I genuinely want to know why abhimanyu is so crazy about akshara?

I get he fell for her voice, kindness, sweet face but is that all ?

I don't think knowing someone's personality traits can make you a person who is so crazily in love. You become this crazy in love after you've spend good amount of time with that person and have beeautiful, funny moments.

I'm sure there must be other good sanskari singer girls in udaipur. So why only akshara? That's the question.

Abhimanyu was a person just not into girls. Suddenly his life has become about a girl and everything she does. What makes him so go crazy about her?

I know loving someone doesn't need a reason but i feel this soul connection is highlighted too much in these season. We have hardly seen akshu abhi talk like normal human beings. Instead of cheesy sequences, i would prefer if they actually talk. It's like we are being made to believe they are a couple but we are not shown how. In real life, couples dont just keep romancing and dreaming about each other- it's about how much you enjoy talking to each other. There were so many interactions between naksh and kaira- we are hardly shown anything here. All we get is abhi akshu doing flying kissies, abhi becoming akshu's rescuer- be it goons , she getting drunk, or they talk about aarohi

It looks like they are obsessed with marriage but why are they so obsessed? Marriage is just a means of securing the bond, people should be more obsessed with spending time with each other but whenever we see abhira spend time,its about their marriage talks thats so strangeee. Couples are madly in love, yet they are not obsessed with marriage, here we are made to show abhi loves akshu so much he wants to just get married. Maybe his hormones are too excited. 😆 As apart from that , they can do pretty much everything but we've hardly seen anything apart from that - like normal couple conversations.

Also, I find it weird that people keep calling aarohi names here. I'm not an aarohi fan. I like akshu more but i want to know what aarohi is done so big ? Yes she manipulated akshara and mislead abhi about fire incident truth, asked her sister to stay away from her as she doesn't share emotional attachment with her and has done many immature things but she is genuinely concerned about her sister when she is in trouble. Why a normal human being is being hated to this extent? Yes she is insecure, jealous type of person but as i have seen backstory and someone in the forum has posted this- i genuinely feel akshara is this super clingy annoying sister who has no life apart from babysitting her sister and aarohi is a normal girl of today's time who doesnt focus much on emotionall attachments like akshara .

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In support of it I want to point out two incidents from the sisters' bachpan... Don't know if you saw that.. One is when they are both in their prams and their parents Kartik and Sirat were in her club, practicing for a match. When suddenly some logs that were kept in a corner are about to fall right on Aarohi's crib. The parents notice it and come running but they wouldn't have been able to reach in time.. So Akshu being the toddler she was still, reaches out and pushes way the pram and Aarohi is saved. Everybody is amazed at the way Akshu seems to have a connection to her sister, even at other times they are shown to laugh and cry together. Another time Aarohi gets lost as some couple with an identical pram roll her away and leave their baby in her place when Kairav and Vansh were supposed to be taking care of her. Later it gets resolved.. while the Goenkas are all upset over seeing a different baby, the other couple comes and bring Aarohi and everything is sorted out. However years later when Akshu is in her pre teens and Aarohi is 8-9 years old, Kairav tells the sisters of this incident.. And then Akshu starts having nightmares of losing her sister, of Aarohi getting lost.. So such ott scenes were shown from the beginning to underlay this weird love Akshu has for Aarohi. It was this way from before the parents' death and the family were aware. It wasn't even because Akshu was conditioned to be like that by Sirat as so many people here have claimed, because Sirat never did anything like that.. She actually often scolded Aarohi whenever she put herself forward and suppressed Akshu.. In fact it used to look like Sirat inclined more towards Akshu than Aarohi, which I think is the basis for Aarohi's insecurity. And also the fact that Manish never fully accepted Sirat into the family and would often compare her unfavourably with Naira and her upper class family..and many times Aarohi overhears it even. That's why I never agree to the point which is raised that Goenkas have spoiled Aarohi by blindly loving her and pushing Akshu away to keep her happy. It's probably more like to compensate for Manish's discrimination Akhilesh and Swarna might have given her some extra attention.. But Akshu was always the reigning queen in their hearts and Aarohi is aware of it even if it isn't overtly shown..and that's the thorn for her. After all, I am thinking, why does Aarohi keep mentioning that she is alone, she's always been alone? There must be some reason for that.. And from what I saw of the sisters from the beginning, Aarohi has not been actively manipulating and emotionally 'abusing' Akshu since they were kids.. She was only shown to push Akshu away and not want to do everything with her.. But the concern was there always..like when they come to know that Akshu is Sirat's step daughter Aarohi worries for her and wants to comfort and assure her that she is still her real sister. But every now and then her competitiveness and insecurities would get the upper hand. The parents die just a few days after that and the girls don't even have a chance to talk and understand the issues with their father after coming to know the facts. So to say that the parents conditioned the girls in such a way is FALSE. A lot is said on how Akshu had to stay away from her family because of Aarohi but then in the twelve years after the parents' death, it's only in the last three that she goes away, presumably to pursue her studies. Aarohi does say hurtfully that those were the best years of her life, but it doesn't mean that she was the one who drove her away.. That point is unresolved.. Aarohi's active wronging of Akshu started only with the Abhimanyu matter. Mine is a minority opinion, but initially it would have looked to Aarohi, it's understandable I feel, that Abhimanyu was rightly hers because his family want her as their bahu, and to her mind she is better suited.. Being a cold person who doesn't even understand love, her being attracted to Abhimanyu and materially matching him is seen by her as what would develop into love.. That's why she accepts his indecent proposal too bcz she thinks his mistaken infatuation for Akshu due to her singing will eventually wear off. Anyways, so Akshu's love for Aarohi is definitely beyond what is normal or usual, but it isn't some neurotic obsession and she hasn't been blackmailed or manipulated by either her mother or Aarohi to be this way.

I neither understand akshara for her deep love for aarohi nor do i understand abhimanyu's deep love for akshara- where are these coming from?

I really hope they don't make aarohi a vamp. A topper doctor reduced to a clown who has nothing to do in life but create kaands in her sister and jija's life- that's so regressive and unrealistic to watch.

Originally posted by: borntorule12

I get he fell for her voice, kindness, sweet face but is that all ?

I don't think knowing someone's personality traits can make you a person who is so crazily in love. You become this crazy in love after you've spend good amount of time with that person and have beeautiful, funny moments.

I'm sure there must be other good sanskari singer girls in udaipur. So why only akshara? That's the question.

Abhimanyu was a person just not into girls. Suddenly his life has become about a girl and everything she does. What makes him so go crazy about her?

I know loving someone doesn't need a reason but i feel this soul connection is highlighted too much in these season. We have hardly seen akshu abhi talk like normal human beings. Instead of cheesy sequences, i would prefer if they actually talk. It's like we are being made to believe they are a couple but we are not shown how. In real life, couples dont just keep romancing and dreaming about each other- it's about how much you enjoy talking to each other. There were so many interactions between naksh and kaira- we are hardly shown anything here. All we get is abhi akshu doing flying kissies, abhi becoming akshu's rescuer- be it goons , she getting drunk, or they talk about aarohi

It looks like they are obsessed with marriage but why are they so obsessed? Marriage is just a means of securing the bond, people should be more obsessed with spending time with each other but whenever we see abhira spend time,its about their marriage talks thats so strangeee. Couples are madly in love, yet they are not obsessed with marriage, here we are made to show abhi loves akshu so much he wants to just get married. Maybe his hormones are too excited. 😆 As apart from that , they can do pretty much everything but we've hardly seen anything apart from that - like normal couple conversations.

Also, I find it weird that people keep calling aarohi names here. I'm not an aarohi fan. I like akshu more but i want to know what aarohi is done so big ? Yes she manipulated akshara and mislead abhi about fire incident truth, asked her sister to stay away from her as she doesn't share emotional attachment with her and has done many immature things but she is genuinely concerned about her sister when she is in trouble. Why a normal human being is being hated to this extent? Yes she is insecure, jealous type of person but as i have seen backstory and someone in the forum has posted this- i genuinely feel akshara is this super clingy annoying sister who has no life apart from babysitting her sister and aarohi is a normal girl of today's time who doesnt focus much on emotionall attachments like akshara .

READ THIS :

In support of it I want to point out two incidents from the sisters' bachpan... Don't know if you saw that.. One is when they are both in their prams and their parents Kartik and Sirat were in her club, practicing for a match. When suddenly some logs that were kept in a corner are about to fall right on Aarohi's crib. The parents notice it and come running but they wouldn't have been able to reach in time.. So Akshu being the toddler she was still, reaches out and pushes way the pram and Aarohi is saved. Everybody is amazed at the way Akshu seems to have a connection to her sister, even at other times they are shown to laugh and cry together. Another time Aarohi gets lost as some couple with an identical pram roll her away and leave their baby in her place when Kairav and Vansh were supposed to be taking care of her. Later it gets resolved.. while the Goenkas are all upset over seeing a different baby, the other couple comes and bring Aarohi and everything is sorted out. However years later when Akshu is in her pre teens and Aarohi is 8-9 years old, Kairav tells the sisters of this incident.. And then Akshu starts having nightmares of losing her sister, of Aarohi getting lost.. So such ott scenes were shown from the beginning to underlay this weird love Akshu has for Aarohi. It was this way from before the parents' death and the family were aware. It wasn't even because Akshu was conditioned to be like that by Sirat as so many people here have claimed, because Sirat never did anything like that.. She actually often scolded Aarohi whenever she put herself forward and suppressed Akshu.. In fact it used to look like Sirat inclined more towards Akshu than Aarohi, which I think is the basis for Aarohi's insecurity. And also the fact that Manish never fully accepted Sirat into the family and would often compare her unfavourably with Naira and her upper class family..and many times Aarohi overhears it even. That's why I never agree to the point which is raised that Goenkas have spoiled Aarohi by blindly loving her and pushing Akshu away to keep her happy. It's probably more like to compensate for Manish's discrimination Akhilesh and Swarna might have given her some extra attention.. But Akshu was always the reigning queen in their hearts and Aarohi is aware of it even if it isn't overtly shown..and that's the thorn for her. After all, I am thinking, why does Aarohi keep mentioning that she is alone, she's always been alone? There must be some reason for that.. And from what I saw of the sisters from the beginning, Aarohi has not been actively manipulating and emotionally 'abusing' Akshu since they were kids.. She was only shown to push Akshu away and not want to do everything with her.. But the concern was there always..like when they come to know that Akshu is Sirat's step daughter Aarohi worries for her and wants to comfort and assure her that she is still her real sister. But every now and then her competitiveness and insecurities would get the upper hand. The parents die just a few days after that and the girls don't even have a chance to talk and understand the issues with their father after coming to know the facts. So to say that the parents conditioned the girls in such a way is FALSE. A lot is said on how Akshu had to stay away from her family because of Aarohi but then in the twelve years after the parents' death, it's only in the last three that she goes away, presumably to pursue her studies. Aarohi does say hurtfully that those were the best years of her life, but it doesn't mean that she was the one who drove her away.. That point is unresolved.. Aarohi's active wronging of Akshu started only with the Abhimanyu matter. Mine is a minority opinion, but initially it would have looked to Aarohi, it's understandable I feel, that Abhimanyu was rightly hers because his family want her as their bahu, and to her mind she is better suited.. Being a cold person who doesn't even understand love, her being attracted to Abhimanyu and materially matching him is seen by her as what would develop into love.. That's why she accepts his indecent proposal too bcz she thinks his mistaken infatuation for Akshu due to her singing will eventually wear off. Anyways, so Akshu's love for Aarohi is definitely beyond what is normal or usual, but it isn't some neurotic obsession and she hasn't been blackmailed or manipulated by either her mother or Aarohi to be this way.

I neither understand akshara for her deep love for aarohi nor do i understand abhimanyu's deep love for akshara- where are these coming from?

credit goes to auston-eliot for the backstory

I wasn't tagged here but I might as well give my reasons😃

Well he definitely doesn't give her any space😆but here's why I think he fell for her:-

1) Her voice provided solace to him from his toxic household and even helped calm him down

2)She gave all the rice away to the poor. Her generosity and kindness might have been another feature of hers that made him fall for her. Since childhood, he has always seen competition of becoming a doctor, his father and Mami/Anand taunting their kids for not working harder and becoming successful so her priority to help the poor instead of trying to win a competition definitely irked him.

3)Her gentle nature reminds him of his mother

4) She seemed very loving to everyone, even strangers when he first met her. He has craved love from everyone since his childhood.

4)She is very beautiful M.A😆.Although we haven't seen Abhi praising her beauty taht much in sure it's a reason why he fell for her.

5)Opposites attract. In the beginning we saw Akshu as a bubbly girl who hides her pain in her smiles and Abhi as a serious doctor who hates his house(they've made him into a jolly lovesick puppy now😵). I guess their different personalities eventually led them to fall in love.

it’s quite nice to read such varied viewpoints on this forum. I always like how on this forum, some/many viewers can analyze characters without having to resort to lead-worshipping. brings back the old days.

That’s a pretty good analysis on the Sirat-Akshu-Aru part. I detested Sirat but yeah, she never conditioned Akshu to be servile to Aaru. Akshu, even before finding the truth out about Naira, had been too attached to Aru. Sirat’s promise came much later and even then it wasn’t something major. It was more of a “take care of her” not “be a slave to her.” That was always Akshu’s characterization, from the start which became more pronounced and reinforced in future, by her own will and by Aru’s detachment and later manipulation.

Akshu’s “love” for Aru is problematic and a close second is Abhi’s obsession for Akshu. I never understood why the writers made them fall in “love” in a literally 2-din-ka-trip. When they gave us such well developed stories of Naksh and Kaira. Even KeeSh who had a rushed development was not as fast as AbhiRa. Then they did the same blunder with Kairav-Anisha. Love stories should be developed with a good foundation so that we can connect to it.

I don't think there is any reason for loving someone..abhimanyu doesn't like selfish, self centered people who only think about their personal gains and interests and Don't care about other's emotions because has seen his mother suffer because of this..he has seen how birlas never treatt their children nicely and always pressurize them to live upto their expectations..that's why abhimanyu hates harsh and aarohi..they both are selfish to the core..

Abhimanyu was attracted to overall Aura of akshara..she is kind, beautiful, has a melodious voice, she is graceful, talks softly and doesn't compete with everyone to become best in life unlike aarohi and other birlas who compete for everything..this entire personality of akshara impressed abhimanyu and he instantly fell for her..this love started as an infatuation..many people who do arranged marriage meet their partners once or twice and decide to get married..here also abhimanyu was deeply impressed with akshara and wanted to marry her..she was exactly the type of girl that he wanted in his life..so he got attached to her the moment he saw her. And later this love got deeper and more intense.

Aarohi's insecurities regarding akshara is fine..because she's the step sister who lost her mother so she feels threatened by akshara's presence..but what I despise about aarohi the most is what she did when abhimanyu came into their lives..aarohi had NO rights on abhimanyu..just because she's a doctor doesn't mean that she can claim abhimanyu..marrying in the same profession is a choice its not mandatory..and it doesn't matter that harsh and manjari liked aarohi becoz its abhimanyu's life and only he has the right to choose who he loves and who he wants to marry..it should be abhimanyu's decision and he chose akshara..so aarohi should've backed off and respected abhimanyu's feelings..aarohi blackmailing akshara and forcing her to back off and reject abhimanyu was purely evil..aarohi knew that akshu loves her a lot so she misused that love just to win over a man..abhimanyu isn't the only doctor in Rajasthan..aarohi could've gotten any other doctor who actually loved her and wanted to marry her BUT NO aarohi was obsessed with abhimanyu..claiming rights on a person when that person is least interested in you and loves someone else is obsessive and idiotic behavior..that's what aarohi did when she thought that abhimanyu belongs to her in own delusional world..aarohi would've let go of abhimanyu when he rejected her the first time but what she couldn't digest is that abhimanyu loves her so called Average sister and not her and that's why she started playing games to snatch him from akshara..aarohi just didn't want akshara to have abhimanyu that's all. She wasn't in love with him at all

Originally posted by: ayushisingh29

I don't think there is any reason for loving someone..abhimanyu doesn't like selfish, self centered people who only think about their personal gains and interests and Don't care about other's emotions because has seen his mother suffer because of this..he has seen how birlas never treatt their children nicely and always pressurize them to live upto their expectations..that's why abhimanyu hates harsh and aarohi..they both are selfish to the core..

Abhimanyu was attracted to overall Aura of akshara..she is kind, beautiful, has a melodious voice, she is graceful, talks softly and doesn't compete with everyone to become best in life unlike aarohi and other birlas who compete for everything..this entire personality of akshara impressed abhimanyu and he instantly fell for her..this love started as an infatuation..many people who do arranged marriage meet their partners once or twice and decide to get married..here also abhimanyu was deeply impressed with akshara and wanted to marry her..she was exactly the type of girl that he wanted in his life..so he got attached to her the moment he saw her. And later this love got deeper and more intense.

Aarohi's insecurities regarding akshara is fine..because she's the step sister who lost her mother so she feels threatened by akshara's presence..but what I despise about aarohi the most is what she did when abhimanyu came into their lives..aarohi had NO rights on abhimanyu..just because she's a doctor doesn't mean that she can claim abhimanyu..marrying in the same profession is a choice its not mandatory..and it doesn't matter that harsh and manjari liked aarohi becoz its abhimanyu's life and only he has the right to choose who he loves and who he wants to marry..it should be abhimanyu's decision and he chose akshara..so aarohi should've backed off and respected abhimanyu's feelings..aarohi blackmailing akshara and forcing her to back off and reject abhimanyu was purely evil..aarohi knew that akshu loves her a lot so she misused that love just to win over a man..abhimanyu isn't the only doctor in Rajasthan..aarohi could've gotten any other doctor who actually loved her and wanted to marry her BUT NO aarohi was obsessed with abhimanyu..claiming rights on a person when that person is least interested in you and loves someone else is obsessive and idiotic behavior..that's what aarohi did when she thought that abhimanyu belongs to her in own delusional world..aarohi would've let go of abhimanyu when he rejected her the first time but what she couldn't digest is that abhimanyu loves her so called Average sister and not her and that's why she started playing games to snatch him from akshara..aarohi just didn't want akshara to have abhimanyu that's all. She wasn't in love with him at all

So that way abhimanyu is also handsome, kind, intelligent , topper doctor - man of Aarohi's dream like akshara is for Abhimanyu. Abhimanyu isn't doing a great favour by loving akshara- it is his own fantasy to have a girl who is "maa jaisi" and protect her just like he protects his maa.

Aarohi was instantly attracted to the topper doctor because of his aura and wanted him to be her husband. Abhimanyu's family also wanted them to get married. Yes i know when abhimanyu declared he loves akshara- that should have been the end of persuading Abhimanyu as he is publically declaring he has no interest in her and any self respecting women should.

But what abhimanyu did is no better- being self confident is okay but he didn't ask akshara about the intensity of her feelings or her desire to get married- he liked her, do he wanted to marry her and straight to goenka's. I don't like his attitude towards girls- it's always been about what abhimanyu wants. First he went for akshara but when akshara rejected, he went to aarohi ON HIS OWN TERMS. Even abhimanyu kept persuading akshara which he shouldn't have just like aarohi shouldn't have persuade abhimanyu. Rejection means rejection.

If you watch something like this in real life, you will call it a crime patrol episode of jija being after sali. Here just because akshara was in love too with abhi doesn't justify his actions. I would personally never be attracted with a guy like that who doesn't ask me about what I feel like and straightaway comes to my house with proposal, then forces me to confess because of his undying love for me and then chooses my own sister to get married. That's so messed up and disgusting

Originally posted by: borntorule12

So that way abhimanyu is also handsome, kind, intelligent , topper doctor - man of Aarohi's dream like akshara is for Abhimanyu. Abhimanyu isn't doing a great favour by loving akshara- it is his own fantasy to have a girl who is "maa jaisi" and protect her just like he protects his maa.

Aarohi was instantly attracted to the topper doctor because of his aura and wanted him to be her husband. Abhimanyu's family also wanted them to get married. Yes i know when abhimanyu declared he loves akshara- that should have been the end of persuading Abhimanyu as he is publically declaring he has no interest in her and any self respecting women should.

But what abhimanyu did is no better- being self confident is okay but he didn't ask akshara about the intensity of her feelings or her desire to get married- he liked her, do he wanted to marry her and straight to goenka's. I don't like his attitude towards girls- it's always been about what abhimanyu wants. First he went for akshara but when akshara rejected, he went to aarohi ON HIS OWN TERMS. Even abhimanyu kept persuading akshara which he shouldn't have just like aarohi shouldn't have persuade abhimanyu. Rejection means rejection.

If you watch something like this in real life, you will call it a crime patrol episode of jija being after sali. Here just because akshara was in love too with abhi doesn't justify his actions. I would personally never be attracted with a guy like that who doesn't ask me about what I feel like and straightaway comes to my house with proposal, then forces me to confess because of his undying love for me and then chooses my own sister to get married. That's so messed up and disgusting

And considering aarohi's dreams of marrying abhimanyu..I've already clarified that aarohi liking abhimanyu was not wrong..its okay that he was her dream man so she wanted to marry him..but what's wrong is when aarohi started playing games and manipulating her sister and taking her credits just to win over abhimanyu..she should've ended her infatuation with abhimanyu the moment abhimanyu he rejected her..

And same goes for abhimanyu..he had no rights to force akshara to confess her feelings..but if you see the previous episodes abhimanyu clearly stopped pursuing akshara when she rejected him in birla house..he didn't go behind her when she was leaving the city..even when Kairav told him that akshara was going away from the city he didn't stop her..Neil kept on asking abhimanyu to try once more but he didn't..he took her No as a No..

But akshara came back to celebrate his birthday and then saved him in ruby case..this gesture gave false hopes to abhimanyu then he once again tried to ask her about her feelings but she rejected him again and called him 'Koi bhi'..abhimanyu was deeply hurt by this and finally decided to move on..

Then manjari started doing her drama and forced abhimanyu to marry aarohi and he agreed for his mother..after this whatever happened there is no justification for that ..all the 3 characters got entangled in this mess and started behaving recklessly..aarohi ignored all signs even when she saw abhira together in abhimanyu's cabin and in the hut in jungle when they were drunk.. she had full confidence on akshara that akshara won't go against her..abhimanyu started pursuing akshara again because he loved her crazy and was not interested in marrying aarohi..and mahaan akshara kept getting physically close to abhimanyu and hugging him when he was her sister's would be husband..all 3 of them made mistakes..which led to the disaster on aarohi's wedding day..if anyone of them spoke up on right time..things wouldn't have gone this far..abhimanyu should've ended his marriage before wedding day because of his feelings OR Akshara should've confessed her feelings before..OR aarohi should've backed off and let abhira be together but none of them did the right thing..

The main difference between aarohi and abhimanyu's wrongdoings is their intention..abhimanyu was genuinely hurting and trying to move on when akshara rejected him on birla house on the other side aarohi never tried to move on from abhimanyu when he rejected her in first Tilak..she was determined to snatch him from akshara and started playing mind games..aarohi would've still married abhimanyu in temple IF he accepted her even after seeing abhira hugging each other in temple on her wedding day..forget about that..aarohi would still marry abhimanyu even NOW if he leaves akshara and accepts her..she's that desperate..2 days back aarohi was still thinking that abhimanyu chose akshara over a doctor like her..she has still not accepted the truth.. I would've sympathized with aarohi if she decided to leave abhimanyu on her own and chose her self respect but she only backed off when she was kicked away by abhimanyu and rejected at the altar on her wedding day..

Originally posted by: borntorule12

I get he fell for her voice, kindness, sweet face but is that all ?

I don't think knowing someone's personality traits can make you a person who is so crazily in love. You become this crazy in love after you've spend good amount of time with that person and have beeautiful, funny moments.

I'm sure there must be other good sanskari singer girls in udaipur. So why only akshara? That's the question.

Abhimanyu was a person just not into girls. Suddenly his life has become about a girl and everything she does. What makes him so go crazy about her?

I know loving someone doesn't need a reason but i feel this soul connection is highlighted too much in these season. We have hardly seen akshu abhi talk like normal human beings. Instead of cheesy sequences, i would prefer if they actually talk. It's like we are being made to believe they are a couple but we are not shown how. In real life, couples dont just keep romancing and dreaming about each other- it's about how much you enjoy talking to each other. There were so many interactions between naksh and kaira- we are hardly shown anything here. All we get is abhi akshu doing flying kissies, abhi becoming akshu's rescuer- be it goons , she getting drunk, or they talk about aarohi

It looks like they are obsessed with marriage but why are they so obsessed? As apart from that , they can do pretty much everything but we've hardly seen anything apart from that - like normal couple conversations.

Also, I find it weird that people keep calling aarohi names here. I'm not an aarohi fan. I like akshu more but i want to know what aarohi is done so big ?

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I neither understand akshara for her deep love for aarohi nor do i understand abhimanyu's deep love for akshara- where are these coming from?

I really hope they don't make aarohi a vamp. A topper doctor reduced to a clown who has nothing to do in life but create kaands in her sister and jija's life- that's so regressive and unrealistic to watch.

I am not tagged but still here's my 2 cents on your post.

Abhi's love for akshara:

• He had a lot of affection within but felt the people around him to be undeserving, hence always been dutiful to his profession and cut off from his family, but the entry of Akshara in his life has changed that perspective, the irritatingthings before started seeming OK to him suddenly because he felt more settled within.
• Trust me nothing can change a person more than the entry of significant other into life. He started living his life whereas he was barely scraping through till then.
• If you remember he was listening to music that's his way of cutting off from things which bother him and the voice of akshara has evoked emotions in him like never before and he wasn't able to forget her voice, he thought of going away to a festival as an escape from her thoughts, only to find her there as well, that's how soul connections happen.
• People often term it sanjog or past life connection, please find the below verse from padmapurana

"Runanubhanda Rupena Pashu Patni Suta Aalaya
Runakshaye Kshyayaanthi Tatra Parivedana"

Meaning: Every relationship is the result of previous birth bondage. Once the debt is annihilated, there is no relationship and hence the end of suffering in this Saṃsāra.

So coming back to the story remember it's about love at first sight between the leads, it just happens for no apparent reason, trust me none can explain how lifelong unbreakable bonds do form in a minute and life before that person can feel non existent or seem like past life.

Why is Arohi bad:

• Her attitude that she's a doctor and efforts to be the best in everything by hook or crook.
• Belittling her sister who is only being affectionate to her doesn't bode well.
• Not understanding the power of love, not having any gratitude for kbhaiyya or others in the family.
• Not having any self respect, above all being desperate to get into Abhi's life despite the fact that he only loves her sister.

Akshara's love for arohi:

• After mom a girl can relate to her sister and akshara couldn't disown her sister, despite knowing the reality that sirat isn't her biological mom, in that case it's natural for people to be clingy to their sister as she has already lost her mom Naira.
• Also akshara had gratitude to sirat for providing her enough motherly affection, it's natural for people to question their badluck when unfortunate things repeat and hence akshara went into that self guilt mode after sirat's accident because sirat walked down the 🛕 temple stairs for akshara and she also blamed her badluck for sirat's untimely demise.
• Akshara being a kid never realised the need to have checks and balances in her affection to arohi, to the point where it became unconditional love for her and started seeming obsessessive for others.

Totally agree. Ok, if the concept of love at first sight or whatever is developed upon, but where is the story. People might feel like it is a comparison, but I genuinely feel it is the writers lack of creativity/laziness and are fault at it.

Yrkkh writers have been not much good since last 2 yrs. The progression of Naksh & Kaira was well written, it wasn't rushed. So, made sense.

Maybe here they r trying to show the wedding to probably give a better story after marriage, because honestly most of the sequences toll now, even the wedding ones look like the scenarios copied frm kaira, just with role reversals here & there.