Originally posted by: rittika
@bold and Underline this has my whole ❤️ , yes akshu would have chosen abhi at any cost at any time.
Abhi's insecurities at this point is all time high which are not denied and justified too but the thing is he is the one who understand her the most and still not able to understand his POV inspite of being told clearly she needs time which should be given to anyone who just make a difficult decision of her life.
Everyone brings their own baggage into a relationship. Akshu's baggage is Aarohi, the childhood she spent in trauma without any support, and her failure to ever prioritize herself or even see herself as worthy. This pain is projected onto Abhi. It slows her down and hinders her ability to go to him and open her heart to him fully, even when that is all she wants.
Abhi's baggage is growing up in an abusive household, witnessing all of the couples in loveless marriages. His baggage is trying to save his mom from that abusive marriage and failing... constantly choosing her, when she always chose her abuser of a husband. Again, this pain is projected onto Akshu. It clouds his judgement and understanding of her love.
And some of the decisions and actions they have taken due to their individual baggage has led them to unintentionally deepening each other's wounds.
But with time and understanding, there will come a day when they won't feel so heavy. Because, they will learn to walk alongside each other, carrying each other's burdens and supporting each other through life.
Even if this baggage doesn't ever go away, they now have someone who will do everything in their power to help them carry it. And that's what matters most. The first step is understanding and recognizing that these issues exist, which they are currently figuring out.
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