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Originally posted by: jasminerahul

Which actor played aditi's son in QH?I thought avinash played that role.shilpa played amit's wife n saas in kyunki n kkusum at the same time.

Ankit Raj.

Which Shilpa and which Amit?

On IF passport was shown n according to it she was not a minor.so most of the people blamed her along with aditya.actually she said that he drugged her n got intimate with her.she herself says that ,that time itself she suffered.still she continued staying with him.why?it's definitely for her benefit.if it was a normal girl in society, she would have tried to escape from that person.but she continued to be with him for 4 years.she herself said that she was dating him.so when a gf is staying with her bf,definitely the bf will expect her to get intimate with him.she was friends with his daughter n they were her guardians too.any girl of even small age would be knowing that living with a friend's father is wrong.she tolerated all abuse for years for her benefit.so I can't say that she was completely innocent.i blame her parents.though she left home fighting with them,they should have taken her back n supported her when she started staying with aditya.

That's true.the main blame is put on the man who misuses girls.even in casting couch it's the men who pressurize women n they surrender for their benefit.

Originally posted by: aastha12345

Aditya says so but i think while people calculated ages she came as 17

I know kangana did a lot of shit, but the blame of a sexual relationship cannot be placed on her as it was his responsibility to deny it being old, that was statutory rape he did, he could easily manipulate a minor to sleep with her

Also 4 years sath rehna nd all, that's mostly how grooming works, it starts when the victim is underage nd lasts till they realize it's wrong, im not saying kangana was not taking his advantage for her career, but sexual relationship lasted because he held her when she was 17, nd victims of underage grooming don't usually recognize this is wrong until some many years later, take Courtney stodden as example

In short, she may have used him for financial gains, but The responsibility of sexual relationships cannot be placed on minors, they don't have power in such relationships, it was his responsibility to not begin this

Shilpa saklani n amit sareen.

Originally posted by: Juhi_04

Ankit Raj.

Which Shilpa and which Amit?

Originally posted by: jasminerahul

On IF passport was shown n according to it she was not a minor.so most of the people blamed her along with aditya.actually she said that he drugged her n got intimate with her.she herself says that ,that time itself she suffered.still she continued staying with him.why?it's definitely for her benefit.if it was a normal girl in society, she would have tried to escape from that person.but she continued to be with him for 4 years.she herself said that she was dating him.so when a gf is staying with her bf,definitely the bf will expect her to get intimate with him.she was friends with his daughter n they were her guardians too.any girl of even small age would be knowing that living with a friend's father is wrong.she tolerated all abuse for years for her benefit.so I can't say that she was completely innocent.i blame her parents.though she left home fighting with them,they should have taken her back n supported her when she started staying with aditya.

That's true.the main blame is put on the man who misuses girls.even in casting couch it's the men who pressurize women n they surrender for their benefit.

Bold: Here I disagree. Even if women agree does not mean men should shamelessly ask for sleeping with them. Why can't they let these women go ahead without wanting something in return? In this way, only the women sleeping around will get ahead in life not the ones refusing to do so. So here men are mainly at fault for creating such situations in the first place. Will they like it if someone fu*k their sister or daughter with their consent?

Originally posted by: jasminerahul

On IF passport was shown n according to it she was not a minor.so most of the people blamed her along with aditya.actually she said that he drugged her n got intimate with her.she herself says that ,that time itself she suffered.still she continued staying with him.why?it's definitely for her benefit.if it was a normal girl in society, she would have tried to escape from that person.but she continued to be with him for 4 years.she herself said that she was dating him.so when a gf is staying with her bf,definitely the bf will expect her to get intimate with him.she was friends with his daughter n they were her guardians too.any girl of even small age would be knowing that living with a friend's father is wrong.she tolerated all abuse for years for her benefit.so I can't say that she was completely innocent.i blame her parents.though she left home fighting with them,they should have taken her back n supported her when she started staying with aditya.

That's true.the main blame is put on the man who misuses girls.even in casting couch it's the men who pressurize women n they surrender for their benefit.

You're not sure how grooming works I think

The age of consent was made for a reason, nd there's a reason why the older party is punished for being with an underage person(that's statutory rape). Any grown person can reach out to a 14-15-16-17 year old girl or boy nd proceed to have a predatory relationship by wanting to help with either money, or love, underage brain isnt that developed to make that decision so we cant blame it at all, even if the minor makes the advances, it's the adults responsibility to say no

An adult man should just have nothing to do with a 17 year old girl, even if she was 18, it's not illegal but still weird as he was already much grown up

All the examples u gave point that I relationship was abusive nd grooming, victims for a very long time don't understand that they are being taken advantage of or being abused, if he actually intoxicated nd did things to her, that goes even above statutory rape nd is rape, nd she didn't go away from him means that the manipulation was strong enough which is clear as she was very young, even adult woman many times don't get the strength to get out of such relationships, they get beaten, even after being abused, it takes a lot of time to get out of abuse, nd recognize abuse

I really dislike kangana, but I can't victim blame her like that

With casting couch, people have different opinions nd okay, but I personally can understand that a struggling actress even if she consents would go to the man to have a career if she can do nothing, it's d system that's messed up and when it comes to a minor, it's all under pocso act nd she doesn't have any power on that

Jasmine, you are elder than all of us and also married so you may know that manipulation thing is very serious. You can see in Mose Chhal show how the FL who was strong and ambitious now also gets manipulated by her doggie husband.

Another case is when a boyfriend or husband abuses his girlfriend or wife he starts apologizing and acting guilty giving false promises of not repeating his mistake and due to these emotional dramas they melt and decide to give another chance. But the cycle of abuse and fake apology continues to happen. Some gets out of it and some stuck in it forever. This vicious cycle thing was frequently talked about in Qubool Hai forum when Zoya would always forgive Asad for insulting and hurting her. So Kangana nay have stuck in that vicious cycle. But during her relationship with Adhyayan it was Adhyayan who was stuck in that vicious cycle as she would act emotional when he would be upset with her.

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