No excitement for wedding

I am not much excited for the wedding. Because post wedding too Anupamaaa will be back to Shah ghosla, to take care of bapuji, ofcourse Kinjal is pregnant and has to take care of her as well. She has to give glass of water to Vanraj.

Only thing would be interesting, will Anuj join her in Shah house too ? Will both of them serve, baa ,bapuji , Vanraj, Kinjal.

The story is still stuck since accident. I don't understand why can't they introduce new character independent of Shah house and Vanraj. They got in Mukku but mixed her with Vanraj.

So bored ya, it was such a fun show after Anuj entry kya raita faila diya hai.

I don't know about you,but I am very excited for my MaAn ka wedding,and I gonna enjoy it,will not let the Shah drama also spoil it🤪

Originally posted by: Moongdal

I am not much excited for the wedding. Because post wedding too Anupamaaa will be back to Shah ghosla, to take care of bapuji, ofcourse Kinjal is pregnant and has to take care of her as well. She has to give glass of water to Vanraj.

Only thing would be interesting, will Anuj join her in Shah house too ? Will both of them serve, baa ,bapuji , Vanraj, Kinjal.

The story is still stuck since accident. I don't understand why can't they introduce new character independent of Shah house and Vanraj. They got in Mukku but mixed her with Vanraj.

So bored ya, it was such a fun show after Anuj entry kya raita faila diya hai.

You have company. 🤗I have no interest in the events either. I find them rather silly/OTT. However, I am curious to know what's in store after that.

- Does she build an identity(astitva) of her own? Or will she remain what she is now, mother to her kids, and someone's wife?

- How does she work out parenting while being married to another man, who is not her kids' father ?

- How will she balance priorities after her 2nd marriage?

We all are in same boat

I am watching wedding only for maan

Otherwise this shah toxicity is too much nowaddays

anupama gives 10 mins bashaan on ma every episode

crazy woman as if we did not have mothers

They went to work and we would be alone at home after school in LKG only

We ate snacks and lunch etc on own our moms were not feeding us in LKG too at home they would be at office

are we complaining like kinjal that our mom not home after we grow up?

This show is disgracing working mothers like anything

Whta great work anupama does at home? I have seen women (in 90s and 2000s) going to work 8 to 9 hours travelling another 2 hours taking care of aged father in law grand father in law plus 5-6 brother in laws 2 brothers who are in school or college and hubby and 3 kids alone only woman in house for decades no one doing drama and preaching like anupama doing(in big metro city not small city or villages). I mean imagine cooking for 13 people by waking up at 3am both break fast and lunch carriers than going to office 8 hours plus 2 hours travel plus again preparing snacks and dinner at night very back breaking work for 20-25 years non stop. Sleep only 3 to 4 hours at night (from 3am to mid night only back breaking work of office plus house). That is real work not what anupama does with maid help and mom in law bahu to help. This is hardly 20% work what woman do going to office plus house work(in cities not village they must be doing even farm work also with cooking for 15 people at home) but bragging 500 times more that i work. I have seen truly empowered woman n 90s and 2000s who worked in offices plus took care of in law-s full family plus their own siblings and parents everyday non stop doing all work. No one said i sleep only 3 to 4 hours a day and do back breaking house work plus take care of father in law grand father in law etc than that too for 2 decades or more. Only after 2005 or 2010 its become fashion to brag about doing house work plus working in office.

Even mom going to office and leaving kids alone at home after school we all grew up in 90s and 2000s same way. No one cooked or fed kids after coming from school even in LKG/UKG we ate ourself some snacks or packed from hotel or bakery. Are we all not alive are we thinking bad of our moms compared to an anupama. Not really i think our moms who worked in office and house are 10 times more respected than an anupama because they did it to give better life to kids and husband and in laws. And why not they were qualified and educated so why not work because they studied 21 years in school or college. But they also were as traditional as anupama and did saas sasur seva and brother in laws and sister in laws seva and their own family seva without shedding tears and victim drama like anupama. May be they did not want to do all that house work or take care of in laws etc but they did still as duty as responsibility. And in 90s and 2000s men never did any house work unlike now where they help something atleast. Imagine situation of women than. Nor there was zomato and pizza to deliver even if you are unwell you have to cook at any cost 24/7 365 days every day of year for decades.

Why are anupama kids acting like 3 years olds at 27 and 16 years etc they need hand holding etc and mom for everything except when they should have shown guts when their mom was being abused by hubby and his parents. Or when vanraj was having affair with kavya and mukku they act blind and no braveness to question father or grandparents. But bec anupama is softer and silent always they can misbehave at her or her classmate cum future hubby?

Even anupam acats like lkg kid she needs lot of pushing and hand holding to break free or make any small decision of life. At 45 years who acts like anupama? Like a small kid needing prodding from samar, devika, kinjal or anuj for everything.

Suna hai Anuj ke 1-2 naye relatives aanewale hai so ho sakta hai ki woh anupama ki aisi class lagaye ki anupama ka jina mushkil ho jaye aur baa ki bakri naye sasuralwalo ki wajah se purane sasural ja he na paye 😆😆

Waiting for anupama’s new sasural relative ki entry😳

Lol anupama naye sasural and purane sasural ke bich dharmsankat mai fasegi I am so excited to watch her dilemma 🤪

I agree to you to a good extent...but regarding Kinjal telling her mom not being there for her,is not something new to witness.

Yes,there are many parents who go to work leaving their kids at home with a nanny,but every child is different,and trust me when you are an only child,and your parents are away for long hours you tend to become reserved and lonely. That's why many parents leave the child with their grandparents who can give them the care and emotional support in their absence...so that's a debatable topic,this in now way disregards working women or homemakers.

Everything cannot be perfect,people tend to compromise on something or the other...especially women.

Working women have to compromise on not being able to spend much time with their kids,and housewives tend to compromise on their dreams and ambitions.

To yeh serial yahi to high light kar raha hai agar women bahar job karne nahi jaa rahi hai to woh khuch nahi kar rahi hai

Anupama bhi job kar sakti thi but kya, use apne husband se cooperation mila . It is very very difficult for women to work out side if women has three children joint family where husband is not at all coaperative and a

And husband is not at all coaperative except one children not at all coaperative

Ab anupama husband ke har chhoti choti baat ka khayal rakhe vanraj ko khaana, parose vanraj ke leg pakde when vanraj use to do exercise use socks vanraj ko jaise hi woh office se aaye use ghar mei ghuste hi anupama ko vanraj ko tea dena chahiye agar tea dene mein 1sec ki bhi late hua to vanraj yeh kehte they nikal jaao mere ghar se.

Jahan pe husband apna ek chota sa, kaam nahi kar sakta woh bhi anupama kare to aise mein anupama bahar kaise job kare even toshu pakhi cant take food from. Fridge and heat it on it own and even baa cannot put bhog in front of Lord krishna uske liye anupama ka wait ho raha tha ki anupama घर में fridge se, khaana nikale garam kare parse tub yeh Shah family khana khaayegi jub yeh log har cheej ke liye anupama se umeed karte they so how is possible to job for anupama

Jub anupama unki liye har chota chota baat ka khayal kar rahi hai agar use badle mein zara, bhi appreciation na mil raha, aur badle mein use sirf insult mil rahi hai to yeh baat bahut galat hai

Agar family badi है और joint hai to bina family ke support kr bahar job karns bahut difficult hai

Rakhi never lived in joint family neither her husband egoistic rakhi ka husband ka coaperative raha aur rakhi ka background bhi strong raha

Isliye rakhi ka bahar job karna, badi baat nahi hai.

But agar anupama jaise log jahan pur husband jara bhi coaperative nahi hai use ghar ka kaam almost akele karnna pad raha hai saath mein teen bache paalne khud karna pad raha ho to aise mein bahar job karna mushkil hai

I have seen in real life ki जहाँ husband bache ghar ke kaam mein haath bataa te hai woh ladies log easily job karte hai

I have relative they have five children both do teaching job they have elders daughter 16year old uska college subah 11baje hota lekin woh subah uth jhaadoo lagati phir dophar ke liye khaana banati aur uske father bhi subah घर का kaam karte they jaise paani bharna bed sheet jhaadna tub jaakur uski mother double shift mein job kar paatii thi

To badi family aur joint family mein mein bina family ke coaption ladies ka bahar job karna, utna possible nahi hai

Yahan pur anupama ki situation puri taraj different hai

Btw anupama never cried for work woh to operatiion ke baad bhi kaam kar rahi thi

But iska matlab yeh nahi agar kisi ki maa ko English theek se nahi aati aur woh jyaada padhi likhi nahi hai to us base pe maa ki insult karne lag jaao

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

You have company. 🤗I have no interest in the events either. I find them rather silly/OTT. However, I am curious to know what's in store after that.

- Does she build an identity(astitva) of her own? Or will she remain what she is now, mother to her kids, and someone's wife?

- How does she work out parenting while being married to another man, who is not her kids' father ?

- How will she balance priorities after her 2nd marriage?

I too did not have much excitement because in my honest opinion they rushed the marriage. But I will agree they still have that charm because of which I am still sticking inspite of cribbing everyday.

1. You have already answered your question.

2. This one am interested as well. But we both know that other man will bow down everytime, so nothing new we are gonna see.

3. Her priorities are already set: Bapuji, Baa, her 3 kids, 3 kid's partners, her kid's father, Dolly and her family, Shah house and it's surroundings. Then Anuj and his family

Originally posted by: surabhi01

To yeh serial yahi to high light kar raha hai agar women bahar job karne nahi jaa rahi hai to woh khuch nahi kar rahi hai

Anupama bhi job kar sakti thi but kya, use apne husband se cooperation mila . It is very very difficult for women to work out side if women has three children joint family where husband is not at all coaperative and a

And husband is not at all coaperative except one children not at all coaperative

Ab anupama husband ke har chhoti choti baat ka khayal rakhe vanraj ko khaana, parose vanraj ke leg pakde when vanraj use to do exercise use socks vanraj ko jaise hi woh office se aaye use ghar mei ghuste hi anupama ko vanraj ko tea dena chahiye agar tea dene mein 1sec ki bhi late hua to vanraj yeh kehte they nikal jaao mere ghar se.

Jahan pe husband apna ek chota sa, kaam nahi kar sakta woh bhi anupama kare to aise mein anupama bahar kaise job kare even toshu pakhi cant take food from. Fridge and heat it on it own and even baa cannot put bhog in front of Lord krishna uske liye anupama ka wait ho raha tha ki anupama घर में fridge se, khaana nikale garam kare parse tub yeh Shah family khana khaayegi jub yeh log har cheej ke liye anupama se umeed karte they so how is possible to job for anupama

Jub anupama unki liye har chota chota baat ka khayal kar rahi hai agar use badle mein zara, bhi appreciation na mil raha, aur badle mein use sirf insult mil rahi hai to yeh baat bahut galat hai

Agar family badi है और joint hai to bina family ke support kr bahar job karns bahut difficult hai

Rakhi never lived in joint family neither her husband egoistic rakhi ka husband ka coaperative raha aur rakhi ka background bhi strong raha

Isliye rakhi ka bahar job karna, badi baat nahi hai.

But agar anupama jaise log jahan pur husband jara bhi coaperative nahi hai use ghar ka kaam almost akele karnna pad raha hai saath mein teen bache paalne khud karna pad raha ho to aise mein bahar job karna mushkil hai

I have seen in real life ki जहाँ husband bache ghar ke kaam mein haath bataa te hai woh ladies log easily job karte hai

I have relative they have five children both do teaching job they have elders daughter 16year old uska college subah 11baje hota lekin woh subah uth jhaadoo lagati phir dophar ke liye khaana banati aur uske father bhi subah घर का kaam karte they jaise paani bharna bed sheet jhaadna tub jaakur uski mother double shift mein job kar paatii thi

To badi family aur joint family mein mein bina family ke coaption ladies ka bahar job karna, utna possible nahi hai

Honestly as i observed till 2005 or 2010 or so hardly men helped in kitchen even in big city like mumbai or delhi etc also its only the new gen below 35 who really help wives or mothers in kitchen nowadays. At most they would help kids in study and play with them thats all nothing more actually. Anuj kind of men are 5% in india and 30% in USA may be. Even in USA tough to get anuj kind of men who cook actually at home. But they definitely help by clearing snow, washing clothes etc such jobs at most. Kitchen work is mostly womens job like wife or mom or daughters thats what even USA men think (at most they will wash vessels and sweep mop may be but cooking is still not thought as men job in full world)

And as far as our previous generations(mothers) was there they would work twice more than this gen in house

Now last 10 years people order from online or hotel like USA/UK but before 2010 this culture of eating outside orders was not there actually

No matter what food was cooked at home mostly

Only in last 10 to 15 years eating out or ordering out frequently increased in india

Joint family if women are there like mother in law sister in law help is there. But if majority are men its tough at home like 90% male and only 10% women or girls are smaller like a pakhi than all responsibility fall on one woman the married lady like anupama only

I do not agree anupama did not get help so was late to work so lost job. Our moms or auntys would wake up 4am or 5am and cook, leave kids to school or college and run to office on time doing everything that anupama did actually for full family. Anupama never truly trioed hard like our moms to put effor forjob and be independent. She requires push and hand holding from samar, anuj etc unlike many other women who love to work and be independent despite many issues. Even today many professional woman get up 5am cook do everything and than run to office actually 70% do that in cities only(after wedding). Before wedding mothers do the house work so daughters get up in leisure and go to work. But after marriage its not same as before wedding. Anuj kind of husband is hardly 5% in india even lesser actually even today. Do brothers help in kitchen work no they study or play in school and college. But daughter expected to help in house work even today by parents in cities. Only 10% may not expect that from a daughter just like they do not want son to do it. Its in society and culture issue. So next 4-5 gens also changing much is doubt they will be like vanraj than anuj kapadia only. Anuj is way he is as hes brought up in USA for 27 years thats culture there to expect men to do house work unlike india. India if hubby does house work they mock or in laws object. If anuj mom was alive today i doubt he would have learnt cooking or house work just like a vanraj. Bec he lost mom at young age and mukku too little to work in kitchen he learnt.