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Originally posted by: strancho

But Ekta Mukku will leave na for Khatro ke Khiladi. They are supposed to leave by 27th May. So its quite possible she would leave 3-4 days before. Also in DKP's other show the Shaadi started after 2 days of haldi

On kkk - good point but I wonder how will they do it? They still have another shaadi going on (albela) which is on the 18th this shaadi will be post that but then for that, they have to start shooting and koi bts filhaal toh hasn’t come (shayad Monday ko aaye?)

Either they do her close up shots or wrap up her role for now by closing the empire loophole. Because Anu ke birthday par when she exited randomly, there was a lot of negative feedback so maybe they’ll consider that? But I agree, justification will be tough so if at all, they will have to show it quite well!

Originally posted by: ektag06

my best guess:

That fan pic of hers (BTS) aaj ka shows a saree change. Even Paras ka yesterday bts had Nidhi in a diff dress - so going by that haldi shoot has ended.

They said aaj haldi and kal shaadi and babuji says ki shaadi tak sab saath rahenge or something toh they are probably going for some HAHK set up like antakshari raat mein.

Now that’s when babuji ka health may worsen and immediate surgery. That should go on for a week or so (guessing this track should start wed or thurs)

Toh next week mid se uske baad wale week tak this (which will take us to May 25th or so). And we may end up seeing the wedding post ipl

It's either God or the maker knows.😆

Makers have made a mockery of everything be it preg or heart problem.

Like Kinju baby..its her first trimester.. sometimes she needs others' help even to walk, sometimes starts dancing.

Now, baapuji, his problem is not like cough, cold..he has a heart problem and he is attending all functions. is it possible?? In this case, surgery should not be delayed.

seeing Kinju's baby condition, there is possibility that she might need hospitalization instead of Baapuji

ITV hai,kuch bhi ho sakta hai

last mei, agar audience ko kuch pasand nahi aaya toh

shaadi FFD kar ke , seedha honeymoon bhi dikha sakte hai

Originally posted by: ektag06

that Jaipur wedding no? They were in an outdoor shoot and there were no more kaands wahaan so made sense for them to wrap up (plus extra kharcha)

On kkk - good point but I wonder how will they do it? They still have another shaadi going on (albela) which is on the 18th this shaadi will be post that but then for that, they have to start shooting and koi bts filhaal toh hasn’t come (shayad Monday ko aaye?)

Either they do her close up shots or wrap up her role for now by closing the empire loophole. Because Anu ke birthday par when she exited randomly, there was a lot of negative feedback so maybe they’ll consider that? But I agree, justification will be tough so if at all, they will have to show it quite well!

I think even makers dont know what to serve us. They might have done shooting till tuesday-wednesday's episode. After that seeing how audience reacts they will decide whether to serve us more drama or lollipops. No matter whatever they serve they have to handle Mukku's exit properly.

Originally posted by: ChirpyKiya10

I want to share something on this statement.

It's about 15 years back, my friend's mother did not do kanyadaan of her daughter ( in fact of any daughter). According to her, her daughters are not koi vastu, jo mai daan mei doon. she was just 10th pass. Despite being less qualified, She ran cooking and baking classes, did a lot for women-trained them in Knitting sweaters on machines, and made them self-reliant.

She is no more; but seriously, I have not seen such a bold, confident lady who went against all the customs, her conservative family for her daughters.

Wow.. such women are so inspiring ❤❤❤

Hat's off👏

This is why I want Anupama makers to send out this msg.. it is a very popular show that is seen in almost every Indian household so it bound to help make a change!!

Originally posted by: Kitty584

Hmmm.. According to me.. the devi thing is all symbolic to respecting women.. but yes they need to be respected as human beings.. and not as goddesses.. but that is something very deeply ingrained in Indian culture..so it is probably very difficult to get rid of that notion..but acknowledging that a woman need not always be a devi was a good step in my opinion.. yours might differ and that's completely alright na.. different perspectives of the same thing!

I would actually want them to scrap off kanyadan and bidaai the entire thing about a girl being treated as a commodity that is being donated or sent away.. and the way these rituals are glorified..

No offence to any culture/custom.. but this is my opinion..

What do you guys think?

Woah! I wasn't thinking kanyadaan, commodity and all that.

In my view and like other also opined, the problem lies in putting women high on a pedestal as devi. Ghar ki Lakshmi, Annapoorna will set unnecessary high bar for women to meet. Which is not needed. Treat the other gender as another normal human is the simple ask.

Ghar ki Lakshmi indicating good luck charm also better not be used, because there will be people who will curse women for not bringing the good-luck charm, thus calling her manhoos. This has been mentioned several times in in this so-called progressive show. It is high time they stop it now. I strongly believe that this media has a larger reach into the deep rural pockets of the country. So, it is my opinion that the message sent must have a positive impact across all levels and not otherwise.

Originally posted by: ektag06

that Jaipur wedding no? They were in an outdoor shoot and there were no more kaands wahaan so made sense for them to wrap up (plus extra kharcha)

On kkk - good point but I wonder how will they do it? They still have another shaadi going on (albela) which is on the 18th this shaadi will be post that but then for that, they have to start shooting and koi bts filhaal toh hasn’t come (shayad Monday ko aaye?)

Either they do her close up shots or wrap up her role for now by closing the empire loophole. Because Anu ke birthday par when she exited randomly, there was a lot of negative feedback so maybe they’ll consider that? But I agree, justification will be tough so if at all, they will have to show it quite well!

@bold - I was also thinking that they my just get close up shots of her segements and pack her off. But, you seem to have high hope about closing loophole and all that, Ekta! 🤗❤️

Thinking of her last exit make me ROFL 🤣 No rhyme or reason and poof! she was gone.😆

Originally posted by: strancho

Yes you are right that in Indian culture women are expected to behave in certain ways. And if they don't then they are termed as charitraheen. Even men are supposed to be the family's bread earner. I don't agree with that also. But a woman's reputation gets degraded 10 times more than a man for any mistake. And unfortunately I know some people who thinks that a Man has free pass to do anything as a Man's reputation cannot be tarnished.

Good thing people are changing. People are thinking for themselves, and in my personal opinion everyone should be little selfish and not always think about others.

Now coming to Kanyadaan, giving daan to someone is considered as one of the greatest virtues in Indian culture as it means giving away some precious thing of your life to someone else without any expectations of getting anything in return. And the greatest daan anyone can give is their little girl (children are always little in their parents eyes) to someone else. The ritual of Kanyadaan is ripe with deep religious symbolisms. The groom is considered a representation of Lord Vishnu all through the wedding, and during Kanyadaan the parents are offering their daughter, a considerable piece of their existence, for his taking. This is considered to be the greatest offering one can present to the Supreme Being.

Now ofcourse the time and era has changed and rituals and rules should be according to that. Unfortunately marriage has become a business where they offer the groom and bride as a commodity. In my opinion the actual meaning of Kanyadaan has lost its meaning and importance in today's time.

I seriously do not know if it should be scraped or not as some people still hold those values. But human life should be stopped being treated as a commodity. Also any human being be a male/female/transgender should be treated as a human and nothing else.

Wow.. I didn't know this entire story behind the ritual but I would still say that giving away a human being.. in form of a donation.. is not something I would really want to see.. also the notion ki Kanyadaan ke baad ladki parayi hojati hai and all that..sounds very conservative but it somewhere prevails even in educated households .. also bidaai is something I doesn't understand..why does the girl have to leave her house.. either both leave or everyone stays together..upto the couple to decide..

Originally posted by: ektag06

my best guess:

That fan pic of hers (BTS) aaj ka shows a saree change. Even Paras ka yesterday bts had Nidhi in a diff dress - so going by that haldi shoot has ended.

They said aaj haldi and kal shaadi and babuji says ki shaadi tak sab saath rahenge or something toh they are probably going for some HAHK set up like antakshari raat mein.

Now that’s when babuji ka health may worsen and immediate surgery. That should go on for a week or so (guessing this track should start wed or thurs)

Toh next week mid se uske baad wale week tak this (which will take us to May 25th or so). And we may end up seeing the wedding post ipl

Hmmm sounds possible🤔🤔

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

Woah! I wasn't thinking kanyadaan, commodity and all that.

In my view and like other also opined, the problem lies in putting women high on a pedestal as devi. Ghar ki Lakshmi, Annapoorna will set unnecessary high bar for women to meet. Which is not needed. Treat the other gender as another normal human is the simple ask.

Ghar ki Lakshmi indicating good luck charm also better not be used, because there will be people who will curse women for not bringing the good-luck charm, thus calling her manhoos. This has been mentioned several times in in this so-called progressive show. It is high time they stop it now. I strongly believe that this media has a larger reach into the deep rural pockets of the country. So, it is my opinion that the message sent must have a positive impact across all levels and not otherwise.

I completely agree!!!

I wish they would concentrate on these social messages since they have a wonderful platform!!

Originally posted by: Kitty584

Wow.. I didn't know this entire story behind the ritual but I would still say that giving away a human being.. in form of a donation.. is not something I would really want to see.. also the notion ki Kanyadaan ke baad ladki parayi hojati hai and all that..sounds very conservative but it somewhere prevails even in educated households .. also bidaai is something I doesn't understand..why does the girl have to leave her house.. either both leave or everyone stays together..upto the couple to decide..

I seriously do not like that word donation in context of kanyadaan. May be because I have always associated donation is something that is done in monetary terms. Even I did not like Kanyadaan and during my cousin's marriage I asked my uncle not to do it. At that time my mom explained me. I did not understand then. Now I do.

I am with you on this: " Kanyadaan ke baad ladki parayi hojati hai". I even wonder what is the significance of rituals and all those vows and pheras that a groom and bride takes. It is being said that Aginidev (Fire God.. We have so many gods and goddesses) is the witness of the union. But where these vows go when people take divorce? What is the use of these rituals? Why don't they do reverse pheras? Even the so called ritual of giving something in daughter's marriage is ridiculous. A girl is coming to someone's house leaving her family, what else needs to be given?