Molkki Chatting Corner #57 - Page 119

Originally posted by: pallavi_p28

When I break a glass

Mom says: haa tod do, sab tod do, glass bhi, ghar bhi, ek ek samaan tod do

When mom breaks a glass

Mom: kis bewakoof ne glass yaha rakha hai🤣

Mere mom bolte hee nai ke unse glass tooth Gaya. 🤣

Chup chaap se reh jaate hai aur hum sabko pata bhi nai chalta. Mere maid jab poochte hai arre glasses Kam kaise ho gaye toh bolte hai, tumhe hee thoda hoga, koi nahi galti sabse ho jaati hai 🤣

Originally posted by: kenika

utn kareeb to phir rajsthan bhi hai..😈

Abbe 👋👋👋👋👋👋👋

Originally posted by: BossLady

As per Hindu Customs,we've this ritual of Kanyadaan where parents give away their daughter to the groom.

There was a ad of Manyavar which featured Alia Bhat where she was sitting as a bride and asked the question, "Am I, a woman,a commodity  to be given away in charity?"

Why must a woman be commodified through the custom of kanyadaan?

This particular thing created a fierce polemic where people from different strata of Society came forward and jilted this particular ritual.

Do you think is it imperative for us to abide by this ritual in present times where we are talking of equality, rights of girls to education, rights to have share in property, everything! 

Does the kanyadaan serve any purpose in today's society?

Or kanyadaan has been misinterpreted? 

Ab to mai Roz ek news padh hi leti hu where girls are putting it down,saying papa mai saman nahi.🌚🌝

What do you guys think😆😆

Vaise mere 10th mai hindi mai poem bhi thi 

Kanyadaan- Rituraj ki🤓🤓

As Manasi mentioned,the tradition of giving away daughter’s hand in marriage is a cutom that is followed across the globe. The degree of following it literally might differ.

India is a highly populous country; hence you will find people/families who fit into a wide range of spectrum. In deep rural pockets of the country, you will find families who still consider a girl child as "Paraayadhan". While OTOH, you can also find families who treat their daughters as normal capable individuals.

Kanyadhaan, like many other customs was implemented many years ago when "marriage" was considered as a bargain, which heavily revolved around spousal roles in marriage. Now the broader culture has changed when it comes to gender roles in a marriage.

Since the definition of marriage itself has changed, the custom(s) leading to it also requires a major rehaul. However, remember that customs/traditions are in place to fit a wide range, sort of stitching a large dress that anyone(fat/skinny) can fit in.  It is up to us to tailor it to suit our needs.

Is it imperative? No,it is not imperative.  Think about why we follow customs & traditions in general, even when we don’t believe in it or makes no sense?  It is usually to please our elders or loved ones. 

I hope that answered your question and not confuse you further. 

Good day every will start my work at noon

Originally posted by: kenika

aapko FL pasand nahi..😳

Tulsi mai aisi kya specialty thi..🙄

Aur anu bhi nahi pasand..😂😂

Tulsi was first love ❤ 🤣

Anu pasand hai but can be terribly servile which gets on my nerves. Self respect and dignity are non-negotiable traits for me...so that creates a problem when it come to Anu

Originally posted by: pallavi_p28

When I break a glass

Mom says: haa tod do, sab tod do, glass bhi, ghar bhi, ek ek samaan tod do

When mom breaks a glass

Mom: kis bewakoof ne glass yaha rakha hai🤣

🤣🤣 Mummyion ke double standards😈

Originally posted by: kenika

Bahut random hai... Par chalo aap kehte hai to dikhati huu... Par please judge mat karna..🤧

सुकून का एक किस्सा हो गया... 

चांद जब से रातों का हिस्सा हो गया.. 

बदलियाॅं कईं सूरज का सफर तय कर आती है.. 

समेट उसे आंचल में कुछ पल इत्मिनान पाती हैं.. 

वक्त भी कुछ पल अपने चुरा, चैन ढुँढने आता है

समा के अपने में चुपके से ,जिंदगी पा जाता है.. 

अठखेलियाँ करता खुबसुरती का किस्सा हो गया.. 

चांद जब से रातों का हिस्सा हो गया.. ❤

रात चांद हवायें सन्नाटा.. सुकून के भी कुछ अपने मायने हैं.. ❤️

युं हाथ थाम चल तु मेरा.. कि साथ की गर्माहट बनी रहे.. ❤

Let your heart be at peace sometimes.. 

Let him breathe..

Let him break his own myth..

Let him shout his sorrow sometimes...

Let him enjoy his own time...

Let him choose what he want.. 

Let him do what he want.. 

Let your heart be at peace sometimes.. 

❤

एक दौर कुछ बातें.. 

बीता वो दौर रह गई यादें.. 

काश कभी वक्त का हो हॅंसी ये सितम.. 

कि लौटे वो दौर और लौट आये वो बातें.. 😌

काश कि कुछ ऐसा हो जाये.. 

हम पंछी बन नील गगन में खो जाये.. 

ना चिंता उमरों की ना फिकर जरुरतों की.. 

जो मिले उसी में सबर हो जाये.. 

हम भी बस यायावर हो जाये.. 

नभ की अनंत गहराइयों को नाप आऐ...

बस उसी लम्हे में जिंदगी को भांप आए... 

काश  कि कुछ ऐसा हो जाये.. 

हम पंछी बन नील गगन में खो जाये.. ❤

 

सांस तु..विश्वास तु.. खास तु.. तलाश तु.. 

तु ही सुकून तु ही जुनून.. हर काश कि इक आस तु.. 

तु सब दुख परेशानियों उलझन से निकाल लेगा..

 मैं जानती हुॅं मेरे महादेव तु सब संभाल लेगा..❤

Ye kuch hai..bas aise hii likh leti huu mai kabhi kabhi.. Haa utni acchi nahi hai..par fir bhi..😝🙈