Bade Achhe Lagte hain 2 EDT #30 - Page 26

Originally posted by: Hero_Coconut

Kuch bhi🤣

By the way, I liked MM's fishtail braiding today. See, MM is a good hairstylist too

Originally posted by: Zanutix

THIS IS SO GOOD 😭

The VM was indeed good they can be stick on their bed for 24/7 we don't mind

Originally posted by: averma1

Exactly, ask me my son is in that stage, a 13 year old will test boundaries, think for themselves and start having opinions by observing . My son is my baby, he will come hug me, his day does not start or end without a hug and kiss from me, when he gets back home I am the first person he has to see . However despite that if he does not agree with something my husband or I say he will question us directly and even call us out on it to our face.
13 year olds are very sensitive and , in fact even looking back 3-4 years ago if he felt something is not right he questions it. For example my mom in law has a hot and cold relation with me . She has never lived with me but for some unknown reason has a very animostic attitude . however if she feels like talking to me she will else totally ignore me even on a video call. I don’t want my sons relation with any other family member to be influenced or affected because our wave lengths do not match so usually when she would call I would ask after her health and the rest of the family and excuse myself and go do something in another room so she could talk freely to her son and grandson. My son noticed this a few times that I never stayed in the same room for long, or that her tone while conversing with me was different than when she spoke to my husband . He directly asked my MIL it seems like you don’t like my mom very much. Can you tell me why as I don’t see anything wrong that my mom is doing. . My MIL was so shocked , I had to cover up for her and make excuses. Later after the conversation my son came and hugged me saying I love you , you are the best mom.

I am saying this to prove that children these days observe and form their own opinions, they have a strong sense of what is right or what is not just by watching people around them. Either the people who sketched Eshans character have no knowledge of kids and teens in particular, or their idea of a 13 year old is totally off the mark. Yes this age can be difficult to navigate but as a parent or elder if your child is rude or misbehaves you will correct their behavior right away if appropriate or later on have a conversation about that. This time lays the foundation for the future adult. So Eshan not being called to task for his behavior by any of the adults is totally not acceptable, he is in a new environment and adjusting, then makers should not show him going to the bakery or reaching Rams office by himself. No matter how nerdy he is. As a parent I would never allow my son to be out and about by himself that too in a new place where no one knows him and he does not know anyone.
I really think the introduction of Eshan as a parallel to Ram is wasted. Ram has a very high emotional quotient, he can sense others emotional state , he is very observant even though he may appear nonchalant. He knows exactly what words to use to bolster someone when they are feeling low. Today he knew MM had just had a rough time and was emotionally vulnerable

( though Mm ko dekh kar personally mujhe nahi laga but chodo ) he was quick to praise her looks , make her feel appreciated and loved.
We have seen several instances when even being a goofball he has said the right words in the right situation. Whereas Eshan is focused only on his love for the 🤮dad and his insecurity and separation anxiety.

I better stop I can write pages and pages on this but will not bore you, by now you all know how much I abhor MS, Varun and Eshan is coming very close to that category, he has lost whatever sympathy I had for him as a kid estranged from his mother.

Agree with your thoughts! The whole story of Eshan and Varun is chaotic. They should have stuck to the earlier plan of Chintu and Sara's husband in Mumbai where she had to go and feed him or help with his homework.

Can anyone give that small 2-3 minutes scene where Sara told Pri to take care of the bakery so she can go home? Please. Pretty Please.

Mages: I will need your help. Stand by.

Originally posted by: Mahi78

It is all in her hand, she can sit and explain him, otherwise left to his father he would be on the road begging. Where is all the money for his headphones, clothes, food and studies coming deform if not for her? How dare he speak to his mother that way! It is totally unacceptable

One question I do have , Sara knew that Varun is not the biological father , while she was working why would she leave her child with Varun. Did they have a normal relationship but it faded over time due to distance? If the current equation is what had always existed I would not have kept my child so close to a man who did not love me, how could I expect him to love my child that too not his own blood. I would have kept him closer to home with my family pitching in especially since she was the breadwinner for MM/ Sood family , her namesake husband and her child and MS also took a cut from her earnings.
I see nothing good in Varun, so to believe that he genuinely loves Eshan is difficult, I think he has his own agenda to serve and he does not hesitate to use or manipulate the son he supposedly loves for his own purpose. Even today him bringing food was to show down Sara, to make her realize that see you offered but Eshan refused your offer but right away I am giving him food and he is happily eating it.

Originally posted by: averma1

One question I do have , Sara knew that Varun is not the biological father , while she was working why would she leave her child with Varun. Did they have a normal relationship but it faded over time due to distance? If the current equation is what had always existed I would not have kept my child so close to a man who did not love me, how could I expect him to love my child that too not his own blood. I would have kept him closer to home with my family pitching in especially since she was the breadwinner for MM/ Sood family , her namesake husband and her child and MS also took a cut from her earnings.
I see nothing good in Varun, so to believe that he genuinely loves Eshan is difficult, I think he has his own agenda to serve and he does not hesitate to use or manipulate the son he supposedly loves for his own purpose. Even today him bringing food was to show down Sara, to make her realize that see you offered but Eshan refused your offer but right away I am giving him food and he is happily eating it.

I had the same question - who leaves your son under the custody of a stepfather ... nowadays we know so many cases of child abuse ... Sara was cheated on by someone and still she believes her husband so much to live the custody of her only child with him

Originally posted by: tirchinazar

By the way, I liked MM's fishtail braiding today. See, MM is a good hairstylist too

Only you could.. Would... Notice that 😂😂😂

Originally posted by: tirchinazar

go and analyze Tamma Tamma song

Aaj ka homework hai tera

Originally posted by: tirchinazar

I had the same question - who leaves your son under the custody of a stepfather ... nowadays we know so many cases of child abuse ... Sara was cheated on by someone and still she believes her husband so much to live the custody of her only child with him

Sara is shown as everything P is not. 2 daughters equally traumatised by their father but turning out to be polar opposites. P overly negative and non trusting and S overly trusting and optimistic

Originally posted by: Doodle

Agree with your thoughts! The whole story of Eshan and Varun is chaotic. They should have stuck to the earlier plan of Chintu and Sara's husband in Mumbai where she had to go and feed him or help with his homework.

Can anyone give that small 2-3 minutes scene where Sara told Pri to take care of the bakery so she can go home? Please. Pretty Please.

Mages: I will need your help. Stand by.

Check this video. Watch from 14.28 to 14.55.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RdGRDBf-aRs&ab_channel=SETIndia

Originally posted by: tirchinazar

Some clues for you

Nandini and Varun don’t know each other

Varun and Krish never met till now

Sarah and Krish never met either!

Has Maitri and Varun met?🤣🤣

How about Krish and Neeraj?🤣🤣🤣