Bade Achhe Lagte hain 2 EDT #28 - Page 61

Today, I didn’t enjoy Nandu in that combo scene, Shubhu was the scene stealer (after the blushing, smiling Pri ofcourse)

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

To tell you the truth. These things happen in the initial days of marriage if you are living in a joint family. I would say even though Ram and Priya have been married for 6 months, its now they have started having those feeling. They are yet to handle this romance in front of others. I actually liked that scene where is both are irritated that the family is coming not because they dislike them because these two wanted to have some lone time with each other.😳

Eventually they will learn to hide things from the family and have their own secrets.

I feel when Priya gets to know abt Ram's past or about his fathers past she will stand by him just like how he stood by her after knowing her father had planned to kill him,

Well said 👏🏼👏🏼

I can’t imagine what will make either of them leave the other.

Originally posted by: Zanutix

Ram has time and again witnessed how cruel MS is and how badly he treats his ex-family.

Why would he punish Priya for something MS did? If there is one on the cards, it's likely that it will be initiated by Priya, out of guilt.

Originally posted by: tirchinazar

Do you have issues with MM or are you jealous of her 🤣🤣

Originally posted by: tirchinazar

There is a MISTAKE in the FBs shown. Priya remembers Holi sequence 🤣

she remembered n’s broken nose too🤣

Originally posted by: Real_Me

Yeah, that troubles me, Ram having to hire an unqualified person, and also why is Krish insisting Ram to buy the resort just because he couldn’t make the person talk? How can Ram make an investment like that without thinking from business perspective?

Originally posted by: averma1

Varun and Sara got married either right after VK’s accident or within a year. Eshan is 13 so they have to have been married for at least 14 years .

MM has a conditioned response to MS as from the beginning he has kept her down, chipped away at her self worth, and as evidenced today not only has mentally, emotionally but also physically abused her. She can be strong as a mother for her kids but when it comes to herself she has the psyche of an abuse victim. While staying in an abusive relationship the victim uses coping strategies. These coping strategies tend to be self-protective in nature; they include denial, minimization, addictions, arguing, defensiveness, rationalization, compliance, detachment, and dissociation.
Victims are notorious for being conditioned to walk on eggshells in the relationship in order to try to prevent or minimize any future occurrences of upsetting the abuser.

Victims will slowly lose their sense of self because they are being continually conditioned to only focus outside of themselves. They have learned to be hyper-vigilant to the feelings and reactions of others and have stopped focusing on their own internal feelings. Their feelings and thoughts are invalidated so often that victims stop listening to their own inner voices. This causes victims to become personal shells of who they really are.
So that’s how I justify MM and her expressions.

This makes a lot of sense, but in the initial episodes we were shown Meera standing upto him when he badmouthed Pri (once she went to his house to taunt him about fixing pri’s wedding) and she sent him away when she got to know he was plotting to stop the wedding. For me these were reactions of mother protecting her cub, where are these instincts when he attempted to kill her children (including Ram too here)

Originally posted by: Hero_Coconut

I always do buddy😳

I know. If you look at the surface, then some scenes were actually good today. Wait for Doc's post, she might explain somethings about last episode.

I have to collect all thoughts on today's episode plus busy bhi hoon. So, I will see if I can write in points to explain the four treatments.

Originally posted by: ajacob31

This is where Krish's motive becomes suspicious too. Who's he o promise somebody on Ram's behalf? Ram also doesn't dispute what he said, may be he wants the person to talk in any which way?

See, if they could have got the police to reopen the case, such things will be simpler, witnesses will be obliged to talk. Can you imagine the richest man being not able to influence police in this country?

Originally posted by: averma1

Varun and Sara got married either right after VK’s accident or within a year. Eshan is 13 so they have to have been married for at least 14 years .

MM has a conditioned response to MS as from the beginning he has kept her down, chipped away at her self worth, and as evidenced today not only has mentally, emotionally but also physically abused her. She can be strong as a mother for her kids but when it comes to herself she has the psyche of an abuse victim. While staying in an abusive relationship the victim uses coping strategies. These coping strategies tend to be self-protective in nature; they include denial, minimization, addictions, arguing, defensiveness, rationalization, compliance, detachment, and dissociation.
Victims are notorious for being conditioned to walk on eggshells in the relationship in order to try to prevent or minimize any future occurrences of upsetting the abuser.

Victims will slowly lose their sense of self because they are being continually conditioned to only focus outside of themselves. They have learned to be hyper-vigilant to the feelings and reactions of others and have stopped focusing on their own internal feelings. Their feelings and thoughts are invalidated so often that victims stop listening to their own inner voices. This causes victims to become personal shells of who they really are.
So that’s how I justify MM and her expressions.