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Agr bhudiya ke man me mail nhi hota bolte time to tu kyu kudta hai jab vo Dhara ko kuch bolti hai to, bolne Diya kar na vo bhi use 10 15 sal se janti tb to kud jata hai bhabhi ke beta banke

ajj pati banne ke bari aayi to Gyan Dene pahuch gya

I want this fire thing leading to ravi leaving the house..let suman telk she is the cause..and ravi without even waiting for shivas whitewashing of suman, just leaves😵

Saw the synopsis. Didn't feel like opening the episode kyuki even before watching i am sure shiva ne to stand liya nahi hoga raavi ke liye. Now i don't even feel like watching their romance. Yeh sahi hai, band kamre mai biwi ke saath romance Karo par sabke saamne uske feelings aur respect ki kadar na karo.😆

Originally posted by: spdp

Suman is greedy unreal mother. She didn’t think once, why Rishita left, how her son ran away for comforts of his sasural.
shiva didn’t say today, SO wish he should have. Atleast something. but he heard. And hoping soon he will speak. It has to come & had to come soon.

I didn’t like Suman’s comment on jwellery part. There is motiben’s who is trying break them all- and hope she doesn’t fasaao raavi into this.

Once again, Dhara’s & Rishita’s everything is being forgiven. Not called for. And Raavi, w/o any fault of hers is being told nasty stuff.

spdp, you and me have been DILs for so long, I have better in-laws than you do (from the stories you have shared for the past 1 year, I know them all). I have been told few things not by my MIL but my husband's extended family- especially his buas. He could not keep quiet and my husband is not the kind who says it in their face or rude but he can be snarky, sarcastic, whatever you want to call. He did it for me that day, and that was the last day any of his buas said anything bad about me. When we came back home, my MIL was the first one to appreciate him, my FIL was little upset that his own son gave it back to his sister. But those are the things, you look forward to. His chachis who are also bahus, were appreciative of him and said this is what they have been going through for years and finally somebody said it. This happened about 16 years ago during my Son's first birthday when we went to India to celebrate with family.

I am treated with utmost respect since that incident and no one dares to say anything to my face, they might gossip behind my back but I am never going to know. They all know how my husband can give it back to them.

Originally posted by: deeps07

This is why I didn't want SR to happen..I dnt like shiva anywhere near her unless he supports and stands up for her ..rather than see her just for romance purpose..🤢

They use Raavi only for showing Shiva ka romance angle, his love interest, vrna Shahrukh Bhai or Raavi ke ss me 19 20 ka hi farak hoga

Originally posted by: deeps07

I want this fire thing leading to ravi leaving the house..let suman telk she is the cause..and ravi without even waiting for shivas whitewashing of suman, just leaves😵

Wooahh.. That would be a nice track as well. They can show shiva regretting, his guilt trip followed by him shutting up suman & then searching for raavi madly

Originally posted by: mpks1

I don't want to say anything more about Shiva except he knows Raavi is very gullible and she can be easily talked into believing BS.

I too blame Raavi for losing her self respect and sticking to him.

Even Dhara made fun of her the other day during their kitchen conversation, 'har waqt Shiva ke aas paas hi ghoomti rehati abb bol rahi hai darr lag raha hai"

You know how insulting that could be, Dhara indirectly told Raavi that she is desperate to have Shiva in her life, that's exactly happened in the divorce track. They showed Raavi to be lacking self respect and desperate to remarry Shiva😕

Remember Dhara and Rishita called her characterless in Navratri still Raavi continued to be free ki maid.

Mujhe Shiva Haveli time se khatakne laga tha

When he said isse bachana nahi chahiye tha haddiyaan tootne deni thi, when Raavi waa ready to jump for his gatiya maa ke kangan tab bolta mereko pata tha mere bhai mujhe bacha lete, he traded her for kangan lekin ek shikan nahi aayi iske chehre per.

We never saw him regretting sorry toh dur ki baat hain.

Shiva jese husbands are worst who lure without self respect and madly in love girls and unki life destroy ho jaati hain.

Bcoz woh khud inhe izzat nahi dete toh inki families bhi bezati karti hain and as these girls forget it bcoz bedroom mein ladke sweet behave karte hain.

Originally posted by: mpks1

spdp, you and me have been DILs for so long, I have better in-laws than you do (from the stories you have shared for the past 1 year, I know them all). I have been told few things not by my MIL but my husband's extended family- especially his buas. He could not keep quiet and my husband is not the kind who says it in their face or rude but he can be snarky, sarcastic, whatever you want to call. He did it for me that day, and that was the last day any of his buas said anything bad about me. When we came back home, my MIL was the first one to appreciate him, my FIL was little upset that his own son gave it back to his sister. But those are the things, you look forward to. His chachis who are also bahus, were appreciative of him and said this is what they have been going through for years and finally somebody said it. This happened about 16 years ago during my Son's first birthday when we went to India to celebrate with family.

I am treated with utmost respect since that incident and no one dares to say anything to my face, they might gossip behind my back but I am never going to know. They all know how my husband can give it back to them.

Absolutely!
have said it before, I could survive because my husband stood by me!
If anything happened in front of him- he will make sure to give it back.

my inlaw side family & family is cunning enough to most of the time to say things when he is not around. As they know I don’t go complaining or tell him what happened.

Though post kids I started giving back too- then and there.
everything has a limit.

anf from shiva’s reaction I have tiny hope, not too long before he snaps.

and his character: too much under influence of his maax2/3.
weaning phase will take painful process- but he must and soon do it. He saw & heard what Suman said & how GauRa responded.

He knows there is no one else for Raavi other than him. Choice is his.

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Originally posted by: Gimmeitt

Wooahh.. That would be a nice track as well. They can show shiva regretting, his guilt trip followed by him shutting up suman & then searching for raavi madly

Please don't expect this, I'm saying this from past experience

Everyone will shout at Raavi for being irresponsible and immature and Shiva will ask her to apologise to everyone and especially Dhara because how tensed she got and Suman because her action made Suman anxious and guilt, what if something would have happened to Suman in the meantime, how stupid of her to not think about anyone else than herself, how selfish is Raavi

At Janu's house

Motiben is getting things ready for the pooja. She is giving instructions to the workers where to put the gaddhe for sitting.

In the mean time Dev is giving instructions to the decorators, he wants white flowers with yellow flowers, which the decorator is refusing to put up.

Janu is discussing the guest list for the pooja.

Rishita is sitting on a chair, Dev comes to her and says, "aaj mein bahut kush hoon, Rishita, finally hum donon ke families, ek saat ikaatta honewaale hai, aur woh bhi kushi kushi, meine saari umeedein chod dhi thi. par hamare iss baby ne , donon families ko ek baar phit jod diya"

Rishita hugs Dev and he gives her flowers.

Motiben says guest list is fine "par tumne aaj ki tayyari barabar kar liya naa"

Janu says, 'Motiben aap chinta mat kjiye aaj ke function ki tayariyan acche se kiya meine"