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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: simply.meghana

Got any more tips Nikki? 🤣

dont stay in one city. Find a partner whose parents live in different far away city! Trust me staying together is so very difficult and detrimental to your privacy🤣 🤣

And always make your separate finances. Bharosa nai he bakiyon ka. Dekha nai grandchild or 5 crore. Kaha se number laye ye b nai pata 🤣🤣🤣

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Abhaythevampire

dont stay in one city. Find a partner whose parents live in different far away city! Trust me staying together is so very difficult and detrimental to your privacy🤣 🤣

And always make your separate finances. Bharosa nai he bakiyon ka. Dekha nai grandchild or 5 crore. Kaha se number laye ye b nai pata 🤣🤣🤣

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 life hacks to avoid lawsuits and give practicals ☺️🤣

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Abhaythevampire

dont stay in one city. Find a partner whose parents live in different far away city! Trust me staying together is so very difficult and detrimental to your privacy🤣 🤣

And always make your separate finances. Bharosa nai he bakiyon ka. Dekha nai grandchild or 5 crore. Kaha se number laye ye b nai pata 🤣🤣🤣

See I also want to live separately. Your words gave me some validation that I am not the only one. I was talking about this to a friend like a normal discussion. And she end up giving me lecture how I should respect my in laws, live with them not try to separate their son.
And I was like I am not separating anyone. Heck i am not even married yet. I just said i prefer separate living arrangement rather than misunderstand fight while living together for my own privacy sake. It was crazy.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: simply.meghana

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 life hacks to avoid lawsuits and give practicals ☺️🤣

🤣🤣🤣 correct. Sweet freedoms 😆
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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: 07RB

See I also want to live separately. Your words gave me some validation that I am not the only one. I was talking about this to a friend like a normal discussion. And she end up giving me lecture how I should respect my in laws, live with them not try to separate their son.
And I was like I am not separating anyone. Heck i am not even married yet. I just said i prefer separate living arrangement rather than misunderstand fight while living together for my own privacy sake. It was crazy.

i feel u. I have such friends. I call such people self righteous. I mean come on giving respect does not mean cave to all their whimsy and sacrifice your own happiness. I dont even get that logic. And u wont be able to push this logic through their thick skulls either so i have given up on such friends. I just tell them ye sab tumhare karm he tum iska fal bhugtoge mujhe mat bolna and mere karm k fal me bhugtugi!
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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: 07RB

she end up giving me lecture how I should respect my in laws, live with them not try to separate their son.
And I was like I am not separating anyone.

i particularly hate this line of thinking. If i truly have that much power on someone i would be hella arrogant but i know i don't. At the end choices are on people themselves.

And what separate son! Hindu scriptures me likha he beta 25 ho jaye uske baad parents ko apne bete ko kuch bolne ka hak nai. Advice de sakte he but lastly uska choice hota he. Even law states that after marriage life partner comes before parents! Scripture say that life partner is half your life not hust some relative like parents siblings etc etc etc. unko bolo k ab kon true bhartiya sanskaar bhul gaya he😆

U know i want to add one ritual to marriage ceremony. Kanyadaan k jese var-daan b hona chahiye. Parents give up all their rights on their child because now he belongs to wife just as girls k parents k karte he! 😛

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Abhaythevampire


U know i want to add one ritual to marriage ceremony. Kanyadaan k jese var-daan b hona chahiye. Parents give up all their rights on their child because now he belongs to wife just as girls k parents k karte he! 😛

I am stealing this idea😆

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: 07RB

I am stealing this idea😆

yes please do! We need to promote it enough that it becomes new normal! I m never having children but if u do follow it for them also ! 😆
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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Abhaythevampire

yes please do! We need to promote it enough that it becomes new normal! I m never having children but if u do follow it for them also ! 😆

If i have a son then definitely.
I have seen some mil fighting with dil because it became a struggle for power over son and household. I have seen some real fighting over this. 😆
makes me really scared.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: 07RB

If i have a son then definitely.
I have seen some mil fighting with dil because it became a struggle for power over son and household. I have seen some real fighting over this. 😆
makes me really scared.

its extremly problematic. I mean that son is human not some object that people fight over it! I have this friend couple and man that girl suffers so much because guy’s mother is always busy playing power play games. And poor guy, he is like crushed between the two 🤣

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