In the very beginning of Sneha track , Shiva was the one who went on and on by imposing his thoughts and insecurities on Raavi , never once bothering to have a conversation or considering her opinion. Though she was unaware of her feelings towards him, she took all the nonsense in for a long time until her patience broke in the kawad Yatra mandir sequence. That was the limit and Shiva was instrumental in bringing her to that breaking point .
Raavi being raavi forgot and never really minded it all soon enough and came back for family .
Then Suman took charge by pushing her to her limits again with Shiva in tow ( his intensions though to get sache ehsaas but his actions werent helping raavi ) with 3rd angle and what not .. she reached her limits of tolerance and also understood her feelings..stopped the stupid engagement by herself and again forgave and forgot what happened moved on with Shiva .
Now again it's Shiva ka turn to push her to her max limits with IVF kaand and divorce kaand .. she became the dheet , Pyar mein Pagal raavi , everyone else joined , pushed her to the brink of insanity , dhara even drugged her and she broke down on mehendi night in drunken stupor ..
Do you see the pattern here ? Shiva - suman - Shiva - next ?
Suman is the answer .
Now trying to bring in this stupid regressive thinking suman to put aag in Raavi ka life. It's now interesting to see where Shiva will be this time ? Suman ke pallu mein chupa or ravi ke Saath stand lete hue ? And again all this for really no fault of Raavi .
Her not having the support system is the problem and I can really empathize with her when she wonders if suman was right ..this is what constantly living with toxic circumstances lead one into . There is no breaking unless one has the will to and she loves pandya parivaar too much to muster that courage. Now she really doesn't have anymore maika too , so all the more alone she is .
Shiva has also been in these toxic circumstances himself too much ( not as much as raavi though ) to realize that what is going on is wrong . Infact he has also been turned to being the same toxic person for last many months before he turned new leaf as raavi ka Pyaar recently . So him recognizing the pattern is going to be a long road ahead. Usko uske khud ke life ka thikana nahi hai , baap samaan Bhai usko jealous Bolta hai , bhabhi maa igones his hurt and wants him to apologize to rishita coz she is the bhabhi , makes batwara plans without his consent . He doesn't see anything wrong with this . He has grown up in this kind of environment .so it's going to be a long road for him to realize the toxicity , let alone understand raavi ka position .
These 2 need all the understanding to navigate their life now . No scope of misunderstandings whatsoever. If there is another mu then it's only doing to be a disaster. Disagreements are fine and much needed too but no misunderstandings .