of her going back n forth, i will give a benefit of doubt , that she is trying..but its not easy getting out of a habit of 30 plus years. No one, not even her own mother took into acc what she liked..she was just told to behave in a certain way to please her man, her inlaws..

One cannot change this in a one day old marriage.. it will take time. My pov.. no intention of triggering or offending anyone..

Now to do the simple chores because she loves to do it for anuj or to stop, its should be her choice. But it will take time for her to get out of old habit

Tianaaaaa!!! Wish she was around and reading this ❤️❤️