Molkki Chatting Corner #58 - Page 92

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

OMG! there is hot air balloon as well? I went bonkers just watching that dance clip ( was it sangeet or mehandi).

It was watching a thriller... waiting for her to fall into the pool due to lack of visibility from the ghoonghat she had covering her face, twirling right at the edge of it

I want to know. How extravagant are middle class family wedding celebrations in India now-a-days?

Mujhe lagta hai.. Ki ab India mai bhi families nuclear ho rahi hai... To jab bhi mauka milta hai to ve sab saath hone ka masti karne ka bahana dhundhte hai.. So ab grand scale par hii wedding rakhi jaati hai taki sab aa sake aur kuch dino ke liye hii sahi saath reh sake..

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

I watched the clip of AK visiting the SH and discussed about it on AF since it was posted there. I could not sympathize with him when he shed tears. Did not find anything painful in that scene. I felt disconnected.

Par maine lagbhag puri series dekh lii hai....so mujhe to vo scene bahut beautiful laga...🤧

That one tear...🤧

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

I am not referring to rituals. It is entirely up to the parties involved. Also okay with normal spending within means.

The extavagance, pomp & show, is that also norm? like it is depicted in these TV shows?

It is becoming the norm, day by day. TV has been a very major influence in this regard.

My friend got married some years back....she had hired a choreographer who used to come every weekend for almost 2 months

Originally posted by: ReenVora

Weddings done with full rituals are always fun to attend... The concept of spending on weddings irrespective of the class is still important in Indian society.... People are still loving the concept of weddings done with functions... However there are people who also believe that it's a waste of money and donot like all this .

However if you are talking about middle class people this class enjoys every bit of such weddings full families attend even if they have to travel it's ok with them .. And lower class people have such weddings only .. Even if they struggle to meet their ends...

These include the domestic help class..

Depends on what they prefer di...agar lower class wale apni chizo se jyada karna chahe to kar sakte hai...aisa koi jaruri nahi hai...🙄

But aaj kal to log chahe loan kyu na lena pade.. Shaadi aisi grand hii karna pasand karte hai..🙄🤦‍♀️

Originally posted by: kenika

yes...i think...ek baar to puri family se milne ka mauka milta hai... Long lost relatives bhi milte hai...so i think haa agar unhe travel karna pade to bhi they are ok with that..🙄

Depends on what they prefer di...agar lower class wale apni chizo se jyada karna chahe to kar sakte hai...aisa koi jaruri nahi hai...🙄

But aaj kal to log chahe loan kyu na lena pade.. Shaadi aisi grand hii karna pasand karte hai..🙄🤦‍♀️

@bold- this is my main problem with large scale weddings. There is a lot of societal pressure to make weddings grand and when the family cannot afford it they take loans which they keep repaying all their life.

And that is how daughters start becoming 'burdens'

Originally posted by: Red_eyes94

Hi

How's you..❤️

Originally posted by: Red_eyes94

https://www.instagram.com/p/Cc7CbSFIGaa/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

My vanila coffee

I don't drink coffee.😁

Originally posted by: Manasi_16

Good morning everyone 🤗

Kaisa ja raha hai din.. Busy person..😃

Originally posted by: Manasi_16

The families of Akshu n Abhi are hardly middle-class! They are certainly shown to be filthy rich!

But no matter rhe class, most families these days tend to spend way beyond their means. Even in Maharashtrians, who earlier used to have only a very small scale engagement n wedding, we now have a full blown mehendi, Sangeet, cocktail parties and what not

Humare yaha to jiinhe lower class kaha jaata hai.. Unki shaadiyaan to bhai high class se bhi jyada kharche wali hoti hai..🤪

Originally posted by: Manasi_16

Maybe bcoz I also saw only this clip, I also couldn't emphasize with Anuj.

Maybe the context was missing?

I think agar kam se kam.. Aapne sirf vo pura episode hii dekh liya hota to bhi shayad aapko connection feel hota...

Aapne sirf ek clip dekhi isliye connection feel nahi ho raha..🙄