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Originally posted by: Reva_IF

Thank you guys for tagging me and so sorry I haven’t been able to respond as I was very busy yesterday.. Will get to all of your tags dheere dheere … however I have read some of the posts of the forum and also in bird app and wanted to put my 2 cents on this hot topic of discussion:

But before that, special shout out about yesterday’s episode: Episode was painful yet beautiful and amazing performances by both HC and Pranali. These guys can do angst so beautifully.

Ak’s surprise anniversary party:

Intention: pure, to spread happiness to Manjari and hence to abhi, to get a chance to celebrate abhi’s (and by extension her’s as well) parents’ anniversary since she could never celebrate her parents’ special day.

Did she involve anyone else in planing: No

Result: abhi’s trauma resurfaced, Manjari insulted by harsh in front of all, anand mahima upset, disagreements in Birla family

Warning signs that ak missed: abhi clearly said “my family is different than yours”, she has seen earlier that harsh-Manjari equation is not pleasant.

Could this surprise be handled in a better way by ak: hell yes!

Abhi’s surprise music department opening:

Intention: pure, gesture of love and support to ak and her career, making sure that ak would not have to crush her dreams like Manjari in past

Did he involve anyone else in planning/seeking permission: No

Result: Birla family turned against Abhira and specially against ak even before her entry in home, mahima’s insecurities triggered, anand/harsh upset, Shefali became insecure since ak could secure a place in hospital unlike parth, closing of department kaand resulted in Manjari being dragged in the mess and being insulted by harsh

Warning signs that abhi missed: he knew mahima was jealous that her patients were liking ak’s music therapy, abhi has known harsh/anand all his life and couldn’t figure that opening a department for ak without consulting them would not only lead to arguments in family but also make things harder for ak to be accepted by family after marriage.

Could this surprise/ gifting idea be handled in better way by abhi: hell yes!

My POV: if we are calling ak “dumb” for planning this surprise party then we should be calling abhi the same. Both ak and abhi are emotional and can get carried away in giving happiness to people they love.

Abhi’s anger many times have complicated things for ak and Manjari but we still love him for the way he stands up for his loved ones. Then why can’t we accept ak’s unintentional mistake of complicating matters for abhi and Manjari due to her over enthusiastic nature.

Anyways,my point is that they both are flawed, they are humans and they will make mistakes and learn from them.

Well said reva.

Both abhi and akshu are one from their heart. Their love for their loved ones is also same. Abhi has little people to love and his nonsense is little. 🤣🤣🤣

Ak has too much in her love list and her nonsense and surprise are always big and end result too gets big.

Abhi surprise kicked all birla's to show their real faces and they were like I can't wait anymore to show who I am and what I am.

Now ak suprise kicked all the old valets to be opened. Ak did us all big favour by kicking us to a whole a lot of wonderland along with lots of treasure hunt. Today ak got a lost photo and a beautiful saree in her treasure hunt to birla store room. And in future ak will get lots of more treasures in birla house and that is for all of us to see. 😎😎

On a serious note - ak is the lead of the sho good and bad all comes through her only. She is the one who will give chappan bhog and do jhaadu poocha program on birla family.

Ak gave chappan bhog to them but unfortunately birla's want jhaadu poocha program only. 🥳🥳

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Originally posted by: hari15

Well said reva.

Both abhi and akshu are one from their heart. Their love for their loved ones is also same. Abhi has little people to love and his nonsense is little. 🤣🤣🤣

Ak has too much in her love list and her nonsense and surprise are always big and end result too gets big.

Abhi surprise kicked all birla's to show their real faces and they were like I can't wait anymore to show who I am and what I am.

Now ak suprise kicked all the old valets to be opened. Ak did us all big favour by kicking us to a whole a lot of wonderland along with lots of treasure hunt. Today ak got a lost photo and a beautiful saree in her treasure hunt to birla store room. And in future ak will get lots of more treasures in birla house and that is for all of us to see. 😎😎

On a serious note - ak is the lead of the show. Is the one who will give chappan bhog and do jhaadu poocha program on birla family.

Ak gave chappan bhog to them but unfortunately birla's want jhaadu poocha program only. 🥳🥳

As a lead good and bad all comes through her only.

Originally posted by: tptwi

this area is so pretty but they are too busy fighting by the dining table 🤣

Originally posted by: Reva_IF

agree 💯.. we are all eagerly waiting for the jhadu poocha program 😆

Hain na, meher's toilet brush, harpic and broom stick are on the way. 😆

Originally posted by: Reva_IF

beautiful post! I completely agree. The amount of hate that ak is getting leaves me . Yes she was over excited and in that excitement she made a mistake, but it’s not fair to call her names for this or to insult her intelligence by calling her dumb or stupid. If anything, I only have sympathy for ak, abhi and for mostly Manjari in whatever happened.

Regarding ak leaving- I feel it’s better to exit the scene and give space when the other person is super angry. I have had personal experiences with very nice people who have anger management issues and trust me when I say this, whenever such people are angry, they speak without thinking. It’s like the anger is controlling them and they don’t see the bigger picture at that time.
It’s best to let them cool down, give them time to think about what happened and then try to talk to them. I am so proud of abhi that he controlled his anger and did not say anything to ak that he would have regretted later. And I feel ak did the right thing by giving him space to process his emotions. She did not blame him and in fact in a way, supported him by saying that she knows he wants to stop her but he needs to cool down first and they need to handle this mess with love/communication or else trust, relationships and friendship can break.

Kairav/Goenkas: I understand their intention was just to protect ak, but they should have asked ak first about what she wanted to do rather than taking this matter directly to Birlas. “Whatever happens in my sasural is between me and my sasural and whatever happens in my mayka is between me and my mayka” is my policy. If I need help, I involve people to sort my issues. I feel as a couple, one should not let third person decide on what should happen next whenever there is a disagreement/fight. It just makes things worst. So I didn’t like kairav interfering, although I understand his heart was in the right place

Yeah I agree and also they can't always ask her to come with them whenever there's any conflict in the family. This was the first time so they got her with them with the pagphera excuse but next time onwards whenever there's any problem she has to deal with it. If Akshara keeps giving space or the Goenkas take her away till the Birlas calm down in the long run its going to get worst for her as well as Abhi. I think next time onwards Akshara herself will handle the situations. .

Akshara's act was stupid but she didn't do all that for her own happiness. She wouldn't have gained anything at all. In fact things were going smoothly but when one of the doctors asked Harsh if Manjari is a doctor that's when Harsh lost his cool. That question was like Harsh ke *dukhti rath par haath rakh dena* or whatever that hindi phrase is 😆. I wish Abhira actually take Manjari on a trip for few weeks. 😅 Tab in Birlas specially Harsh ko Manjari ki value samajh mein aayegi.

Originally posted by: hari15

Hain na, meher's toilet brush, harpic and broom stick are on the way. 😆

Star of today’s episode: MANJARI 👏👏👏

Originally posted by: Life_Is_Dutiful

Yeah I agree and also they can't always ask her to come with them whenever there's any conflict in the family. This was the first time so they got her with them with the pagphera excuse but next time onwards whenever there's any problem she has to deal with it. If Akshara keeps giving space or the Goenkas take her away till the Birlas calm down in the long run its going to get worst for her as well as Abhi. I think next time onwards Akshara herself will handle the situations. .

Akshara's act was stupid but she didn't do all that for her own happiness. She wouldn't have gained anything at all. In fact things were going smoothly but when one of the doctors asked Harsh if Manjari is a doctor that's when Harsh lost his cool. That question was like Harsh ke *dukhti rath par haath rakh dena* or whatever that hindi phrase is 😆. I wish Abhira actually take Manjari on a trip for few weeks. 😅 Tab in Birlas specially Harsh ko Manjari ki value samajh mein aayegi.

Originally posted by: Reva_IF

we need some strong disinfectant too.. 🤣

First of all …Kairav 😡😡😡😡😡

second of all abhi’s expressions in precap after akshu responds to harsh ❤️😍❤️😍😬😬😬

third of all, manjari speaking up on behalf of akshu n Neil n Parth in support ❤️❤️❤️❤️

Fourth of all abhi taking care of akshu n asking her not to change them has my heart …these folks will come to their senses by themselves n that will make for so much better watch ❤️❤️❤️❤️

overall despite a little drag of sad tunes, loved it