Overnight Change is possible?

Girl should be accepted the way she is with her flaws by her in-laws. She needs time to adjust but then why should in-laws change in 24-48 hrs? Birlas should change their dynamics to fulfill Akshara's fantasies of a happy family, festivals & celebrations most of all in a day? Akshara Goenka became Akshara Birla 1-2 days ago & the newly wedded bride planned a party for a dysfunctional couple even when Abhi & Manjiri gave her several hints. She knows verry well how Manjiri is treated by Harsh yet she wanted to celebrate their anniversary? Birlas are still far better than hypocrite Goenkas because if Naira did something similar even after years of marriage against Goenka's will Manish-Dadi would have blamed her infront of guests & her own family. Here atleast Mahima-Anand even Harsh kept quiet infront of Goenkas & guests they didn't blame Akshara infact Harsh-Mahima blamed Harsh too for his overreaction, and they didn't put the entire blame on Akshara the way Goenkas use to do. Naira also used to prioritize family over everything & interfere in other ppl's matters being FL, it was her duty to set everything right for others though she couldn't handle her own relationships which was super annoying quality, but Naira left GV for Kartik & lived in a flat with him during the initial days of marriage she didn't try to mend relationships in a day as no relationships are mended overnight. Here Akshara is unwilling to understand at all. I initially thought Akshara is a better character but they are making her indifferent to sensitive situations like her neurons stop functioning at all, what matters for her is a celebration & that's it as if Manjiri's happiness mattered she shouldn't have planned anniversary party even when Manjiri told her they don't celebrate even when she has seen how Harsh treats Manjiri I mean toxic abusive relationships aren't celebrated. After committing a mistake & hurting both Abhimanyu and Manjiri she kept telling Abhimanyu how relationships are spoiled while collecting buttons. Why not try to understand the man she loved who controlled his anger even after having severe anger issues? I wish anyone among Singhanias or even Gayu brought up Akshara as Goenkas are the biggest hypocrites. They had the audacity to blame Birlas when they themselves always have different standards for their sons, daughters and daughter-in-laws. When they themselves have been unfair to Akshara for Arohi. When they know how dysfunctional families are being one they should've made Akshara understand to stop fantasizing things for other people (Harsh & Manjiri) & start acting mature. Understand before imposing ur wish of celebrating parents' anniversary on others when u are just a newly wedded bride & not someone who has a complete understanding of relationship dynamics. Newly wedded bride who didn't even have her own reception planned a surprise anniversary party for Harsh-Manjiri even after knowing Birlas, Abhi-Harsh, Harsh-Majiri's relationship dynamics.

Exactly! Thanks for pointing out all these important points! Akshara just imposes her wish on others without bothering one bit about the other person's feelings.

She just wants to force everyone else to pretend to be happy. Not everyone needs to be fake and lie about their real emotions like she does.